I miss you so much and I think of you every single day. I know we’re right for each other and one day we’ll find a way to be together. We haven’t spoken in a while and I’m about to cave any day now. I’ve resisted this long only because I thought you wanted me to leave you alone for a bit or that you were mad at me for leaving or thinking I don’t love you the way you love me. I really don’t know why we aren’t on speaking terms right now but if you wanted to talk to me you would have by now. It hurts me so much that I can’t be there for you as much as I want to be. You deserve so much more than I can give to you right now. I wish I could give you all of me. I truly hope you find happiness my love. I want it for you more than I want it for myself. I will always, always love you with every part of me, believe it or not. —One and Only
This article appears in Sep 27 – Oct 3, 2012.
Hey OP:). Sweet post…..and, ya know, I bet your person feels the same about you. It is really hard to figure out what to do after an unintentional disconnect, especially if the person who does the initial ‘leaving’ does so at a difficult time in the other person’s life. I think you should call or text your person and just start talking again. Give your person time to get reacquainted with you, but make sure they know that you really missed them and that they are truly important to you–if you were the one who did the ‘leaving’, your person may be a little confused as to why and a lot afraid of being hurt again, or just used (worse). If your person is ‘mad’ then they are probably feeling really hurt by your actions or lack thereof–just listen, be truthful in your responses, and be loving. Most of us like to be held and soothed when we hurt…..Be polite and responsive–call or text a quick hello, even when you are too busy to hang–not everyone needs constant attention, but most people do want genuine respect. Be honest. Be kind. Be loving…..but maybe what you need to hear most, OP, is let yourself be loved–bet you won’t be sorry;)
OP SheSang is right,make contact, explain why you left.Most people are very understanding…In the very least, acknowledge your feelings,if your feelings for this person are genuine you will feel better after you do. Good luck.
*sigh*
This love makes me happy for so many reasons. 🙂
Care to offer up one or two?
It sounds more like the start of a chick flick.
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is tpb a chick flick? it’s 25 years old, still worth watching http://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/39…
BECAUSE DESPITE ALL THE OBSTACLES IN THEIR WAY, OB WANTS TO BE WITH THIS PERSON, OK?
It just confirms that what’s written in that stupid “he’s just not that into you” book isn’t necessarily 100%.
And, if someone was writing this love to me, I’d certainly want them to fess up.
Hopefully the person it IS written for feels the same way. 🙂
Why am I cryin?
don’t mind me…
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It’s also unfortunate I thought painey was referencing
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until I saw the full link pop up
Oh and another reason: some of us are romantics at heart.
haha, both good. never even noticed the acronym http://media-cache-lt0.pinterest.com/uploa…
PK I hope all is right in your world.How’s your Dad feeling lately?
I’m sorry to read you’ve been a little love sick,I know the feeling…Your bangon if someone felt that way about me I would certainly want to know too.Being safe by not professing your true feelings is being cowardly simply because he/she is afraid…But hey I’ve been there,made that leap alone,lesson learned, but he was worth it.
This must have been written by a guy because he doesn’t know why they aren’t on speaking terms right now.
This is super sweet! And what “She” said, totally. If you truly know this other person is your penguin it will work out, don’t stress about it.
Analeigh What do you mean by “penguin”?Inside joke between you and OP?
Contact the person.If you care enough to show your “Love” they are worth you feeling uncomfortable in order to tell the person your true feelings.
Kind of like playing the lottery you never win if you don’t buy a ticket.
Is that so?
http://www.ctvnews.ca/police-seeking-right…
I must be in a pissy mood because this:
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is the only possible outcome I can imagine for this situation.
Ivan I hope your day gets better.
Thanks Bro. >: )
Autumn is my favorite time of the year. Unfortunately it’s also the time of year that the Corporate fuckwits who run the Gulag allow their jackassery to range far and wide.
FML.
Hey Boru! My dad’s doing ok — still having problems with his ankle and is probably going to have a bone removed in December. *shudder*
I’m not really heart sick, at the moment. Just waves of *lesigh*-ness here or there, and I’m a little confused at the moment re: status of relationships. I’m sure you know what it’s like.
Pretty content, though. I got my medication, my cats and crafts. That’s all a girl really needs, right? 😛