To everyone who is too important or too busy with their important little selves to acknowledge my existence. The fact that you can’t even take 3 seconds out of your day to tell me to fuck off is incredible. I appreciate honesty, even brutally blunt honesty, but when you give me your number and tell me to call you and I do… fucking answer! No one responds to texts, calls, e-mails… even when we pass on the street you people stare at cars to avoid making eye contact.
I used to love this city, until I discovered the abundance of superficial flaky citizens. I’ve never given someone a reason to disrespect me, but all my friends from all my circles have slowly disappeared over the past year. So next time you say something, MEAN IT! Otherwise ask me to go away, it would be greatly appreciated… and A, you’re the worst one, stop pretending to like guys so you can rip their hearts out. —I Must Have Leprosy
This article appears in Dec 15-21, 2011.
To them, you’re just a freak, like me!
They need you right now, but when they don’t, they’ll cast you out, like a leper!
You see, their morals, their code, it’s a bad joke… dropped at the first sign of trouble. They’re only as good as the world allows them to be. I’ll show you. When the chips are down, these… these civilized people, they’ll eat each other.
See, I’m not a monster. I’m just ahead of the curve.
I thought this was Montrealman!
Then, I realized it is another completely insecure douchebag.
1 2 3 FUCK OFF, happy now?
I agree with you OP. It’s shocking how many people are walking around out there that are so selfish they can’t just say “no” and would rather leave people hanging than deal with telling them they don’t want to hang out with them. I’ve noticed most people have zero concept on how to plan a god damn thing. Just going out to dinner with a friend this weekend was such a fucking job, I should have charged him.
Who wrote this :|
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kblj3AEjykM…
O. B. Smile…it’s lazier than frowning ~:)
OB, depends where you are on the social and career ladder. Maybe your friends consider themselves higher up than you now and can afford to avoid you now. Or maybe you have BO, or take the bus….eek.
Fuck, learn to entertain yourself, be your own best friend instead of counting on friends to fill that gap.
However, I suspect there’s something in your personality that is abrasive enough for people to drift away – certainly sounds like it from the tone of your post.
I agree with TTFN – Be your own best friend! I am. I entertain myself for hours!! maybe you have a shit personality that’s why they don’t return calls or wanna hang out. Maybe they have busy lives and don’t wanna send text messages all day. Maybe you’re annoying and harassing people with calls too much? Dunno. But fuck em. Find some shit to do on your own. Paint a picture, write a book, take a bath, get a life. I’m a loner, I guess. I’d rather watch a movie, with some wine and a joint and something good to snack on all by my lonesome any day than go out on a date or socialize. I can go out by myself, have a great interesting dialogue (in my head) and spend the whole day shopping alone and eating out alone and sight seeing yep you guessed it ALONE – it’s wonderful! Me, myself & I (the three of us) always get along great.
The little group to which you wish to belong doesn’t care about you. That’s their loss OP. Find people more compatible with your interests instead of self-absorbed jackasses and jackesses.