You have no clue what your scumbag husband does or your too stupid to realize you need to get away from him. You admit your in a loveless marriage that you haven’t slept together in 7 years.
Your not in it for the money since you had to declare bankruptcy 2 years ago. You are the financial provider sure as hell not him.He expects his 90 year old mother to take both of you in if you lose the house. I don’t call that a man. Bet he wants to take over his mom house when she passes on as it will be paid in full. Then it will start to fall apart as he is too lazy to fix things.
NO ONE Likes him how can he have friends when all he does is take his meds and drinks and smokes, He doesn’t have friends as he is too lazy to get his useless ass out and get a job.
You have no clue how much family support you will have if you ever dump his sorry ass.
He never has a nice word to say about you or your family. I hate the things he says about you and you just accept it and laugh it off.
Probably cause it is your family helping you guys out and he has no intentions of paying anyone back cause he thinks the world owes him.PLUS he is too lazy to get a job. he is a fucking waste of space good for nothing.
There will be no loss when he is gone.
Lose him before you are homeless and your family gives up on you because of him.
Your family is scared to lose you with what is going on so please get out of it all before it is too late. —happily single friend
This article appears in Dec 26, 2013 – Jan 1, 2014.
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I stopped reading.
You could have saved yourself a lot of keystrokes, OP. You’d be better off crocheting lobster nets than trying to help your self-imprisoned friend.
I’ve learned one thing about women like your friend – they will never, ever leave their useless scumbag husbands no matter how badly they’re treated. This coil of steaming, rancid shit with testicles has reduced your friend’s life to the size of a postage stamp BUT she allowed it.
Do your best, OP, but she’ll never realize how bad it was until said scumbag moves on or dies. I’ve seen more women waste their entire adult lives this way. Don’t waste yours fretting over this friend who has made her choice.
Agree T.T. my mother struggled with alcohol and depression for years, then my step-father asked for a divorce and, while the first year was rough for her, she is a whole new (much happier) person now.
2014 picks up right where 2013 left off. Instead of venting to a bunch of anonymous strangers on here, who don’t give a fiddlers fuck, you might want to try discussing this with your so called friend?
And, after she dumps him, you can then be free to continue fucking him, minus the guilt?
Bitches like this one really make me start to take MM’s ‘Halifax underclass’ talk seriously.
Maybe, OB, your friend realizes that, if she left him hecould not only go after spousal support, as she’s the main breadwinner, but half of her canada pension for the years they were married and any other work pension she has.
She’s going to be financially chained to this asshole forever because he sure as hell won’t be too lazy to go after all that shit.
Frig, my dad divorced his first wife in 81 and she gets $125 off his CPP and they were only married 10 years and he got ass raped in the spousal support department… Until she remarried.
And since inheritances arent considered marital assets and she’d have no claim to that house of his ma’s in a divorce, your friend might as well stay and live in a free house. *shrug*
Maybe that’s what she’s thinking about.
“Sitting around taking meds and drinking all day”, sounds like they can have a bright future, if only they lived in Cape Breton.
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: SpuriousGiles (01/04, 2:25PM)
An excellent point about my “Halifax Underclass,” Giles. When will people begin to take it seriously? When will they ever learn? Of course, those in the Halifax Underclass will never learn since that, after all, is what it MEANS to be in the Halifax Underclass. It’s a self-fulfilling prophesy.
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A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
Do you see it as a kind of Caste system? is one born into the underclass? Can one rise above it?