To the woman who left me a note instead of a tip at my restaurant because I was saying "hey guys" or "thanks guys" to some customers of both genders... please be a human being and politely point out (to my face please) that YOU are offended by my use of gender specific titles for groups of people and maybe suggest a better way. I mean no disrespect and have never had a bad reaction to saying "guys" even to girls. Your note and your behaviour were extremely judgmental and rude, claiming that I was ignorant and clueless and borderline sexist and who knows what else you think of me. You don't know me and you don't know my intentions... I was raised by a wonderfully progressive mother to respect people of different races, sexual preferences and lifestyles and to never judge them... Your note is completely hypocritical and I will not serve you again unless you apologize and explain yourself to me. I've never been so angry at someone in my life. Next time.... if you have a suggestion... find a better more humane way of informing someone. —Recently Judged Human