I contacted you several times but several times you turned me away.I want you but can not bare to be rejected again…It’s your move.Please make it in my direction. xxoo —TF
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I contacted you several times but several times you turned me away.I want you but can not bare to be rejected again…It’s your move.Please make it in my direction. xxoo —TF
This article appears in Jul 11-17, 2013.
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You don’t mention by what means you were rejected…phone, in person, email, etc. I know that if my heart truly wanted someone, I wouldn’t stop till I exhausted all possibilities, and then still wouldn’t stop.
Klyde OP had to keep the stalking laws in mind. lol
Klyde I was rejected by phone and in person.I terribly miss that person.
Ok, I now understand the dynamics, last part of my comment was if my heart truly wanted this person, I wouldn’t stop, case in point, I like this specific person so much that every time I see this person, I glow and smile, am nervous, jittery and shy, only problem is they run away from me leaving me feel like half a person, even feel like a monster, rejection at its best. But my dreams don’t go away for this person…sometimes dreams do come true, I just have to wait
Klyde you should be more direct with this person ,tell he/she how you feel,face to face. One never knows what another person is thinking or why they would run….Did you ever give that person reason to feel you don’t like them?
Just wondering.
Something I missed here OP, did this person ever say that they were married or in a relationship? Would that have changed your opinion of them..i think it would set me back a little but the old saying goes one can’t help who their heart likes or desires, given any circumstance.
He told me he was divorce but I also read he was …Yes your correct the heart wants what it wants….My heart, screams for him….
I truly understand how you feel, in my situation, this person knows my number or has the means to reason out my number. I, on the other hand don’t know this persons number.. only problem I find today is lack of total honesty and respect that makes me feel the way I do, so I guess my dreams will live on.
Klyde You seem like an intelligent person I’m sure if you really wanted to find their phone number you could….Has the person you like ever given you reason not to trust them? You should contact them to talk about how you both feel.Only you can make your dreams come true.
Thanks for the compliment, I have tried to talk with this person but I find that when this person knows I’m near, she shies away, and although I’m shy and nervous myself, would gladly experience those emotions just to talk to her… if she said she was married, involved or not interested, it would ease my heart instead of not knowing, just like you my heart screams for her
Klyde Unless you contact her directly it’s impossible for her to be 100% sure you are around or trying to contact her…In my case the guy I want has tried to contact me through friends of his,who has set up meetings where I meet with the friend and not the one I want to meet with….I understand why it seems to you the woman shies away from you.
Jesus,By shying away,it doesn’t sound as though this chick Klyde likes is trying to tell him she doesn’t want him.it simply sounds as though she’s not sure when he’s going to show.
WAC, I think your first assumption is correct, before I got rid of FB, I tried to add her as a friend, she blocked me. I gave her a Christmas card one year, asked if she received it, told me she ripped it up. I was going through a lot of changes at the time, hurt at the time but believe I deserved that. So I guess all I’m left with is my dreams of her. If only she would call me, shy or not I can guarantee she wouldn’t regret or be rejected by that action. I truly believe it would be a great beginning.
OP, I too tried to have friends contact her on my behalf to meet with her, but I wouldn’t have missed any meeting to be with and talk to her. Strangely enough, I don’t see those friends anymore. Coincidence????
I called the man I wrote about;again he was cold and seemed annoyed.I won’t call again.
Good luck Klyde.
Sorry to hear of your misfortunes TF, you truly have my sympathy as I feel I’m going through the same situation. I think it would have been better for him to tell you he’s married, involved or not interested, would ease the pain you feel in your heart, just know you are not alone.
Sympathy is found between shit and syphilis in the dictionary.
I wonder Klyde did you led on the woman you claim to be are interested in?Did you ever lie to her?
I know if a guy told me he would not reject me again then did after I tried to contact him,I would be hurt beyond words, that would the end.
Any question that she would have asked, I would have given her the honest truth, even if she got hurt or didn’t like it, but one has to ask… truth can never change. I never led her on in any way shape or form, I would have sold my soul for her. I saw something in her I found intriguing and felt this was a once in a lifetime person, never felt that way before. I just simply liked her for her.
Remember TF, I’m on your side.
“Any question that she would have asked, I would have given her the honest truth, even if she got hurt or didn’t like it, but one has to ask… truth can never change. I never led her on in any way shape or form, I would have sold my soul for her. I saw something in her I found intriguing and felt this was a once in a lifetime person, never felt that way before. I just simply liked her for her.
Remember TF, I’m on your side.”
One person’s opinion.
Klyde YOU would have given her the honest truth but what about little Klyde,what would it have made you tell her??
Sorry to disappoint you WAC, but I’m old and wise enough to know that little Klyde would have never made any good choices for me, that’s why I don’t listen to him.
My philosophy in life is to be truthful, let the other person decide if they can accept that truth and make choices based on that, one way or another.
You’re right TF, “One person’s opinion” Good luck.
“My philosophy in life is to be truthful, let the other person decide if they can accept that truth and make choices based on that, one way or another.”
That is my philosophy in life as well,it’s not everyone’s philosophy.
While in conversation with a person one feels uncomfortable with, without thinking one can say the first thing that comes to mind and lie, even if they strongly believe in honesty.
Outlander Life can be very confusing especially when you don’t know who to believe anymore.