You were working a temporary position with us. You and I worked really well together and we became friends. A couple of weeks before your job was going to end, you applied for another position within the company. When you announced to me about this position you applied for. Learning what it was, I knew you wouldn’t be a good fit at all. This was a very fast-paced job and, although I liked you and you were good at other things, you were very slow. I told you I didn’t think you’d make it in such a position and you shouldn’t have applied for it. You disaggreed.
I was worried that if you did get the job, you’d be let go quickly and I didn’t want that to happen to you. So I went to our HR head and informed her why you wouldn’t be the best fit. I filled her in on your good qualities but I stressed that you might not be able to keep up with the tasks.
You didn’t get the job. They hired someone from the outside.
Flash forward a few months later, I learn my husband has been cheating on me. With you!!!
The hubby and I had been having marital issues for a while, so it didn’t really shock me that he messed around on me. What shocked me was it was with you! Apparently the reason why you did it was ’cause I put in a bad word to HR and that was why you didn’t get the position!
What kind of a psycho are you?! To go fuck my hubby ’cause you thought I was trying to sabotage you! I was looking out for you—I knew you were in for a rude awakening had you taken this job, so I just briefly mentioned to HR your weaknesses. You insisted that I was entire reason you didn’t get the position was ’cause of what I said. How do you know that? You might not have gotten the position regardless!
I was trying to be your friend, REALLY I was. —Soon-to-be Divorcee
This article appears in Oct 4-10, 2012.
The same kind of a psycho that would interfere with somebody else s job application?
Friend or no friend, what you did was sneaky, underhanded and just WRONG! Who are YOU to make that judgement? Her suitability for the position is for your employer to decide… and for you to step on your ‘friend’s’ toes like that?? Wow! I would be pissed if I was her too! That was some low-down shit! I’m not a huge believer in karma, but if I was, I’d say it just bit you on the ass in a big way.
Um, yeah, because a friend goes to HR and tells them why someone shouldn’t be considered for position. Fucking douche.
A friend would have stopped at warning the candidate they might not be the best fit and holds the Kleenex when tye get disappointed. That’s it. Friends like you should go hang with Hitler.
Sounds like you got fucked over..oh wait…you’re friend did by you and your husband
Why on earth would you go to HR and job-block her like that?
How can you possibly think you were protecting your friend by preventing disappointment of potential failure? It was something they wanted to try out and you basically took a steaming shit all over it.
Certainly it doesn’t warrant adultery but geez woman, screw your head on straight.
You worry on your career and keep your petty meddling to your own damn self.
Besides what the others said, how else are you supposed to learn and advance your career if you’re never given the opportunity to work in higher positions? No one becomes a CEO by staying at the same level.
What a bitch! People learn from their mistakes, keep your nose out of other people’s business. You deserved it.
You fucking cunt, you went out of your way to ensure she didn’t get that position. If you had done that to me, I would have also retaliated by fucking your husband. It was none of your business in the first place. Marital issues with the hubby? Hmmm, I’m sure every guy on this planet would have marital issues with you, fucking psycho!
All three of you are losers. The end.
some people catch on quick o.p., i had a guy that tried out for a job i was doing in landscaping. he didn’t know fuck, but i gave him a chance. he worked long hard hours, and turned out to be one of my best people in the company. just so you know.
Dip your oar into someone’s life when not asked, then you better expect to find them splashing in your pond some day. Sometimes in very surprising ways. Many call it that old term ‘Karma’ but some people do not wait for that and go for the even older ‘revenge can be sweet’ route. Seems she did – in spades.
You may have even really meant well, but when you become a ‘butinsky’ do not be surprised at what may happen to you. Age old advice is usually – mind your own business, in most things.
LOLZ – What the80s said – LOSERS!!!
You know OB, Jerry Springer is always looking for new material.
P.S.- Don’t put all of the blame on the ‘friend’ you raked over the coals…I’m pretty sure she didn’t accidentally fall on your husband’s penis.
OP Your husband is to blame here too.He does have a working brain that he can use to make his own decision’s,doesn’t he?He can communicate in some way?Sure you poked your nose where it didn’t belong so your a bitch your friend put the moves on your husband.But,unless she forced fed him the little blue pill then tricked him into having sex with her,he said yes.
Your all a bunch of fucking immature asswipes and you deserve each other.
OP you got too much of what the cat licked its ass with. Who are you to run to HR and tell them her weak points? I am sure HR could have deciphered themselves whether or not she was suitable for the job. Shame on you! As for her screwing your hubby I would say he is to blame. He’s the one you should be mad at not her. He is the one who had the responsibility of loyalty towards you, certainly not her especially after the way you raked her over the coals to HR. Stick to minding your own biz next time and get rid of the douchebag you call your husband. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
Lol. She fucked your husband cause you fucked her out of a job, lol!!! That’s great, bet you feel stupid now. Don’t you OB? Your friends a dishrag whore, but what you did is pretty douchey too.
Get in the way of someone getting a job, they might fuck your husband, kill themselves, lose their home, go bankrupt, have to eat cat food, etc, etc. There is nothing good that can come out of being such a sneaky scumbag.
what you did was undermine your ‘friend’. the way you rationalize the betrayal is pretty twisted.
come cry on papa sucks shoulder, o.p.
Learn anything?
Your friend must have convinced your husband that you weren’t the best candidate for the marriage. Wonder where she got that idea from?
Who the hell are YOU to decide whether this person was a good fit or not for that position? Next time, mind your own fucking business!
I wonder what positions OP’s husband thought her friend was best for.
OB… seeing as you weren’t fucking him…. surely you can’t be mad he found it elsewhere ?
I’ll never understand that logic …. the cut him/her off from sex , “that’ll teach them”
While I am not saying that selfabuse can’t scratch the itch , its not the same (IMO) as physical human contact.
I am in a monogamous relationship because ‘we’ decided that is what we wanted. IF she decides to cut me off, because we are having ‘difficulties’ or as you put it ‘marital issues for awhile’ or if I tried the same thing to her ( which is sort of like cutting your nose off to improve your looks IMO ! !?! ! )
I certainly wouldn’t be blaming her for going out & getting laid…. you OB need a mirror, take a look into it & the person you see looking back is the cause of all your problems .
i guess you also realize that not only did she fuck your husband, your husband fucked her. I’m guessing it’s been going on long before she was let go, op.
They probably genuinely care for each other. Sorry.
hahah i love this bitch…. karma baby!!
you got exactly what you deserved for being an office douchebag. im glad that happened to you and i hope that the other woman reads the coast and has a good chuckle at your bitch-backfire.
I’d say OP is a class A cunt.