I’m surprised at you! Both in your response to AWOL and in a response a while back to another woman who had difficulty/discomfort sucking cock, you failed to mention one tip that I remember reading in your column way back when I was a teen in the late ’80s. I’m a small woman and I’ve […]
Dan Savage
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Pot shots
I loved your advice to PROP. I am a 25-year-old woman with a healthy sex life, thanks to pot. I have a hard time relaxing and being comfortable with my naked body (although I’m attractive), but smoking weed alleviates my anxiety so I can get down. I don’t smoke every time I have sex, but […]
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Savage Love wextra
I’ve never felt the urge to write before, but the letter from GREEN struck a nerve with me. I was in a very similar situation when I was at the end of high school—slightly older guy, very sweet most of the time, but when he decided that something (me talking on the phone with a […]
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Savage Love Wextra
Just as you can say things such as “pansy-assed,” Dan, and it’s funny, your boyfriend can shop and cook for you and it’s charming. But cooking and cleaning for a boyfriend when you’re a woman is not so picturesque. It’s just old and tired. I understand where your reply to Just That Into Him is […]
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Mark Foley & Me
You know how after each Bush-administration scandal—male prostitutes running amok in the White House, Bin Laden Determined to Attack in US, domestic spying—you sit there thinking, Shit, if Clinton had done that he’d be impeached! I felt something similar this week listening to Republicans attempt to excuse or minimize the Mark Foley scandal. When White […]
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Savage Love
I worked as a legal advocate for battered women for years, and I’d like to “fill out” your advice to LIFE a little, on the assumption that his lady-friend is telling the truth. (And I think this is worth addressing, because far too many women are in her situation, and this is worth a little […]
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Tell Capitalist Mom GFE (Google fucking exists).
I hit Google myself after reading your article, and got a plethora of articles on milk banks, moms looking to sell and various shopping sites apparently pimping it. With a more defined search I’m sure she can find something along her line. Alternatively, she could try asking at her hospital or La Leche Leagueóalthough I […]
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Savage Love
I’m a self-identi?ed she-male who is not a prostitute, and I have a little more advice for the would-be tranny chaser in last week’s column. First off, you need to know the odds—there are a lot more of you than there are of us. For every tranny who posts an ad, there are 20 posted […]
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Savage Love wextra
Last week you wrote this about your readers’ responses to WILLIE and FS: “I find it odd that no long letters arrived laying out what FS was doing wrong. Is it always the man’s fault, I wonder? If something is going wrong in a couple’s sex life, the man must be to blame?” I wanted […]
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Savage Love
I’m a bisexual male in the US Army Reserves who was deployed to Iraq about a year ago. I never came out or told anyone that I’m a sometimes cocksucker. I did, however, talk quite freely about my experiences at swingers’ parties with my ex-girlfriend. Over the course of the deployment, two other male soldiers […]
