I am a 33 year old woman and I’ve gotten divorced 4 years ago. Since then, I’ve been dating but nothing has really materialized. You told me you had someone for me–your co-worker’s nephew. I knew this co-worker and she’s in her late 50s, so I figured this guy would be approx. my age. I asked you how old he was anyway… EIGHTEEN!!! You seemed so surprised when I told you that was out of the question. Why the FUCK would you try to set me up with an 18 year old??? He’s a fucking kid! What kind of friend are you, honestly? My limit is 3 years my junior, not 15 years! And don’t give me that “Age is just a number” shit! Wtf would I have in common with him? Fucking high school student probably working at Mickey D’s… You are one clueless cunt with serious mental health issues if you think me and this kid would be a good match! Fuck you! —Disgusting
This article appears in Mar 29 – Apr 4, 2012.


“F” bombs and “C” bombs??? That’s how you talk to/about your friends who are trying to look out for you (albeit misguided). You’re right for staying away but seems like you’ve got some anger management issues to deal with.
Not to hard to believe you were divorced at 27. Do single guys a favour … stay single.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71IV0i9X9h…
Next on Jerry Springer…..
YEA FUCK U YA STUPID OLD CUNT!
Yes friends….this is how you fit in on the coast bitch comment section.
no
She should of at least set you up with a 19 year old so you could at least go to a bar as a couple. What a bitch. BTW does she have a 19 year old niece for me. LOL.
Maybe he’s really good in bed?
theCapitan…he’s probably really good in bed, sleeping in late, in that bed !
More than likely .
True Story, More. I feel bad for anyone who dates that far out of their range. Remember the rule Kids… ‘Half you age plus 7’
You don’t want to wind up being Demi Moore.
When i was 19 I dated a guy that was 32. I just got out of my high school relationship and thought this is gonna mature me a bit. WAS I WRONG. i already had a better job than him, A better understanding of children ( my mom wasn’t really a mom, i worked full time through high school to support my little sister, buy food and so on) And lived on my own. This guy lived at home, worked part time. and sooked A LOT.
The only people that date someone that young are people who haven’t grown up themselves.
I’d be pissed too if someone thought of me at the age to date someone so young. it’s insulting
Lot of truth to that Alex. Not to mention, what 18 year old wants to set up with a woman in her 30s? Can’t he find someone his own age? Like I’ve said before, someone who needs his aunt or friend or whatever to set him up with a stranger.. probably a reason for that. I have seen it work, sort of, but I tend to say I’m not interested when someone says they have someone they want to set me up with.
i know plenty of people that do like someone older than them. But it never works. people always at different points in their lives and the difference in maturity is unbelievable.
And you’re right, if i don’t find someone on my own i wouldn’t be interested
Congratulations, OB! According to your friend, you have officially reached “Cougar-dom”! Population – you! Don’t be afraid, embrace your new found status! (Just remember that some of these guys have got school in the morning so, go easy on ’em!) lol
lol! Vastie. I have a feeling you a master taxidermist. Specializing in stuffing cougars!
http://thesinglesward.files.wordpress.com/…
Maybe your friend just thought you weren’t looking for anything serious, OP, someone you could sleep with once or twice to get you back on the horse, so to speak.
I’ve dated an older boy before also, and it was pretty much the same as Alex said. Sooo unbelievably immature, irresponsible and dangerous. Also if people are constantly creeping on younger people, there is usually a reason for that. I’m sure there are people out there with large age differences that have good relationships, but I don’t know of many involving people in their 20s or younger.
Hey, I’d fuck him! And I’m 50!
I was dumped at 28 years old and was so bitter I couldn’t look at a man without hissing. Turning cougar for a summer enabled me to ease back into the world of dating. And the boy? Well, let’s just say he learned in one summer what might have taken years without an experienced teacher. He was very, very grateful, and I built up a boatload of good Karma from all the women who followed me into his bed.
you hussy^^
Maybe, OB, this woman’s suggestion was based on the fact that men reach their sexual peak at 18, while women don’t until 35 or so?
I’d fuck a guy younger than me, but unless he was close to my age, I wouldn’t create a life with them, likely.
lots of cougars on this website.
If only I was still young I could enjoy the company of cougars. I’m 38 years old so a cougar for me would be kinda old….like weirdly old.
you funny lizard, you’ve aged 5 years since last week
lol TJ, nawww, I found my “cougar” almost 6 years ago now and we’ve been together ever since. (I SAY cougar but she is only about 7 years older than me).
She is, by far, hands down, THE best thing to ever happen to me. I’m extremely blessed.
It’s a leap year!
One of the regulars told me that no one here is 100% truthful with personal information when I mentioned how often everyone posts things of that nature so I’m just trying to fit in. Constantly lying about my age while making no attempt at being consistent.
When I was 21 I had a fling with a 38-year-old. It would have worked out fine if I wasn’t bored. Your friend was only trying to help.
I look younger than I am and as a result, younger guys tend to gravitate towards me. Even to the point where guys around my age or older (I’d totally date soemone in their late 30s) think I’m too young to date based on how I look.
I know one younger guy who’s interested in me — we get along great and he’s got his shit together for being in his 20s. But the age thing keeps nagging at me. *lesigh*
If it was reversed and I was the younger one, I wouldn’t think twice.
Fucking gender stereotypes.
Don’t lie Zilla, you would soooo do a 50-60 year old lady if she said yes. I know your type.
blah blah blah ur mother is that old and I fucked her. Too lazy to think up a proper retort to annoy and harass you.
What an odd thing for your coworker to suggest. Is she single? Maybe you should set her up with your grand father.
i enjoy your inconsistencies zilla. keeps me on my toes
reading all the posts reminds me I’m involved with a woman about 5 years younger than I am. Would have been frowned on when I was 21…not so much now that I’m in my 50’s ~:p
LOL @ no_fool. I agree it’s odd to suggest … so maybe the friend is really messed up, or the friend just wants to see you get laid, OB. Sex is what you would have in common … unless one or the other of you is into some freaky stuff that doesn’t interest the other. I think that 18 is a bit young, but isn’t as much of an issue when it’s all for fun. When it becomes a consideration is when you’re looking for forever … or at least it does for me.
lol you are a stone cold pimp Vastie. A true man knows there’s nothing wrong with more experienced women, stereotypes be damned.
If they`re old enough to vote they`re old enough to motor boat.
This topic is stupid.
As a former boy toy myself, at the age of 18, I think you should give it a shot OB… he might surprise you, don’t be so quick to write him off.
And if it doesn’t work out, well, it beats sitting home crying about how old and lonely you are…
I agree with you OP. That is a little off the mark. Maybe you look like you’re twenty. Otherwise that was a stupid suggestion.
have no fear, the suckster is here.
Hey TJ, was that you I saw on the local CBC news tonight talking about the demise of the penny?
another stupid idea by a stoopid gubment. who give a fuck if a penny is a few years old, they are metal, and will last a long time. they say that they make a billion every fucking year, why? there will be a lot of people pissed to the max here, and i will be one of them. just think of how much you will be getting ripped off if it goes from being used. yeah i know, up or don, bet it will be mostly up. that oughta play right with convienence stores.
what the fuck is the matter with these people’s heads? can’t they just leave well enough alone. it has worked okay for ages, and no, who gives a shit about joe average anymore?
this fucking bunch of assholes has to be moved out of office, and i hope there will be a tax revolt. just one more way to suck those pennies out of our pockets folks. 102, and it goes down, yeah right. and 107 and it goes up. yep, it is gonna be a long year, if it don’t end in may.
Right, but making something that actually costs 1.5 times it’s monetary value to produce is completely logical. (???) Huh???
Presently it costs approx. 1.5 cents to make 1 penny. Not exactly money well spent.
Personally, I find them to be a nuisance and as I do most of my purchases using debit card, I can’t remember the last time I actually physically handed a cashier a penny as part of my payment.
And just because they will stop producing them doesn’t mean that you can’t use them. The penny will retain it’s value indefinately and can continue to be used in payments.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penny_(Canadi…)
I won’t miss it.
You can always find pennies in the gutter near the corner of Prince & Barrington. Even the Lysol-sommeliers who “Occupy” that corner won’t take them.
Good riddance.
The regulars are incapable of staying on topic regardless of what the subject matter is.
Contemporary Indian writers are unanimous in praising Firuz Tughluq. Their view is that since the time of Nasir-ud-Din Mahmud, no king had been “so just and kind, so courteous and God-fearing, or such a builder” as Firuz was. The latter was adored by the people.
He reformed abuses. He checked extortion. He increased irrigation. He was a father to his people. He took care of the needy and unemployed. He refused to dismiss aged officials and allowed their sons to act for them. He helped the marriages of the poor Muslims.
He provided state hospitals for all classes. He was a devout Muslim. He kept fasts and said public prayer. When an old man, he went on a pilgrimage to the shrine of Salar Masud at Bahraich and humbly got himself shaved as an act of piety. He never did anything without consulting the Koran.
He even selected a Governor in accordance with a lucky omen in the sacred book. He was always worried about the welfare of his subjects. The people enjoyed prosperity during his reign.
However, there are certain aspects of his life which take away from his greatness. He was not a general and consequently he did not make any effort to reconquer the territories which had been lost in the Deccan during the reign of his predecessor. He was not strict in administration. Many examples of his misplaced generosity can be quoted. It has already been pointed out how he gives a Tanka to a trooper so that the latter could bribe his inspector. The Sultan made a mistake in organising his army on a feudal basis.
He should not have revived the Jagir system which had been abolished by Ala-ud-Din Khalji. The granting of big Jagirs was bound to create trouble and ultimately was partly responsible for the disintegration of the Tughluq Empire. The Sultan also made a mistake in creating a large number of slaves. These slaves interfered with the fall of the Tughluq Empire.
The religious policy of the Sultan was also partly responsible for the downfall of the Tughluq dynasty. The Hindus and non-Sunni Muslims became the enemies of the Tughluq dynasty.
The Sultan made a mistake in making the Ulemas the masters of the show. According to Dr. R. P. Tripathi, “The irony of history reflects itself in the unfortunate fact that the very qualities that had contributed to the popularity of Firuz were also largely responsible for the weakness of the Sultan of Delhi.
According to S. R. Sharma, “Firuz was neither an Ashoka nor and Akbar, both of whom have been noted for their religious toleration.
Firuz was fanatic like Aurangzeb, though unlike him a wine-bibber. But in spite of this, he had more of constructive wisdom in him than his dilettante predecessor possessed. Lack of martial vigor and the Unisom of feudalizing the kingdom are the only other charges that have been leveled against him.'” An attempt has been made to compare Firuz with Jalal-ud-Din Khalji. However, it is pointed out that it is better to comapare Firuz with Nasir-ud-Din Muhammad than with any other ruler.
Nasir-ud-Din, he was too much inclined towards religion and like him again he found his Balban in Khan-i-Jahan Maqbul. Both sovereigns were of a mild and forbearing disposition although Firuz was a more capable administrater. According to Sir Wolseley Haig, “Both were weak rulers, but Firuz was far less weak and vacillating than Mahmud and both were benevolent, but the benevolence of Firuz was more active than that of Mahmud.
Firuz possessed far more ability than Mahmud and his weakness consisted largely in an indolent man’s distaste for the details of business and in unwillingness to cause pain. His benevolence was indiscriminate, for he showed as much indulgence to the corrupt official as to the indigent husbandman and his passion for constructing works of public utility was due probably as much to vanity as to benevolence.'”
Henry Elliot has tried to compare Firuz with Akbar. However, Dr. Ishwari Prasad points out that the comparison is unnecessary and unjust. According to him, “Firuz had not even a hundredth part of genius of that great-hearted and broad-minded monarch who preached from the high platform of public interest the gospel of peace, goodwill and toleration towards all sects and creeds.
The reforms of Firuz lacked permanence; they failed to strengthen the Muslim polity and to gain the confidence of the Hindus whose feelings were embittered by his religious intolerance. Altogether they produced a reaction which proved fatal to the interests of the dynasty of which he was by no means an unworthy representative.”
Dr. R. C. Majumdar says: “Although the reign of Firuz was marked by mildness and beneficent activities, in striking contrast to that of his predecessor, it also undermined to a large extent, the foundation of the Sultanate.
The active interest and influence of the ‘Ulema’ and Mushaikhs in affairs of State which Firuz permitted, partly as policy and partly as an article of faith, was a retrograde step.
His connivance at the inefficiency of public servants, misplaced leniency in dealing with civil and military officials and undue favors shown to the nobility weakened the entire administrative machinery. His aversion to war against the Muslims, even when it was imperative-in striking contrast to the brutal severity with which he treated the Hindus of Katehar-and particularly his unwillingness (on the specious ground of saving Muslim women from disgrace) or inability to carry the fights to a finish, destroyed the stability of the empire.
The organisation of the slaves, though promoted by humane consideration, was no doubt partly due also to a desire to create a personal bodyguard on which the Sultan could trust for his own safety.
But as could be easily foreseen, it developed into something like a Praetorian Guard and proved to be a great disturbing factor in the State.
On the whole, in spite of peace, prosperity and contentment that prevailed during the long reign of Firuz Shah, no one can possibly doubt that his policy and administrative measures contributed to a large extent of the downfall of the Delhi Sultanate and accelerated the process of the decline that had already set in during his predecessor’s reign.”
According to Sir Wolseley Haig, “The reign of Firuz closes the most brilliant epoch of Muslim rule in India before the reign of Akbar.” In spite of his defects of character, Firuz “succeeded in improving the administration and in alleviating the lot and winning the affection of his subjects.
Military capacity and diligence in matters of detail are qualities indispensable to an oriental despot and Firuz lacked both. After two unsuccessful expeditions into Bengal he was fair to recognise the independence of that country and his rashness twice imperilled the existence of his army.
His easy tolerance of abuses would have completely destroyed the efficiency of that mainstay of absolute power, had it not been counteracted by the vigilance and energy of his officers, who were carefully selected and entirely trusted by him.
His judgment of character was indeed, the principal counterpoise to his impatience of the disagreeable details of government and the personal popularity which he enjoyed as the kindly and genial successor of a capricious tyrant secured fidelity of his trusted officers, but his extensive delegation of authority to them undermined the power of the crown.
No policy, however, well-devised could have sustained this power under the feeble rule of his successors and the terrible blow dealt at the kingdom within ten years of his death, but his system of decentralisation would have embarrassed the ablest successors and undoubtedly accelerated the downfall of his dynasty.'”
(Source:http://www.preservearticles.com/2012032929371/short-essay-on-firuz-tughluq.html)
Darmok & Jallad at Tanagra.
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I am one of those who isn’t pleased to see the loss of the cent coin.IMO it is a problem of inflation, which makes it a Banking/Government created problem. How long before the dollar is too small a sum ?
I have at least 1 example of every Canadian cent made since 1858.
some of them are quite valuable numismatically speaking….& that doesn’t mean they have to be old. While older coins in mint or near mint state condition are always hard to come by & that increases their value. But for example a modern coin…in 2006 they changed the material from copper over zinc ,to copper over steel & to differentiate the 2, the steel ones would have a small ‘p’ on it as well as all the usuall markings for a one cent coin.By some fluke a few made of copper over zinc were stamped with the ‘p’
& as they are nonmagnetic it is easy to tell them apart. A copper over steal magnetic 2006 cent is worth a cent, in perfect mint strike condition it is worth about $10.
A 2006 ‘p’ nonmagnetic is worth $700 in mint strike condition & about $100 in circulated very fine MS 60 condition.
“How long before the dollar is too small a sum ?” *facepalm*
http://www.tv.com/shows/friends/the-one-wi…
Orgasmatron I keep one of these
http://www.bing.com/images/search?q=photo+…
& look at it frequently, just to remind me of what can & does happen to a fiat currency. FYI when Mugabe took over Zimbabwe, the zim dollar traded at par with the British pound !
I have one of these to remind me of an earlier time when it happened in Germany after WW1, I found one in mint condition at an auction a few years ago
http://aes.iupui.edu/rwise/banknotes/germa…
I have no idea how what you just said relates to your original statement, which I interpreted as meaning “If they get rid of the penny, how long until they get rid of the loonie?”, which is an example of a logical fallacy know as the “slippery slope”: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slippery_slop…. Obviously, I don’t know if they might one day get rid of the loonie, but neither do you, unless you have some sources to support to your claim.
It was vastie! I didn’t see it, how’d it turn out?
Let’s see. A former Commonwealth country run into the ground by 4 decades of Marxist kleptocrat misrule. And an industrialized European nation bankrupted by war, faced with crippling reparations following it’s defeat, struggling with an imposed democratic system, teetering on the brink of revolution and civil war in a time of world wide economic upheaval. Salutary lessons both, but not exactly parallels to our current situation and probably not on the horizon, either.
Right, More, but you’re comparing the phasing out of a under-utilized and costly piece of legal tender to that of a brutal dictatorship and another country that plunged a world into war. Bit of a stretch, don’t you think?
I mean, at one time, we used to use beaver pelts as a form of currency. What’s your point?
Geez! I JUST said that, Ivan. lol (Well put, my friend) I was thinking what you wrote but I’m suffering from brain-to-keyboard interface issues. Also known as an I.D.10T fault.
TJ – To be brutally honest, I didn’t really catch what you said…lol…I just happen to look up at the tv when you came on and I thought, “Holy shit, that guy looks familiar!”, then noticed the name, and by the time I had put 2 and 2 together, you were off. lol (Sorry, man) Please see above stated fault as cause. 😛
I “THINK” you said you were in favour of the move? Am I right?
Wow, TJ. A Coast bitcher elevated to the lofty heights of CBC News Man-in-the-Street interviewee in the matter of just a few hours. Try not to forget us little guys when you start your Cross Canada tour! lol We’ll all be able to say, “I knew him when…” lol
>: ) – Great minds…. and all that rot, Vastie. lulz.
More’s fulminations against fiat currency are a staple here. I find some of what he says interesting and some of it seems to be cribbed from Coast To Coast A.M.
Whatevah!
How does it feel to have a celebrity in your midst, bitchers?
Yeah I said I was on board with it but not if it was going to result in businesses rounding up or down their prices, because every penny counts. Then I grabbed the mic and was like
“AND A BIG SHOUT OUT TO MY PIMPS AND HOES OVER ON LOVE THE WAY WE BITCH, ALBUM COMIN SOON BABY!! TRIPLE PLAT MOFUCKA! 902 STAND UUUUUUP!!!”
They probably edited that part out though.
I hate pennies. I hate handling them, I hate having them in my pocket. If they cost more than a penny to make, they can die.
haha, you’re funny young thomas. i’m all aflutter knowing you’re so infamous^^how about a reality show?
My only regret is not giving them Tommy Jules 902 instead of my real name. That would have been funny.
I do plan on making a big push with my music soon, PG. Never know, online reality series may be in the works at some point. Promise it won’t be corny and make you lose braincells when you watch it.
as to the lowly penny, i have enough to last me til i’m pining for the fjords. everyone will get exact change, whether they want it or not
Orgasmatron…my comment had to do with inflation of prices & the devaluation of our money. So since a 1 cent coin no longer has any value…how long before a dollar does as well .
For example for many items that would cost about $35 in 1982,(which is when I started investing for my retirement) you would need at least $100 today.
But some items like gas have risen to 600 -800% since then
Which translates to say your savings. If you put $5000 in an RRSP or other ‘plan’ starting in 1980, in todays money you’d need $13000 or so to purchase a similar amount of goods as you could of bought then…but if you wanted to buy the same amount of gasoline, you would need even more its because of the devaluation of our currency & the even higher inflated price of gas. Gold is another indicator of how devalued our world currencies are.
When a currency hits hyper inflation or becomes unchangeable to other currencies, it becomes worthless & you could end up as they did in post WW1 Germany where a wheelbarrow full of marks wouldn’t buy a wheelbarrow full of coal !
Or in Zimbabwe, when they crashed & 100 million Zimbabwean dollars would buy a loaf of bread, a week later only 3 eggs, a couple of days after that a book of matches ! ! !
Fiat currencies through out history have always failed …every…single … one ! From the first currency made of paper in China several thousands of years ago, to Rome & on & on & on
Here’s a site of present currencies in danger of collapse & others that are near the edge.
http://2012poleshift.wetpaint.com/page/Ten…
FYI…the only reason the US dollar hasn’t collapsed is because of its world currency status, & the deal the US made with the OPEC nations to only accept US dollars for oil, but that is changing & the latest BRICS meeting has those countries talking about a new bank where the US dollar will not be included, as well as China & Austrailia have signed a 30+ billion dollar bilateral trade deal to purchase goods back & forth in their own currencies. Iran now accepting gold, goods,weapons & food for their oil & no longer accepting US dollars.
well said mr more, thanks for paying attention
So you’re saying Firuz Tughluq was deflowered by an older woman are you Zilla?
I wasn’t familiar with the term fiat money, I kept reading previous posts as flat money. Economics always seems like a lot of hocus pocus to me like some shyster telling you about their latest pyramid scheme. I guess that`s just laziness on my part not to fully research it. It`s just that it makes my eyes glaze over.
it’s all good…ivan is our history go to guy, you’re our critter guy and mr more is useful. he likes to rant and i appreciate that