We were married… still technically are… but not together anymore. Having our three year old son refer to himself with the last name of your present boyfriend, and have our son call him “Daddy” is not right on many levels. I understand that you recently have had a love child with the boyfriend and have a new life but WTF? Why screw with the kids head like that? Are you trying to wash his brain when he is easily impressionable so he will be messed up and confused when he gets older? What is worse is that your and his family approve of this? What is wrong with you people? Seriously… that is a miserable thing to do to a child that you supposedly love. —Stunned by your behaviour
This article appears in Dec 19-25, 2013.
Pays not to have kids with moms like that. Should have tubes tied so no more offspring.
Love Child = Bastard.
You’re out, new guy’s in. All you are is a child support payment, so you may as well get used to coming in second.
Wait Wait…. arent women always the victims?
If you were married when you had your 3year old, then his name when he was born was yours? I’m assuming. And if it was then, by law the mother can’t change the child’s name without your consent, can she? My oldest has my ex husbands last name and I can’t do anything to change it without him…nor would I ever want to. He belongs to my ex as much as me and we both love him to pieces.
Also are you a good dad? Are you an active part of your sons life? Cause if you don’t act like a dad and take care of your responsibilities then maybe it’s in his best interest to replace you?
Ummm RCAMB… are you a good Mother? FFS!
RCAMB, there clearly isn’t enough information there to draw any of the conclusions you’re drawing (even posing them as questing, we see you’re drawing conclusions).
RCAMB, you may wish to talk to a therapist about the issues you’re having in life, as projected by your conclusions-posed-as-questions. This is NOT a place for finding support or therapy…
Now, go cuddle up with your vibrator and stop posting nonsense.
RC, women do that all time. And no, they don’t have to go to court. The guy is unfortunately SOL. My ex tried it, my girl fell for it but my boy didn’t.
I thought Judge Judy was on later?
i believe most people who have children shouldn’t. esp this broad.
it’s irrelevant whether OP is a good dad or a negligent dad, you don’t tell the poor little wretch to call a boyfriend ‘daddy’.
Soi99?
A) I didn’t come to conclusions. I had questions.
B) if a woman Marry’s a man who is a bad husband and bad father and leaves him. Then finds another partner who is a great partner and parent and they have another child who refers to the new guy as daddy (cause it is his daddy) and the 3year old is sad cause he doesn’t have a dad in his mind cause the ex has nothing to do with him or his mom anymore and doesn’t help with child support or visit then why should that child be left out of the happy family? I’m not saying this is the cause but there’s 2 sides to every story. What’s best for the child always!
C) I didn’t realize that Bro Tim. Thanks
D) Zwarte – is this person a troll or legit bitcher? I hate getting sucked into nonsense from trolls.
BT: were the names legally changed, or was just just referred to the new guy’s name?
My cousin took her step dad’s name, but legally, her name was always my uncle’s name.
She started going by her legal name again when she moved out at 19.
I pay support, I spend every second weekend with my son and several days through the week. I ask for more time but she refuses to give it. My son is with me always and never pawned off on anybody else to look after him when he is with me. You can brain wash a child at that and tell him anything and they will believe it. Tell the kid “You’re name is this…” and they will refer to themselves as that and there is nothing a father can do about it. It is pathetic.
good grief , so it was sohi99.
are you going to post one of these every second day?
Then I’m sorry your ex is so awful SOH. That’s not right at all.
Maybe she’s concerned you have a problem with prescription narcotics, sohi99. *shrug*
Jesus dude, your life’s a mess. At this point I’d say there’s not much you can do aside from moving to another continent, changing your name (may I suggest Dr. Cuddlebottom?) and maybe some facial reconstruction. Please keep us updated as to the current state of your shitty life regularly, as by comparison mine is going great!
Maybe she is just a pig who does ass to mouth.
and maybe, dood, you spend way too much time and energy trying to trash your ex in public, hoping she reads this stuff, that her friends and family know you are talking about her
instead of explaining to your boy that people can have many names, and that all loving men can be a daddy when needed for a little guy.
because if your ex really is the harridan you claim, you would be wanting to mitigate the damages to your boy even if it is at the expense of your own PRIDE, instead of fixating on trying to expose your ex’s sluttish ways. (and those are becoming more and more suspect as you continue this public campaign of hurt and revenge)
posting stuff like this does NOTHING to help your little fellow.
Embrace the hate.
What other choice do you have?
Staring at cat pictures reminding you to hate?
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This is an anonymous board for bitching. Good place to vent and get feedback. I appreciate it all. Good and stupid advice and opinions. I will keep posting and take opinions that I feel are helpful and others that I feel are not are not… skip over them. Thanks Coast for this place.
“Maybe she is just a pig who does ass to mouth.”
So are you gonna write a bitch about that?
#captainobvious
Be steadfast in your love and commitment to the boy. Avoid negativity, especially towards his mother.
Positivity will win out in the long run. Your boy will enjoy your genuine exuberance and it will be impossible to wipe you from his memory.
Vote Captain
Oh look who decided to grace us with his presence ^^