I fell for you. We worked together for 7 and a half months and half that time I was pursuing you. I thought for a while you liked me too, but I guess I was mistaken. You realized I was flirting with you and you held me at arm’s length. I finally gave in and have been trying to let go of you. Get you out of my head. Going a month without seeing you helped a lot. I thought everything would work out fine. Then last week we went to a concert together. I was so close to not going, figuring it would be best not to see you. I’m glad I did, our Dartmouth favourite was amazing. But now you’re back in my head. And you seem to be rewarding my backing off by showing renewed friendship. Even though I know you don’t like me, I can’t stop from thinking thoughts. Your kindness is breaking my resolve. You are extraordinary, and I’m a wrecking ball in a summer dress. I want us to be friends, but be patient with my struggle to let my love go. — I’m Travelling Through Space And Time, But Now My Love Must Die
This article appears in Mar 28 – Apr 3, 2013.


The word “love” is thrown around like it has no meaning.
Adult’s playing childish games.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVlX9Ve5Rv4
They say that good things come
To those who wait
Good things come
If you take the bait
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Even though I know you don’t like me,
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What are you, in grade 7?!
You claim they seem to be showing friendship after you “backed off”.
Scientists have found that friendship involves feelings called “Like”.
Back. The. Fuck. Off.
They obviously are not feeling as pressured when you aren’t emotionally smothering them. Take the hint.
And since when is friendship some horrible thing. Be their friend, if they will have you, and pet it develop however it will. Smother them, and they are gone.
Do you understand?
Acting like a freakbait isn’t attractive(generally) to people. Not even to friends.
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I can’t stop from thinking thoughts.
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Get a hobby.
Walk the dog.
Get a life.
You sound desperate. It’s your fault they ran from you.
Change your thoughts and behaviour or you will squander this second chance.
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“Even though I know you don’t like me”
OP did that person tell you that?You shouldn’t make assumptions.
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OP did that person tell you that?You shouldn’t make assumptions.
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Says the woman who doesn’t believe someone isn’t interested in you after they tell you to your face.
A man forgot to let me know that he told me to my face he was interested because I would have remembered being told.If you know this man, tell him he must’ve forgotten to tell me he’s interested in me.
My short term memory may be bad at times but…
TMI on the way, folks.
Again.
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Nop.
Never say never.
But not this time,anyway. 🙂
No one told me to my face they weren’t interested in me either
This is a bizarre love. OL, you’re the one that has to be patient. As a matter of fact I would avoid this person for a while. Maybe less of you will make you more appealing. Sort of a combination of “Absence makes the Heart Fonder” and “Familarity Breeds Contempt”.
“They say that good things come
To those who wait
Good things come
If you take the bait”
Another fishing analogy.
I love to go fishing but I don’t like to go home without.
Maybe you should try a vegetarian diet. Less disappointment.
Fishing is about the fishing not the fish. You can quote me on that if you want. That is if you don’t mind the reply “Who the Hell is Reg LeCrisp?”.
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OP did that person tell you that?You shouldn’t make assumptions.
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Says the woman who doesn’t believe someone isn’t interested in you after they tell you to your face.
Months ago someone did, but then went out of they’re way to send mixed signals.
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“Fishing is about the fishing not the fish.”
I will quote you.Thanks
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I’m not a good Catholic,;I haven’t eaten fish on Fridays in a long time.
” Even though I know you don’t like me, I can’t stop from thinking thoughts.”
Eh Kreskin,you think you can read minds;stick to poker
says the queen of asumption
‘OP did that person tell you that?You shouldn’t make assumptions.’
http://oloa.hwcdsb.ca/site_data/73/Image/c…
PW “http://oloa.hwcdsb.ca/site_data/73/Image/c…”
The link you posted doesn’t work; repost please.
If it’s a dig I wouldn’t want you to be disappointed you missed your chance to insult me?
If your being nice to me I would like to see it?
Good day PW 🙂 🙂
http://assumptionofmary.ca/
How is that a queston ?
‘If it’s a dig I wouldn’t want you to be disappointed you missed your chance to insult me?’
Please continue to hand out advise to peopele that you should practise yourself.The sounds of pot calling to kettle is i ronic.
Ahh I did get it the first time…Good one. 🙂 😛 :> :S
It was half question half pissy remark.To be fair to you PW,you can’t read me mind.
http://www.amazingkreskin.com/
Thanks for the link PW.Kreskin can do some nifty TRICKS.He’s good at manipulation and watching peoples’ reactions;that’s how he can “read minds”.
I should pay OP to read this one guy’s mind.I know denial isn’t just a river in Egypt.I think he is great and that nothing that great has happened to me since my child was born.I want him so bad though.
TMI again,sorry.I’m not sorry for how I feel about him though.
You’re absolutely right Boru! The Nile isn’t just a river in Egypt, it actually runs through ten African countries. Including Egypt, Ethiopia, Uganda, the Democratic Republic of Congo, Burundi, Tanzania, Kenya to name a few. The Nile runs close to 7,000 km so it is pretty impressive.
What’s this wondrous river’s connection to the topic at hand though?
aS long as you’re not making every Bitch and Love about you and the guy you say treated you badly,i’m alright with you putting on a smile and thinking you’re counter-trolling me.
😀
‘TMI again,sorry.I’m not sorry for how I feel about him though.’
Ah!Check you out. You made a funny!Youve really shown me havent you?
‘What’s this wondrous river’s connection to the topic at hand though?’
its like one thought,alone in the middle of unrelated thougts.
PW I’m confused,why so angry with me?Just level with me.
I don’t like to rude or mean to anyone unless provoked.
Sure I can be a pain in the ass by writing stupid or inappropriate comments.But I’m not stupid or as crazy or weird as I’m sure I must seem on here..If you would meet me and decide for yourself if I’m totally fucked?…I dare you…I double dare you.
“I should pay OP to read this one guy’s mind.I know denial isn’t just a river in Egypt.I think he is great and that nothing that great has happened to me since my child was born.I want him so bad though.”
PW I was trying to say at times I think I’m not good enough for him;I wonder what he sees in me;if he does like me.
It’s not really a fucked up or weird thought.Again PW meet me in person to see I’m not a dooling mouth breather .
Last night I think a friend left a message asking me to go out and I missed it.I’m so angry at myself,I feel like banging my head against the wall….I’m not a moron but at times I come close to it.
How does this relate to the thread?
Is it possible that telling this to these guys would get results, instead of TMI’ing it to everyone but them on the boards?
It’s a rhetorical question. I know the answer. Everyone does but you.
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How does this relate to the thread?
Is it possible that telling this to these guys would get results, instead of TMI’ing it to everyone but them on the boards?
It’s a rhetorical question. I know the answer. Everyone does but you.
I mentioned it to tell PW the Troll I had nothing to do.YEA YEA i KNOW i DIDN’T MAKE MY reason for bringing that up clear.Fucking shoot me….Gonna go drink some wine while i watch a movie curled up on the couch with a blanket if anyone would like to join me just Hallor….There in other words I’m not going to wallow in self petty for a while.
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.There in other words I’m not going to wallow in self petty for a while.
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http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/eye%20rolling%20gif
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Boru, a troll just wants you to feel hurt and confused or make you feel small. That’s what entertains them, they’re not going to give you explanations and they definitely don’t want to meet for coffee. Ignore them and they will go away.
My Nile reference was an attempt to break the string of thought or maybe redirect it.
Exactly! I said that weeks ago.
P
It’s a rhetorical question. I know the answer. Everyone does but you.
…because I don’t have years of experience with being in a chat room doesn’t mean I’m stupid or willfully blind.
It simply means I haven’t been a member of a chat room for a long time, willfully blind is denial that something good would happen to me.
Okay then.
http://www.dr4ward.com/dr4ward/2011/03/don…
BERU calme down again movin wayyy to fas. despration comin throu loud an clear. beru chilll out okey dokey.
I say this as someone who wishes nothing but the best for you: If you can’t tell when someone is very blatantly saying something to try and get a rise out of you, then maybe you shouldn’t be commenting on an anonymous website.
Well, we all have to learn how to ‘internet’ at some point, ‘matron. 😛
Yes some can me much too kind,assholes like “u” take advantage.
The problem is you.You don’t know what you want,also you are afraid of what you really want. making problems were none exists in order to run away from your true feelings.You must find that being addicted to sex chat rooms doesn’t give you the love you crave.Friendly observation/concern
Since the OL doesn’t mention “being addicted to sex chat rooms”, are we presuming this is your experience being offered as a warning?
Waitaminit.
Are you addressing your therapist again in the forum?
fffffuuuuuuuu
Attention Whore at 10 o’clock high, Bitches.
wp