Remember to be thankful for the things you do have and forget about the things you don’t, people are people and you can’t blame them for acting the way the do, we are all a little bit selfish every now and again. Take criticism and hurtful actions as a positive thing and use them to your advantage, you will grow and become proud of who you are and how you got there. If you appreciate somebody, let them know. Don’t be embarrassed about how you feel but you don’t always have to act on your emotions. Take a deep breath, remind yourself that it’s not the end of the world, you can overcome any obstacle you want. We are all beautiful, unique and creative people and I hope everyone takes the time out of their day to love themselves! —J

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  1. I like this OPs attitude and outlook in life, wake up in morning and say today will be better than yesterday

  2. When you go to bed after having a great day, it’s easier to wake up the next morning with a positive attitude. 🙂

  3. Very good J, it takes a particularly strong person to pull that off even if they’re not perceived as such. To turn the other cheek and take the high road is seen as some to be cowardly to some but to me it’s not giving in to one’s own weaknesses. Our society tends to glorify an immediate and often violent or vulger response but, in the end, where does it get you? An intolerant society. My thoughts anyway.

  4. I’m with you Reg–I usually take the high road, especially with such base behavioural ‘standards’ as seems to be the norm these days…strange, people often behave in such a common manner, yet still believe they are special and somehow entitled to just take whatever they please…..I am neither common, nor special, but I have no problem respecting other people’s space, stuff, etc….and I don’t just love me, I actually like me…most of the time anyways;)

  5. I also have no problem respecting others except when they invade my space….I’ve learned a lot about myself in the past while.I’m not the bad person I thought I was…If someone really(sincerely) wanted to get to know me they would realize I’m actually a fairly nice,grounded woman.

  6. Just like me, I’m a very nice person, but sometimes people can’t get past appearances or a persons perceived perception of what they’d like to see to realize just that. I’ve learned not to judge a book by it’s cover till I’ve read the book.

    I’m not bad, I just look that way, lol

  7. Well Klyde IF your brave enough (after being being “warned” about)we could meet for a Timmies sometime.

  8. Klyde….Lol…Medium double double with sweetener but, I can’t drink java after 6pm or I don’t sleep.

  9. Did I hear someone enticing me out for a coffee sometime? lol. Not that that would take much convincing.

  10. I’ve been to that one a few times. I was in a rush one day, so I took a cab there.lol Maybe coffee there someday.

  11. “That would be nice Klyde.I would like to meet you.”

    My last comment was in response to this comment you made Klyde

    “Did I hear someone enticing me out for a coffee sometime? lol. Not that that would take much convincing.”

  12. Sorry Klyde I missed you.I was at a Tim’s on Pleasant St about that time and just returned home.
    Will you be there tomorrow about the same time?

  13. Sorry Klyde I was on my way out the door when I received a call from a family member I’ve been waiting to hear froml.My apologize,I won’t be able to make it.

  14. I can understand that WAC …family comes first…go back to my comment yesterday at 10.26pm…2 key words..call me

  15. Yes I became intimidated at the thought of meeting Hoist and behaved strangely.
    Ultimately Hoist is an intelligent adult who can make his own decisions.

  16. If anyone should or could be intimidated it would be me given all the negativity that was bestowed on you WAC..but I’m not in the least…want to hear firsthand

  17. you reall y should meet her .if you re able to go back and read the post s of boru her last online per sonali ty .talk about gettign interestign !

  18. Please do read Boru’s comments from the beginning.Keep in mind some of Boru’s comments where in response to other Bitchers comments that have been deleted by the Coast.

  19. Despite everything that was said either by me or to me I NEVER complained to Mod about anyone.

  20. yuo just cause d such a caustic atmosph ere that whole theads we e wiped clean .good job .you and you r freind brenda were pret ty impresive .

    wait -despite wha t YOU SIAD you didnt complian to MOD ?you have a way wit h (mangling ) word s.

  21. I really try to stay out of these things but this is nuts. boru, just ignore anything that troll posts. it’s what he is trying to get you to do. like any little troll he has decided to pick on you. nothing personal, just discovered that you will snap at any of his comments and his pleasure is taken in you getting upset. that’s the whole point of ‘trolling’. say outrageous things and see who gets excited. its juvenile and stupid. stop responding, for your own sake.

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