To my former friend whom I’d TRIED to get back in touch with on Facebook:
Hey, remember me? We used to be friends a couple of years ago, we lost touch (but not on bad terms), but then I found you on Facebook and added you. You confirmed me immediately.
But, when I write to you ‘What’s up? It’s been a while, what have you been up to?’ blah blah blah, over a week went by and no reply from you. Okay, fine, I just assumed you hadn’t been on Facebook since. Then what do you know, I see several ‘stories’ of you, groups you’ve just joined, comments on photos from you, status updates, etc in the newsfeed, proof that You went online again, but you still didn’t write back!
Then a month and a half goes by, during that time you were online dozens of times, but no message back to me!
I still (because I’m a naive moron) gave you the benefit of the doubt. ‘Maybe she just feels awkward talking to a friend she hadn’t seen for a few years’, I thought. BUT THEN, I visit another facebook friend’s wall and see that you wrote to her ‘OMG, it’s been such a long time! I’m doing great, have a beautiful baby boy and a wonderful hubby now. How have you been?’ Um…You weren’t any closer to her than you were to me!
I wrote to you again, even after all that, asked you how your child was doing and what his name was. What did you do? YOU FUCKING DELETED ME!!! What the fuck! I haven’t been so insulted or snubbed like that in my entire life! WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ANYWAY, YOU FUCKING BITCH! Why would you confirm me as a friend, if you were just going to delete me if (gasp!) actually wrote to you?????
Fuck you, I hope your ‘hubby’ has many extramarital affairs! You better hope you never run into me in-person again because I’ll make you want to kill yourself!
This article appears in Oct 9-15, 2008.
Grow up.
Get a life. You obviously need one.
“Fuck you, I hope your ‘hubby’ has many extramarital affairs! You better hope you never run into me in-person again because I’ll make you want to kill yourself!”It is amazing how much this “ex-friend” is inside your head… and the best part of it all is you’re not even considered Facebook worthy to this person. LOL
Good god, get a fuckin life. I couldn’t even read the whole post. You are one whiny mother fucker who obviously has a shortage in real friends. Wonder why….
OP, you are absolutely, definitely and without-doubt a psycho.
Maybe who she “thinks she is” is someone healthy and functional who doesn’t need your shit disturbance fucking up her online leisurely pursuits. Very likely, your ex-“friend” remembers that you’re a passive-aggressive nutcase who loses it and makes lame threats when someone doesn’t want to be your friend.
“You better hope you never run into me in-person again because I’ll make you want to kill yourself!”Yep.Well. That pretty much explains everything.
LOL , This is exactly why most girls you talk to say they can’t hang out with other girls, and most of their friends are guys .
Boo fucking hoo, OP – the person was obviously very smart… she saw you coming and avoided it. Time for a self-check. Time to grow up… and watch for the karma monster… she’s after YOUR husband now.
what this person doesn’t understand is that there is “losing touch” and then there is “i’m cautiously and deliberately drifting away from you socially because you make me very, very afraid.”
OP here:Okay, why is everyone taking HER side??? FYI:- I DO have a life and ‘real’ friends, who btw deleted that bitch from facebook because of how she treated me.- Believe it or not, I’m NOT a psycho. I only wrote that threat and wished for her husband’s infedelities because I was so hurt and angry.- My ‘old friend’ and I were actually really close! We hung out all the time, we shared many laughs, etc.Now can you see why I posted my unbelievably long bitch??Fuck, I only asked her how her and her fucking kid was doing, I didn’t even suggest getting back together with her! Why would a ‘healthy and functional’ person delete someone just because of that?I expected someone on here to agree that it was unbelieveably rude of her, but instead it’s ME who gets chewed out!!
It’s fucking facebook, it’s not real life!
Don’t worry about it, you guys obviously haven’t been friends for awile and you managed to get up in the morning and function every day since, so why would you upset yourself over not being her FB friend now? Move on and find some new real people friends!! 🙂
BTW, you may want to make sure she’s not using mobile. Some mobile users will only reply to me through wall posts and status updates (my cousin and I have fights through status updates).
Threatening her and blaming her for your threats, backbiting with her other online friends, and encouraging others to delete her is moderately unhealthy and, yeah, pretty fucking dysfunctional. Now that you’ve dragged The Plastics into your psychodrama, that goes for the whole lot of you. Outside of your mental/emotional spit bubble, most people only check in to Facebook for fun, and not to be dragged into an imaginary social circle that’s obviously a pack of mean-spirited guttersnipes. “Haha, now we all deleted her for no reason other than petty gossip, haha, fuck her! Bitch!”. I’m sure she’s crushed and I can only imagine the passive-aggressive statuses you and your friends are writing thinking she’s as obsessed with your profile as you are with hers. You’re not going to learn from this at all, I can tell.
Perhaps your friend drifted away from you by choice…ever think of that? Your perception of the “friendship” is your reality…but maybe it’s not hers.And like everyone else is saying: it’s fucking Facebook. Live in the real world, and give your friend a PHONE CALL if she means that fucking much to you.
POKE HER!
LOL @ The Bad GuyIf there was ever a time for a poke, I think this would be it.