Do you realize why you’re single? It’s because you don’t know how to talk to/treat women properly. You are a total douchebag! I don’t hear from you in months but then suddenly you send me emails in the last couple weeks. And in those emails, you say something along the lines of ‘do you want a fuck- partner or not?’! By now, I’m already seeing this other guy, so I tell you that. Then You write to me saying ‘Well, let’s fuck around anyway’. Since I wanted nothing to do with you, and to not be a rude bitch I told you I was seeing this guy, you send me this email telling me I didn’t answer your question properly and insisted on writing back to you! And then you demand me to send you pictures of myself again to see if ‘I was good-looking enough’!.
Um, do you think I will send you any pictures of myself,especially when you won’t send me pics of you? YOU ARE A DISRESPECTFUL LOSER!
—Will finally block you if you don’t fuck off
This article appears in Feb 5-11, 2009.


why is it then that it’s the bad boys the birds flock to?
“Shut up! I’m not interested! These are just some of the things you’ll be hearing if you answer this ad. PS: No dogs.”
Bullshit, If you want NOTHING to do with someone, you cut them OFF Period. You don’t warn them, you don’t ask nicely. You stop taking calls, answering email, block them on facebook, messenger.
I hope the “new” guys sees this and runs. fast. Go back to your fuck-buddy
“especially when you won’t send me pics of you?” this would not be an issue if you weren’t intrested.
Actually, Elvis, the fucker wrote to me again about an hour ago, so I cut him off in every way, just as you suggested. The reason why I didn’t block him before is because I assumed he would take a fucking hint and leave me alone when I would either ignore him or tell him I was taken! I don’t normally block people (most people get the message so blocking’s not necessary, as I see it), but this guy was so fucking persistent! Would it kill him to jerk off or hire a prostitute?????
And Balls, months ago when I was first talking to him (when I WAS interested and was yet to know he was a douche)he asked for my photos and told me he wasn’t showing me his pics till I sent MY pics! So I ignored him since until he wrote again just 2 weeks ago!
You did the right thing, Selina – this dude is a total waste of time and space. All he wants to do is get his rocks off. Arseholes like this fucktard should go pick up a slab of liver at the Superstore and pound at that for the one or two minutes it takes. Don’t ever assume a man will take a hint – you really need a 2 x 4 of reality to clock this clown with. You did good.
Good for you. Its easy to be brave over the net, and chances are the guys tactics have worked for him before. Better off without.
Good luck.
Gee, sounds like a real dreamboat…
TTFN, I’m not defending this guy in any way, but is it just me or are you a raging feminist?
There are as many conniving bitches out there as there are douchebags. the key is to hook THEM up so they leave us reasonably educated, sane people alone and provide fodder for our anonymous forum.