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He gets excited asking these women to show him a little something, but he wants his daughter to go around showing nothing. He can’t see the hyposcrisy in his heart, all he sees is what stimulates his male part. —Somebody’s daughter
This article appears in Mar 19-25, 2015.
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Excellent post. It does raise a valid point. A guy I know said that he hates seeing his teenage daughter wear tight fitting or revealing clothes because he remembers what he was like as a hormone addled teenage boy. What goes around comes around!
MALE & FEMALE PARTS
“He can’t see the hyposcrisy (sic) in his heart, all he sees is what stimulates his male part.” Somebody’s daughter
But how is it hypocrisy of your father to ask you not to show your female part while getting excited asking other women to show their female parts? Do you not see a distinction between your father’s view of his daughter’s female part and other women’s female parts? Do you think it would be appropriate to have his male part stimulated by seeing your female part? On the other hand, do you find the thought of showing your female part to others stimulates your female part? Would you find it exciting to show your female part to your father and so stimulate his male part?
Do you have magnificent labia? I understand that there’s a website called “Rate my Female Part” (actually it’d not called “Female Part” but you get the idea). Would you want to give it a go? Write back soon with the results.
A pleasure as always,
Cheerio!
It’s simple OB, all men are pigs and the patriarchy is evil. And especially the ‘nice guys’ are bad. I wouldn’t trust any of them.
Ummmmm Mod? Gender is a construct. You just committed a micro aggression. This is trans violence and your Social Justice credentials are now forfeit.
His daughter stimulates my male parts.
I’m not stimulated.
Yeah? and what’s your point OP?
Fathers: Be the type of man you want your daughter to be with.
Why is this hypocrisy?
Attraction between adults is normal. Most adults ENJOY some aspects of the game of attraction, and most adults ENJOY finding fulfilling relationships with one another. Fulfilling relationships usually include an element of physical attraction and intimacy. This is not “bad”, this is one of the most crucial activities of our adult decades!
Decent parents OF COURSE endeavor to shelter children from certain aspects of the grown-up world while children are naive and vulnerable, unable to understand the complex interactions of adults. It is not unreasonable for parents to have different standards of dress for children, teenagers and adults, and at the same time enjoy looking at/flirting with/having relationships with attractive adults.
Adults, in the meantime, are free to enjoy attractions between other adults–and yes, that includes — gasp! — actually looking at people.
Just because someone is a parent doesn’t mean they can’t find another adult attractive. The whole point of being an adult is that you are ALLOWED to seek out and enjoy relationships with one another!
You know, I’ve even heard a rumour that even your own parents sometimes find a few moments of romance after the kids are in bed–shocking concept, but how do you think YOU came into the world?
I dislike the current pathologizing of normal adult human interactions, when even a passing glance or a genuinely kind word is considered aggressive or “creepy.”
My theory is there was far too much “Stranger Danger” propaganda when some people went through grade school.