You were unlucky in love for all of your 33 years of life and stated many times the good guys were taken. So what do you do? You find yourself a paired up guy, a guy who was my best friend’s boyfriend for 7 years! Plenty of single guys around but you pursue a man who was already with an awesome girl. How clever and manipulative you were to snag him from her…joining a club he was in to have him be around you more and get to know you better, and I knew this was the only reason why you would join this particular club since you don’t even like the activities there, not to mention you’re not even into the environment yet you started volunteering in environmental activities just cus he did! What did you do, exactly, to get him to fall out of love with her and be with you??? Wtf do you have over my best friend, you thoughtless selfish cow?! My girl is already heartbroken and you know this, but to add insult to injury, you go tag him in a meme on facebook that stated along the lines of “someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else”!!! She saw that, you know! She still has HIM on facebook! Do you like rubbing the fact that you destroyed a wonderful relationship she had with the love of her life in her fucking face?! It ruined her day, fuck, her WEEK! Fuck you, there is a special place in Hell for insensitive homewreckers like you, and Satan will be welcoming you with open arms when you pass onto the other side! —Angry Bestie
This article appears in Jan 22-28, 2015.
Why you all up in her face about this? You should direct your poison toward the guy. BTW, this has nothing to do with you.
This has to be written by a child…
You know OB, men have a “mind” and actively use them. Maybe your best friend isn’t such a great catch after all?
So the guy is completely innocent? Sorry but it takes two to tangle. If he was still into his GF of 7 years, he would have told chickie to go away and leave him alone.
The Boyfriend? is as much at fault in this one, sounds like your friend might be better off.
I don’t believe anyone is at fault…this wasn’t a car accident. Adults made choices. IF he decided he wanted to get involved with a new person … That IMO means that he wanted something else, or something different. Possibly …I don’t know , because he wasn’t happy in that relationship ? Someone got hurt…happens all the time, if she had done it to him , chances are you would support your friend with her new man.
Life happens, its too fucking short to let 1 person in 7 billion + people, be the do all & end all…Fuck it, move on
Have a nice day, be happy kid’s aren’t involved …look no kid’s yay a bright spot. Keep thinking I’ll bet there are plenty more of them.
He was putty in her hands. Wait a minute! That’s not putty!
god, op, your friend must have been a saint indeed….to have spent 7 years caring for a man who had no eyes, ears, crippled, legless, armless, toothless, mute and lobotomized.
what a saint.
and the nasty skank crept into his room and picked up the torso, tucked him into her gym bag and stole him.
oh my.
PUTTY IN HER HANDS
“What did you do, exactly, to get him to fall out of love with her and be with you?” Angry bestie
It was after she joined the environmental club. After that he was putty in her hands. Wait a minute, that’s not putty!
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anyone see any correlation between op’s type of thinking that the ‘man’ had no say in the matter since he is male, and incapable of sensible decisions when lured by pussy and those who believe that ‘all’ men have nasty thoughts about women and it really doesn’t mean anything, because it’s just the way guys are? that they are bound to think thoughts of women that they would never want their moms to hear just because guys are guys?
it sounds the same to me. being a humanist first, I believe (shockingly) that all humans are NOT locked into their gender’s mindset.
I would no more want to be lumped in with op’s MISANDRIST way of thinking than I would want to be lumped in with sarah palin. op is misandrist in her contemptuous dismissal of the man in this situation. it is no different than a man who believes women are incapable of rational thought because of their menstruation. two sides of the same biology is destiny coin.
now I do believe we can’t ignore our biological urges, we have to acknowledge the influence to understand unconscious motivations, but there is a line that we can and should step past, or we may as well stay in the grunting and rutting stage.
News Flash OB…and get ready, you may need to sit down for this…if the guy was so eager to leave after 7 years of being with your friend…he was already with others before that. Noone can “steal” someone from another…he obviously wanted out. Life lessons the hard way.
Ha! Look what she got. A guy who will walk away from his girl and into the arms of another at the drop of a hat. What happens “if” something better comes along five years down the road?
If the guy was honest with himself he would already have been single when the new girl came into his life.
If he was really commited to his 7 year relationship no new girl would turn his head and make him switch beds.
If he wasn’t commited he should have been honest with himself and stopped leading his girl on. It’s called integrity.
Or maybe he thinks like many do that ” “if” something better comes along I am outta here.” (Not saying new girl is better, only that he thought so and acted upon it.)
This guy sounds like a dick. Your friend had a lucky escape.
Its important to note that he was likely not passionate about the relationship that he was in. He’s likely one of those who settle for whats easy and convenient in life and then when something shiney and new comes along and makes it easy to move on, well he does that too. Id suggest that this will be a life long dilemma for him, or anyone who is of this personality. I learned the hard way that you can do everything “right” but some people are simply not wired in a way that keeps them committed. They slide into these comfortable relationships, and might never leave them actually, unless that shiney new thing pursues them. I would actually try to console your best friend by telling her that she was signing up for a lifetime of this…she is actually likely better off. Trust me…Ive been there and dealt with with type of relationship for many years years…Im done with it now , and better off for it.
I believe I get your point there Oceanchick …the old grass is greener thing.
I have only once found that to be true…& its because the Art Dept sent people over there to paint/dye the grass a brighter shade of green …
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This I why I go to Europe… it rains dicks…
I’m confused. Some girl “stole” your friend’s guy? Was he kidnapped? I would find that very alarming. Were the police called? It all sounds very serious.
Why do people get all pissed off and indignant when someone breaks up with them like this person is an asshole?
I wouldn’t WANT someone who doesn’t want to be with me, to be with me, especially out of obligation and because we’ve been together for ‘7 years.’
I don’t see why people are assholes when they just aren’t into someone. Is the new girlfriend tacky? Yes, but it’s not her fault your friend’s [former] boyfriend doesn’t want to be with your friend, anymore.
Consenting adults OP. Without the boyfriend’s consent and decision to pursue the new girl, there would be no issue here. He’s not a child, he makes grown-up decisions. Look on the bright side, maybe your former friend will become a better recycler.
What kind of stupid 20 year old feminist wrote this post?
Maybe he’s a douchebag and/or maybe she’s a slut (according to you)………..
But just maybe, he’s grown over the years and improved himself and realized he could do better. Maybe your friend couldn’t keep up with him but this new girl could and is a perfect match for him….just maybe…
Whether this woman is a seductress or not, this situation doesn’t leave the man without some accountability. Sure, this woman may have been pushy, but she didn’t force this man to go her way, that was his choice. I guess, for some unknown reason, the blame is being vented solely on the woman in question here. I suspect there are other issues about in this situation.