Okay? We’re not friends, we have never been friends… you don’t typically start a friendship by sleeping with someone. I don’t want you to be my boyfriend, but I wouldn’t mind a little wining and dining. However, you make it pretty fucking clear that you don’t want to date me and want to keep what we have more top secret than the fucking Halifax concert scandal.
As much as I hate that I am your just your fun time, and you are so much in denial about what we are…I know that I won’t kick you out or stop seeing you because I really enjoy you and the time I spend with you. Why the fuck do you have to be so damn charming? —Stranger
This article appears in Aug 9-15, 2012.
Oh here we go!
Take cover OB. Flaming will commence in 3……2…..1……
I don’t think your fuck buddy is the one in denial OB. You say you don’t want this guy to be your boyfriend, but then say you hate that you are just his fun time, and that you enjoy him…major contradiction. If your heart can’t take it, and he doesn’t want to pursue a relationship, bail. Not later…now. Friends with benefits almost always ends in disaster!
but they aren’t friends…
so it’s more ‘stranger with benefits’
Lol! I stand corrected!
How does it feel to be a cum dumpster for some asshole who wants to bone you in secret? Get a fucking clue, girl.
This whole thing contradicts itself, from one line to the next.
i am so grateful i was not born you, OP.
I guess you don’t even realize how awful this is.
“you are so much in denial about what we are”
Umm.. no. He wants to keep his little fling with you as a secret, which pretty much shows that he DOES see you for what you are which is just something to fuck.
If you want something more (although you claim you don’t, but you still want wining and dining in addition to the 69ing), you should get out now before you develop feelings and get hurt when he puts his “moves” on the next dimwitted woman.
Why is he so damn charming? Because he wanted to and probably still wants to fuck you. That’s all it is. It’s not because he’s falling in love with you or anything because if he was, he’d show you more respect.
I’ve been there, OB.. and now I look back and wonder what I was thinking. Thankfully I didn’t get hurt but I did lose a bit of self-respect for being so stupid.
that’s what happens when you whine too much on this site. i have a very good feeling that we all know this chick.
I pretty much argee with everybody here, just adding the obvious, Stranger….he’s married.
Dump him and get some selfrespect.
Yeah Hugo, that’s the first thing that hit me. He’s probably married.
This really should be in the “Love” side with the rest of the ditz.
Charming? Doesn’t seem like it to me…sound like a total two-timing loser!
Ha.. wanna know why he wants to keep it a secret? Because he’s got a girlfriend who isn’t so secret. Omit the douchebag from your life. You’ll be much happier for it.
This is what happens when you give milk away free and too stupid to shut it off. Sorry OB, you are getting exactly what you deserve. Further, unless he raped you, you are as guilty as he is for fucking the first night.
No bitch, you are the one in denial. I wanna be nice to you because you must be feelin pretty shitty but I’m unna do the opposite and tell you the truth. Lady, he’s not into you that way. He told you straight up, you his friend. Yeah maybe a friend who sucks his dick, but alas still only a friend. This won’t change no matter how much shit you do for him and how much you let him take advantage of you. He’s never gonna magically wake up one morning and want you. Save your dignity and lose his number, why the fuck you sitting by waitin on his ass like a puppy dog. Charming don’t mean shit when you down and out, when you’re sick can you call on charming to bring you chicken soup? I don’t think so. Charmin will be out runnin lookin for another fun time.
you look like someone who needs a two by four, no shame in that, we all have our blind spots…woman, he is ashamed of you. he would not be caught dead in public with you. he wouldn’t spend $1.99 on a burger for you. if he saw you in the grocery store he’d be praying you wouldn’t see him. an erect penis does NOT indicate affection. you are one step up from a hole in the mattress to him. it is NOT romance. it’s not even friends. and it’s not even fuck-buddies. you are standing at the bottom of the outhouse hole and yelling up at him to come shit on you. you are doing this to yourself. he is just emptying his balls into you. you are NOT a victim, quit feeling sorry for yourself, and quit whining in public trying to get people to feel sorry for you. that’s a self perpetuating itch. just stop it. you actually have control of what you do, you are not in prison. you have choices. yes YOU. make it your decision.
well to be fair… she does have all the power here.
if you like the sex… keep compiling that blackmail folder.
if not, then you have nothing but leverage.
Boru?
Generally, when men want to keep you a ‘secret’ it means they’ve either got a wife/girlfriend, OR you embarrass them. Good dog Molly’s post is a bit harsh, buuuuuut I think you need it, OB.
Ain’t nothin’ wrong with having a fuck buddy, BUT this is clearly not the case. He’s made you his cum dumpster and doesn’t give two shits about you. You’re not an ‘equal’ in this. Stop now and get some self respect!
If you know the guy’s a married man and your still fuckin him?You need to learn to have selfrespect.
Perhaps he has another reason to keep you a secret.As long as you know what’s expected of you,go with it.
…lol…
It’s vaguely familiar, but it’s not me.
You will never have him & you know it. You are using him for sex and he is using you for sex…so, stop with the feelings and just have sex. It sounds like you enjoy him alot…so get in the mode…ONLY SEX…enjoy the sex..hell with the dating. I have a just sex buddy also..Our sex is amazing but I dont want anything else from this guy. Actually, we went on a date ONCE..He was boring as hell and there were a few other issues…All I want is his sex every now & than, nothing else. I hope you get there. My guy is deffinatley not married. Hoping yours isnt. Good Luck with your feelings. Maybe we are sleeping with the same guy!
Just remember play smart ladies..no glove no love.
Think girl…where did you meet him?
jupiter, i wanna meat you.
Jupiter-
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