Almost 10 years ago we married, About 6 years ago you had an affair. Told me I let myself go and you have always has a crush on her. I was so stressed and depressed that I lost over 60lbs. Was down to 126lbs and I still thought I was fat and ugly. Found out I was pregnant, you ended everything with her. I had a miscarriage and your fat whore made fun about my loss. A year later we found out I was pregnant again. Had a beautiful baby. That didn’t stop you. Caught you in lies and found messages to other girls. Now I find out you’re still playing you bull shit games! BBM another fat whore that you used to fuck! I hope you read this and know it’s me! I am sick of your shit! I was too fat and now I am always worried that I am fat! You’re a DICK and I am so sick of trying to look good for you when you think about your fat windshield washer whore out west “at least once a month”.
I’m thinking I want a DIVORCE! If only I could survive on my pay with 3 kids! —Stupid loving wife
This article appears in Nov 18-24, 2010.
Divorce him. Quit being a chicken shit. Will it be rough? No doubt but it’s better than getting some disease or looking like a fool. You may have to lower your standard of living a bit but you are entitled to many things. Call the NS Barristers Society and they will set you up for three 30 minute sessions with three different lawyers specializing in Family Law. If you don’t make enought then you may qualify for Legal Aid. Act now.
This is really sad to read. Sorry OP for all that you`re going through, for and being scared to try and make it financially on your own. Stop thinking that you and your appearance has anything to do with his mistakes and poor choices. Love is suppose to get through anything…especially a few extra ponds. Don`t blame yourself.
that sucks … what’s a windshield washer whore ?
OP, since you keep referring to his “whore” as fat, then shouldn’t that mean you can stop worrying about being overweight yourself? According to that, Hubby isn’t fussy.
Also, I’m sorry, but I’m stuck on “BBM”. Is it ‘BlackBerry Messenger’ or ‘Big Beautiful Man’???
Black Berry msgr. No I’m not the poster.
honestly….. i dont think we know enough info to give advice on if she should divorce or not. we are only hearing one side of the story and if all she wants is an “awwwww poor baby” then she shouldn’t have posted here.
1. is he abusing you physically?
2. i hear that his gf was making fun of you… but was he? (telling you you let yourself go if you did, isn’t abuse…. its telling you that he married a woman of one size… and now she is much bigger….. and therefore might not have the same things in common etc)
3. do u assume he went to another woman because of your size? (did he say that?)
4. maybe you don’t put out like you did when you met…. yeah being a mom is tiring, but some people just forget that their own relationship needs work too and just assume its “for better or worse even if you don’t want to”
5. you say you are stressed and depressed….. are you on medications?? maybe your personality has changed and he doesn’t feel like you are the same person.
6. Maybe you would be happier in an open marriage…… stay together for the financial benefit and the kids… yet be free to discreetly see other people?
Maybe divorce is your best option… maybe its not…… you should have an honest look within yourself before deciding whats best for you and more importantly your kids. (yeah her kids are more important than her…. she chose this life, they were born into it.)
Either way he is still a douche for lying to you about it.
anyway good luck
Divorce him already. If you have 3 kids with him, he’s going to be playing plenty of child support. Your happiness is worth the concessions you’ll have to make to support your kids.
It’s infuriating when a first-class jizzhole like your husband needs to blame you to justify his sleazy actions.
Get yourself a good lawyer and milk this bastard until he’s spurting snot through his wandering dick. You have three kids and he has half the responsibility.
OB, you need the broad shoulders of the Suckster !
Unfortunately he’s out hunting… but he’ll be back soon.
After all there is that other old saying, “What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.”
So if your husbands out getting his rocks off elsewhere, you might as well do the same ~:)
As to those who are spewing the divorce him & go for the child support !
Try collecting that when he leaves town, or as has happened to a girl friend of … he leaves the country !
Leave him and start over.
I hope I speak for Bon when I say that ‘start over’ does not include spawning 3 more kids to bring into the drama.
don’t think about it baby, just do it, and say so long loser. there is always a better person around the next corner. whethher you are stick thin, or 1,000 pounds, there is someone for you out there. look around here, or anywhere, except fucking bars. and i’m open to offers too.
DTMFA!
You probably should have figured out he was a loser six years ago. You walked right into this one. Get a divorce and stop being such a martyr.
You THINK you want a divorce well honey you should have left himthe first time. Now he is just making an ass out of you.
I don’t feel bad for the OB in this. Might feel sorry for the kids as the OB and her hubby have already fucked them up for life.
Then again what kind of stupid broad gets knocked up by a guy who cheats on her? *waits for someone to say ‘they were in love!’*
I’m actually kinda with NGF on this one…to a point.
I would have put it in nicer terms and not insulted her, but I really don’t understand why if this happened 6 years ago, you are still with him at 10?
It’s one thing he cheated on you, but to turn around and say it’s your fault cause your getting fat? I don’t understand this kind of thing.
Only you can make yourself happy, and as for the staying for the kids? WTF!!
I hate it when this is said. Yes you can support yourself and three kids. Will it be hard, and will you need to be determined and work fucking hard? YES!
But what is the better fucking scenario? The kids stay in a marriage that, from what is said from the bitch, is abusive. They see you being controlled, insulted and miserable, and they think this is ok. They grow up with a good chance of being in a relationship where they show no self confidence, no self respect and are emotionally or physically abused themselves, or on the other hand become the abuser.
Or on the other side of things, they see a mother who stands up for herself, respects her kids and their feelings for their father, doesn’t drag them away from him, allows them to form their own opinions of him, but a woman who is strong, not pushed around..and works her ass off to independently support her kids and leads a happy life herself?
I must have a hard time understanding this one.
Listen you are dumb, really really dumb, for real. Who posts shit like this? Yes, he is an asshole and you have zero self-esteem; however, you knew he was like that BEFORE you had children. Get a divorce and stop acting like a child. Hide your kids, hide your wife and hide your husband.
OMG Dodson, haha. That wife knew her man was raping errbody out here! and she still stayed. Shame
Don’t get fat and give plenty of BJs. That should keep most men happy.
twould keep the ole suckster on cloud 74 q. hey buddy, welcome back again.
On a none insulting note…it really does affect your kids because they either end up dating losers or they go the complete opposite and after watching their mother get treated so poorly they never really trust that men can be “good guys” and are always on edge. Either way it’s not pretty to watch.
I’m sorry, but I couldn’t resist writing a response. I couldn’t get through all the comments people have posted here but I would like to point out a few facts. Him calling you Fat and ugly is Mental ABUSE. By you sticking around you are showing him that it is “ok” for him to continue with his behaviour. You have three children, what are you teaching them by staying in a relationship so damaged?? You cannot afford to support your children being single, which is why a court order for him to help support you would be a good idea. We can always come up with excuses to stay, but when it comes down to it.. Happiness is the most important thing in life. You will eventually be happy alone but miserable with him forever. Time to wake up honey, you can do better! I PROMISE you, you would be MUCH happier with time. If I can do it, so can you!
I’m sorry, but I couldn’t resist writing a response. I couldn’t get through all the comments people have posted here but I would like to point out a few facts. Him calling you Fat and ugly is Mental ABUSE. By you sticking around you are showing him that it is “ok” for him to continue with his behaviour. You have three children, what are you teaching them by staying in a relationship so damaged?? You cannot afford to support your children being single, which is why a court order for him to help support you would be a good idea. We can always come up with excuses to stay, but when it comes down to it.. Happiness is the most important thing in life. You will eventually be happy alone but miserable with him forever. Time to wake up honey, you can do better! I PROMISE you, you would be MUCH happier with time. If I can do it, so can you! <3
If the OP hasn’t smartened up by now (10 years down the road), they never will. OP, you put yourself in this mess, now get yourself out of it.
naughty, naughty there busted. you ID’d someone, watch yourself.
Oops..we aren’t allowed to do that? Thought it was freedom of speach!
Well if it helps, I’ve reported the comment I made, and hope they take it down, cause I don’t know how to retract a comment ~ sorry for any offence to those readers.
before my time here, a couple of people said nasties about specified individuals (HFD). The police made The Coast give up their ip addresses, and they were sued(?)/charged(?)
Yes, we do have freedom of speech in Canada, but calling someone a “cheating loser” is slander unless you have evidence to back it up. Also, The Coast has a no-name policy.
no names are required… even I know who wrote this bitch… she and her prego belly are featured on HIS facebook profile.
This bitch is going to cause one hell of a shit storm if the “idiot” the OP is talking about realizes it… No one should cause this much drama with kids involved.
Oh, my bad… I mean the “dick”
Kay…she doesn’t mention she’s currently pregnant.
I’m finished raisin’ kids. I’m waiting on grandchildren now, fucktard
I don’t get who you’re calling a “fucktard” Kay? No one mentionned anything about you raising kids in this thread?
go talk to REAL CHICK, ‘she’ seems to know everything about everything
I love talking to RealChick… but she doesn’t mention your mother/grandmother situation at all. All she said was that the OP never said she was pregnant at the moment.
/ignore kay
yes, ignore kay.. she wasn’t talking to you, she was talking to the OP whose pic kay was looking at when she made a comment on this thread
i’m really confused. you’re speaking of fb whey you say that. kay?
DTMFA It will be rough road, but worth it.
OR Get some cock and rub the smell of some other guys junk in his face.