You asked me out, I agreed. You decided that we should go to a restaurant and so that’s where we went. I’d have been just as happy to have a coffee. At the end of the evening I told you in the most polite way that I simply wasn’t interested in seeing you again, except as maybe friends and then you sulk like the pathetic beta you are and gripe about the $30 you spent on my dinner. Thirty fucking dollars! If you’re that hard up for cash maybe you shouldn’t be inviting people out to dinner, but it certainly doesn’t entitle you to get in my pants. You try and play the ‘nice guy’ game but then you turn around and think you can buy me? I ain’t for sale, bub. And for the record, no respectable woman is going to want to date a guy who makes $13 an hour at some dead end job. —You should be embarrassed of yourself
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So why didn’t you pay for your own damn dinner?
Or it was a first date and she realized she wasn’t interested in him during the dinner. Sounds like you got some issues there Jesus
Yeah, if someone tricked me like that, I’d be pissed too; I was empathizing with the guy, ergo my comment.
I agree with the first part of the OB’s bitch. Offering to buy someone dinner does not entitle you to anything other than their company during the meal. Expecting sex, if that was the case, is pretty louche.
On the other hand, the OB first said, “I ain’t for sale” but then said that she would never date the guy due to his modest salary. Does that imply that she might have been interested if he made more money?
I call it a draw!
I bet that there are some respectable women out there who would go out with a guy making 13 bucks an hour. I’ve seen it. In one case she made a boatload out of a divorce settlement and had a good career to boot, and the guy making 13 bucks an hour washing dishes was hung like John Holmes.
Yeah, because I want a ‘respectable’ woman. I sympathize with this particular situation vis-a-vis whiny ‘nice’ guys, but I think you are a bad person.
Upon further reflection, this is the work of Nukka haha
Nah, I’d have spelled it “mail” if I did.
So it appears you had no interest in him in the first place and you should have told him that then and there. Yeah he’s a whiny ass but you wanted a free dinner. He’s whiny and you’re dishonest. you’re made for each other.
This is why you don’t take bitches out to eat and shit. Just take her to the park where you can share some premaid chicken fingers and a couple of cans of billyrock. Mmmmmmm, canned wine is classy as fuck!!!
There it is…
“no respectable woman is going to want to date a guy who makes $13 an hour at some dead end job.”
yup. Confirmed once again.
this is why all first date bills should be split. Fact that she didn’t do that is female entitlement
Hahah isn’t 13 dollars an hour considered somewhat decent in NS lmao
Lol. Thirty dollars. I agree he shouldn’t whine about it, he did ask you out and sometimes things don’t work out. You don’t owe him anything, except maybe half the cheque.
As for: “no respectable woman is going to want to date a guy who makes $13 an hour at some dead end job”.
Respectable women date who ever the fuck they want.
OB, please stop speaking for all women. I personally don’t give a rats ass how much money a man makes, because I can take care of myself. It’s women like you who give the rest of us a bad name.
Ok OB…I was cheering your bitch until the last line about a woman not dating a guy making $13 an hour….if a man is happy and can support himself for $13 an hour than to each his own (though his guy does sound like a douche). Not every woman wants a man that makes $100k a year. When I was single I met the business-y type guys that made well over $50k and to be honest, most of them were jerks. Now I’m with a union worker that makes $18/hr and he’s awesome!