that you will look past the hot trashy girl who needs you to pay for her shirt, pants, manicure, pedicure, and earrings.
that one day you wont see the image of beautiful as a girl who has to wear high heels and a low cut tank top, but someone who is plainly herself, full of personality even if she is ugly.
that you wont see her as ugly. but rather amazing.
that one day you will look around you and see that love isn’t in a shape or size but the hug you hold.
– that you are wasting your time looking for something you will never have, and the one thing you could have, you ignore. every day. —lost but finding my way
This article appears in Sep 26 – Oct 2, 2013.
‘…you wont see the image of beautiful as a girl who has to wear high heels and a low cut tank top…’
Do you also wear high heels with skin-tight jeans – the ones with those cheezy short zippers at the ankle?
Holy fuck, that bagel I ate at lunch is crawling back up my throat.
Spryfield chic strikes again!
Nah, UGLY is FOREVER …. ain’t no use pretending … can’t get past the ugly to notice a personality … ugly ends it
Dear OB,
The fact that someone doesn’t want you doesn’t necessarily mean that they have bad or superficial taste.
Sincerely,
Reality
Different strokes for different folks…that’s why women come in all styles, colours, shapes and models.
The cold heart wants what the cold heart wants.
He’ll be swimming in the drunken stupor of depression if the money runs out.
You can pick him up and dust him off then.
Even if those high heels were invented by a misogynist, if that’s her style – she can be beautiful too. As for tits in a low cut top – so what? – they’re just globs of fat. This lovelorn rant screams 20 something idealism. Rom coms don’t go down in real life. Best way to get over a dude is to get under another. Ray Charles ain’t feelin’ it so move on and quit pittying yourself & putting down other women. ps. All my shit is Bought and paid for, But I be’s a high maintenance bitch. If a man ain’t got no dosh, he need to get to steppin. Ain’t nothing up but the rent. Gotta get me a pair of dem skinny jeans with the zippers at the bottom – they back in STYAL, bitch. Hoist dem titties up into a pushup and work what yo momma gave u. You’ll get sumpin’ soon if you polish up and ixney on the plain-Jane frump style a while.
I agree with no_fool.
“You really are blind”.
It doesn’t sound like they are really blind. They are looking at hot trashy girls who need someone to buy them tank-tops. Based on your sign-off, it sounds like you are the one who is blind, OP. Which might be a good thing if there are any mirrors in your house.
haha I kid. But seriously, shaddap.
Jealous much?
So… if i can assume from your confused assemblage of English… it seems that there is a pretty girl who dresses up. And then there is you. And he chose her.
Am i right?
See, I know women like you op. You have shit for self esteem for some reason. I won’t even begin to speculate on the reason behind it but it’s pretty obvious that it’s a problem for you. So instead of working on fixing that, you take comfort in saying to yourself “Well ok, she’s pretty, skinny, maybe younger/older/more experienced/richer than I am, good fashion sense. She’s obviously trash”
See this is what people like you do. You stereotype attractive people as a way to make yourself feel special. You see a pretty person and immediately fashion a miserable personality for them as a way of trying desperately to find something wrong with them. This helps you sleep at night. And it helps you face the mirror in the morning.
It’s sort of annoying op. And it’s tired. Genetics are a bitch, life is risky and you get what you get. There is no automatic metric that says attractiveness is inversely proportional to intelligence or character. Yes, some attractive people have a harder time developing character because they’re less likely to have to work for praise and attention. That’s a reality.
So maybe some certain “trashy” girls will age terribly as a result and get a rude awakening at 45 when nobody looks at them anymore.
But the sad thing op? So will you. Because you’re wasting your time now comparing yourself to people who are just flat out better looking.
As you age, you’re only going to get more saggy and old. It’s how aging works. So why waste this time right now? YOu didn’t need to get old to be bitter. You’re already there. You’ve relegated yourself to a place that you will never age out of if you don’t get your superficial, jealous head out of your ass.
And don’t be so arrogant. Your communication style suggests you might not have as much going for you upstairs as you give yourself credit for.
I prefer bitches. I can understand: cyclist is a cunt, bus driver is rude, baby mammas are whores, politicians are lying fuckers something that’s easy to understand, oh my fucking head hurts, Keith’s why do you do this to me?
I agree with batshit but think sometimes a girl doesn’t want to hear the “he’s just not that into you” speech. But truth be told I’ve had my ups and downs with weight and am a bit self conscious but I’ve dated the “hot guy” who turned out to be a broke asshole who was playing every field out there. And dated the great personality guy who was far from easy on the eyes. Personality and compatibility win every time. Stop wasting your time dreaming of a guy who’s not dreaming of you and look around OP. I bet there’s a great guy that you’re missing out on too.
Nobody wants to hear that speech anymore than a person with cancer enjoys finding out.
A reality check gives you an out. It gives you an option you didn’t realize you had. It allows you to go “holy fuck, I am causing my own problems.” Once you acknowledge that, you can move on.
op needs to seriously move on. It’s not that he’s just not that into her. He’s NOT AT ALL into her. Period. End of the line.
Did Boru write this?
Mr. Lombardi Boru did not write this.