I understand you have to be your own person, but you take this (not giving a shit what others think) a little too far. Do you realize you’re being laughed at? Do you realize not many people like or respect you? You let loose and say whatever, and when people judge you for it you say, “If they don’t accept the way I am, I don’t give a fuck, they’re not worth impressing.” These aren’t hateful, nasty snobs who make fun of anything that moves–they’re nice, classy, respectable individuals who could be friends of yours if you weren’t so damn tacky! IMO, they are worth it. The other night, we were at a party, you got so wasted you passed out on the couch. One of your nipples were showing, and people were talking. When I brought this to your attention the next day, you laughed it off and said “Oops!”, not a care in the world. Have you no respect for yourself? You have to have some restraint, some inhibition! You’re missing out on relationships with some really great people because of your extreme open book-like behavior. You say you don’t give a fuck about anyone who doesn’t care for you, but yet bitch when I get invited to more things than you do. Hello! You’re bringing this on yourself! —Socially gifted friend of a tacky, classless girl
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Ooooooooo a nipple showing and this became the talk of the party? What about the FAT CHICK it belonged to passed out on the couch in the centre of everyone ….. THAT would get people talking more than a nipple …. unless, of course, it looked like a ginger snap cookie!
And you should STOP worrying about what others think.
… ‘what others think’ is actually an odd way of saying that, because most people who offer up such superficial advice are not thinking at all, only reacting.
You know what I find more depressing OP? The fact that you’re afraid of your own securities, and you want your friend to be the same way so you’re not alone.
I have to agree with Koda, a nipple? Ok so what. If she was passed out, and you were a REAL friend, you would have covered her up yourself.
But it’s much easier to have someone to point at. Someone to talk about and say, look at how much she doesn’t care. Because it’s fairly obvious you’re insecure about yourself, caring too much.
lord, just the way she signs off. socially gifted. social suck up is more like it. what a nasty little bitch. both the posting and the poster.
OB, if they don’t care, why should you? Sounds like a wasted effort on your part. BTW even if the others aren’t hateful, nasty snobs, you sure sound like one. If you don’t like her nipple, don’t invite her to the next party.
Bringing what on herself? It sounds like she genuinely doesn’t care. If you do, that’s hardly her problem.
Let her live her life the way she sees fit. She’ll either make lots of mistakes and wise up or will age into a hilarious old woman that everybody will love to death.
Either way, you’re not her mother.
Wasn’t she on this site last week?
http://thedirty.com/category/halifax/
Ain’t social media a peach?
you’re clearly jealous of your friend because she’s comfy in her own damn skin. and no, if someone won’t accept her for who she is, THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT~!
Um, why should this person change to please you, OB? You sound like a huuuge SET.
Let her cry…if the tears fall down like rain
Let her sing…if it eases all her pain
Let her go…let her walk right out on me
And if the sun comes up tomorrow
Let her be…let her be.
Women are such bitches!
Ewww you sound like a nasty fucking bitch of a friend. Would it have KILLED you to walk over to your sleeping friend and fix her nip slip? What is WRONG with you? At least she’s real. She sounds fun. Respectable individuals and socially-gifted butterflies can SUCK IT.