My humiliating loss-of-virginity story is so incredibly unbelievable that it’s virtually an urban legend among my friends. But I swear that each and every word of this is true. When I was in high school I was awarded the opportunity to go on a foreign exchange to a lovely tropical paradise—ah, Brazil—for senior year. As […]
Dan Savage
Savage Love web-extra.
The guy who puts semen on his friends’ toothbrushes is committing sexual assault. No one should be forced or tricked into coming in contact with another’s semen. Once, in college, while perusing a campus online discussion forum, I came across a posting from a woman who said her male friend had revealed to her that […]
Savage Love bonus letters
I have a GGG question. I like it a lot when my girlfriend calls me “daddy” during sex. In fact I’d like it even more if she would carry out the theme a bit. I want to hear what a bad girl she has been and how she needs a good screwing from her daddy. […]
Savage Love Web Extra
SASA wasn’t assaulted or raped. Adults are responsible for the boundaries of their consent and SASA put very few limits upon what he was willing to do. My spidey sense was tingling at the thought of entering, not once, but twice, an unfamiliar, darkened apartment that belonged to persons unknown. (Yikes! Run!) Once inside, SASA […]

