I wish people would stop telling me that my man’s cheating on me while he works out west for weeks at a time. OK, he cheated on me once…way back in late 2011, and that’s when we were having a rough patch! He even told me, himself. We are going strong and have been for the past two years. We worked out our issues years ago! And even if he’s still a cheater, who’s he gonna cheat with? He’s on a camp with a bunch of men! People seriously need to mind their own business and learn to not project their misery on happy people. -East Coast Girly
This article appears in May 29 – Jun 4, 2014.
He might be who he used to be, got wise and didn’t tell you about the next one :p If ALLLLLLLLL these people are telling you he’s cheating are ALLLLLLL of those people wrong? If it’s just like 3 people who i’d probably just say “yea” and ignore them. Unless one is his mom, listen to that.
They aren’t there and they do not know what is in his heart. Their opinions and predictions are just so much fart air, effused through the wrong orifice.
Hate to tell you this, but there are women in those camps too. Whether he’s cheating or not, only he really knows.
I once worked with a straight guy who told me this bizarre story of how back-woods loggers use a rain barrel with a hole cut in it. It ran kinda’ like a lottery system… you had to take your turn IN the barrel…
OB. haven’t you heard? He’s become fond of the cock. Definitely not the man he used to be!
When he comes home and starts complaining about the drapes, how the colour of the chesterfield doesn’t match his eyes, or uses words like pastiche and genre, insists the radio be left on CBC 2 – he’s gone the Cranky route.
This will be his favourite song
http://youtu.be/5zey8567bcg
Once he dipped his wick in some other (possibly contaminated) clam pit, he should have been punted to the side of a trailer park.
You are ‘cockstruck’, pure and simple – your post positively screams insecurity and denial.
You haven’t seen “Brokeback Mountain” OP? Does he like to go fishing with his bestest buddy when he’s home?
Op,
If you are a woman, you have an intuititave factor in this…listen to it. I hate to admit it, but I have to agree with Ivan…… yes, can’t say I have agreed with him alot lately either…..I have had to listen to ALOT of bullshit regarding myself over the years and I have learned that the only thing that matters is ALWAYS between my loved one and myself. Do not pay attention to whatever anyone else says…sometimes, their intentions are not always in your best interest nor are they always accurate. Go with what you feel and trust in your love….trust is hard to have but when you have it, you have to depend on it.
Wishing you the best from the deepest part of my heart!
” I hate to admit it, but I have to agree with Ivan…… “
Same thing happens to SOBova a couple of times a year.
It’s nothing to be concerned about still she’s got a really good cult de-programmer on speed dial. Done a lot of work with ex-moonies and Amway types. My addy is garywantspoonanny@hotmail.ca.
A camp with a bunch of men… hurm…. Straight(ish)? Dan Savage writes a lot about this.
Dear East Coast Girly;
You are delusional. Dump that ho! Did it once….will do it again… and again…and again..and so on and so on.
The camps are full of women…very hard working, busy women! Don’t believe for a minute that he is isolated with a bunch of men. You might want to check his work schedule too. Most work two or three weeks with a week off. Edmonton swarms with these guys!
Truly,
Alberta Girly
PS – get yourself to the clinic. Just sayin’
I wish you knew how to quit him!
You ever hear of the Newfie Indie? It involves grabbing your paycheck and driving as fast as you can to Edmonton, but stopping at every stripper on the way.
There are plenty of women around Alberta. And anyway why are you complaining to us? Go complain to those allegedly lying friends.
Check his palms for blisters?
Dear East Coast Girly,
Your man has gotten caught up in the cash cow. Yeah, the money is very good, but the cost is high.
If your love is true, don’t give up yet! Pack up and go to him. Make a life together. Alberta is desperate for hard working people so you will find work easily.
Edmonton is a big city, 1.5 million and growing every day. There is room for you and your love…and if it doesn’t work out…..well, there are plenty of fish….especially ‘out west’.
Don’t cry anymore, do something.
Alberta Girly
PS – Maybe some of your ‘lying’ friends would like to join your adventure! 😉