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We broke things off about 3 years ago, I was a mess emotionally, things got messy we both said things we probably regret. You blocked me from facebook, and completely cut off communication from me for 3 years. I was broken hearted for a good year. I moved on after that year and was ready to be your friend again. I have had crushes on other people and flings. I am not romantically interested in you in the least. You are definitely the wrong person for me, But I feel like a bad person because you completely cut me off from communication. I couldn’t even tell you I am sorry. I finally have myself together emotionally and professionally. 3 years is a little much especially since I was the one who got their heart broken. I should have been the one to cut you off, but it definitely would not have been for 3 years If I did. Lets just appologize to each other and get it over with so that there is no more awkwardness when we see each other with friends and we can hang out and have fun. —Reach out to me if you want
This article appears in Sep 22-28, 2016.
Take a page from the Oceanchick edition of “Ex Management in the 21st Century.”
Chapter One: Exes are like dirty dishwater, how to discard yours when you’re done.
Investing energy in a dead issue is a waste of precious time. Moving on includes not caring whether or not your ex wishes to interact with you. Your ex already read the book.
SOME exes can make great friends after the break up, I have several — even one who has moved accross the country but still looks me up whenever she’s in town so we can go out for brunch and catch up. SOME should be avoided at all costs for the benefit of everyone involved. Sounds like yours is the latter. Accept it and move on.
^^^ good advice from Hoist. If you were meant to be ” friends” it would probably have happened by now. Keep in mind that friends are people who truly care about you. They keep in touch and you can count on them during difficult times. If you are lucky you have at least one. If you are extremely lucky you have several. Focus on maintaining your real friendships and be open to developing new ones if the right person comes along. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.
Some exes make great friends for sure, Hoist, I can personally attest to that – my best bud is my hub’s ex of 10 years & we often laugh about his good taste in women. However, this bitcher is looking for something that he/she can’t even admit – that he/she wants that person back. It’s so fucking obvious, it’s sad. If someone cuts off all communication, it’s over. All your explanations about events 3 years ago are the last thing this person wants to hear. Stop living in the past and get on with your life.
Hint: If he hasn’t talked to you in three fucking years, he doesn’t want to.
Most revealing statement: ‘I am not romantically interested in you in the least.’
Which means you are. Post breakup is tough & regrets even tougher.
If you “finally have myself together emotionally and professionally”, you wouldn’t be writing this bitch.
BAGGAGE…
“Please? Please take me back? I’m desperate.”
Crazy Ex Girlfriend.
I have no idea where my ex bf is or what he’s doing. Why? Because I don’t care. That’s how you know you’re over it. You don’t. Give. A. Fuck.