I have a hard time being friends with someone after a romantic relationship has ended. No matter whether on good or bad terms. I try and be as mature as possible in trying to accomodate this, but whenever contact is made with the ex my stomach drops and I feel very anxious. Kind of like Stan from South Park. Is this something that can change or is it just OK to cut ties altogether? After 2 years I can usually do the friends thing but until then speaking with you brings back a wave of emotion that makes me want to puke. So I guess I’m sorry for not being pro active in msg’ing you. It’s not you… it’s definately me. —Pukeless In Seattle
This article appears in May 19-25, 2011.
It’s not just you OP. Lots of people have trouble staying friends right after a break up. Don’t lose sleep over it.
i feel bad for you op, but i love the title
I can’t be friends with my exes either. Especially if/when they end up with another significant other.
Don’t stress over it. It can suck, but… you’ve shared intimate feelings and it’s hard to change the mind set. Especially when you remember the good times.