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GAY ANAL SEX? (II)

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: The Sanctimonious Twit (11/28, 6:57PM)

Yes you’re right. My reference to the “heterosexual gay male” is incoherent. It resulted, as far as I can see, from my mental meltdown resulting from my attempt to chart the psychological similarities between the heterosexual genders (the masculine and feminine) and their variable homosexual counterparts, i.e. as what’s going on between their ears.

There seemed to be a rough similarity between the homosexual “dyke” and the heterosexual male (a female-male similarity) as both were interested in the female, the passive homosexual variant being the “fem.” The passive homosexual male, the “queen,” what you refer to as “the bottoms” would, psychologically speaking, still follow a similar pattern (a dominant male – passive female similarity). So my point was that homosexual relationships mirror heterosexual relationships in terms of their gender roles, what’s going on between their ears.

However, my difficulty was with what you describe as “the tops.” You write that, “Despite their sexual leanings, they are men and want to do manly things with other men.” Well yes, but here we have a break in the pattern, a male-male similarity. There is no female gender ingredient which, at least for me, makes it difficult to conceptualize. But thanks for the “tops” – “bottoms” distinction. The march of knowledge moves forward.

: Mad Dog Molly (7:08PM)

I was initially puzzled by your reference to “MM’s monitor splatter” until I read your reference to “come in more flavours.” I think I get it Mad Dog, but why would my monitor splatter?

Your “bears” seems to correspond to The Twit’s “tops” so it seems that we’re pushing back the frontiers of knowledge even further. And yes, it’s true, I am “soft’n smooth looking” which I suppose accounts for my experience in the Atlantic Bar in Provincetown but no, I never wear seersucker suits.

I see that you have been fantasizing about me again Mad Dog but I want you to know that am comfortable with your erotic fantasies. I want you to indulge but do try not to injure yourself physically.

A pleasure as always.

Cheerio!

GAY ANAL SEX (III)

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: Mad Dog Molly (11/29, 2:09PM)

“really i don’t know of any similarity between gay males and gay females other than we walk in the same parade once a year. men are vastly different from women to begin with.”

Well, I think you might be stereotyping both heterosexual men and women as well as their homosexual counterparts in terms of their gender roles, i.e., what’s between their ears.

If I read you correctly, the suggestion is that heterosexual men, unlike heterosexual women, tend to be brutish and lack all subtlety and empathetic understanding. This is just a polarized, stereotypical and distorted description which overlooks the presence of both masculine and the feminine psychological traits in both genders although there is undoubtedly a difference of emphasis in each case.

The same sharing of psychological traits exists, as far as I can see, in the case of homosexual men and women. Look at the similarities between the “fem” and the “queen,” both of whom display feminine psychological traits while the “dyke” and the “bear” (thank you Mad Dog) display (stereotyped) masculine traits. Speaking of the “bear,” he was the one I had in mind when I titled my comment as he seemed to be mechanically intent on gaining access to his “partner’s” anal orifice and, as a consequence, being in my view a very unsympathetic character. While the “dyke” may not be as focused as the “bear,” I do think there are parallels between the two.

So Mad Dog, you’re going to have to provide some support for your claim that there exists no similarity between men and women on the one hand and gay males and gay females on the other.

Do you play a musical instrument as you march along in the Halifax Gay Parade?

A pleasure as always.

Cheerio!