Dan Savage

Here is the very nearly complete transcript of Woman Enjoys Tag Teaming’s online chat with Guy Turned Bi. Enjoy. GTB: Hi there, nice profile… what do you think of bi guys? WETT: one moment please, checking out your profile… WETT: What the hell? You’re in ! What am I to do with a guy, bi […]

Q You don’t need yet another editor, but I thought you missed a subtle point in SLINORLA’s letter. There’s nothing wrong with his Second Life existence, or what he does in it. And it’s sad that his wife can’t be more understanding of his needs and supportive of his hobby. The point you may have […]

Just so I understand, it’s OK to consensually, have sex dressed like a fuzzy animal, wear diapers, act-rape, slurp someone’s santorum, pee all over someone, attach and activate shock devices to genitalia, fist, role play, prod, probe and peg. But you can’t think about someone who is dead when you masturbate? I hope this is […]

I was at a science-fiction convention, wandering between a free-cappuccino booth and a free-hard-cider booth, a little drunk and a little buzzed, when an amazingly HOT man wandered into my blurry field of vision. My first thought was, “Wow, his boyfriend is lucky!” Built, 6’ 3” and furry as a walking carpet—just my type! He […]

From the time I was a teen, I knew I had this “thing” for diapers, most likely stemming from a father who berated me for not being manly enough and a mother who threatened to put me back in diapers. (I was an occasional bed wetter until age 14.) Somehow those insults and threats worked […]

I was browsing the Planned Parenthood website and something totally surprised me. In their birth control (BC) section, they quote the percentage of women who get pregnant during the first year of using a particular method. The interesting part: The breastfeeding method (mothers who are full-time breastfeeding, haven’t had a period, less than six months […]

I thought your response to FOG was spot on. The fact that she dumped a guy whom she had contemplated marrying over a foot fetish (of all things) was bad enough—from what we can infer, the guy was never overbearing about his kink, and rubbed FOG’s feet for her pleasure (relief after a hard day […]

I was curious about the letter from the girl who said her boyfriend’s face goes numb…my boyfriend has a similar reaction when he comes from oral sex… sometimes it is just a tingly “pins and needles” feeling in which his eyelids flutter and all his muscles contract involuntarily while other times he says it’s so […]

You would think I had single-handedly defeated Rick Santorum, judging by the thousands of emails I’ve received since last Tuesday. A sampling… You toppled a senator, Dan! And while Rick Santorum may be gone, the word for the frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the byproduct of anal sex will live […]