Note to the rabid “IT’S MERRY CHRISTMAS NOT HAPPY HOLIDAYS” people on FB and elsewhere? You just proved your own point that telling people what to say is annoying. Way to suck all the joy out of Christmas. —The Grinch

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  1. I agree, freedom of speech. If I wanna say merry christmas or happy holidays or whatever I’ll say it how I please.

    If I wished someone a happy holiday and they got pissed at me for the way I worded.. I’d be like “oh that’s right, I meant go fuck yourself, sorry.”

  2. Virgin Mobile had it right, (I think it was Virgin…maybe Old Navy?), and just cover all your bases and no one gets offended.
    Merry Christmahanakwanzika everybody!!

  3. I agree with Tommyjules902, some get too bent around the axle over this. Either way your just being nice and enjoying the season.

  4. Happy Ho-Ho-Ho to you ‘Ho……who gives a fuck what your ilk call the season………what you call corn others may call it maize……..stick that in your pipe and smoke it ya fuckwad.

  5. grinch, i agree with you 1,000 per cent. it CHRISTMAS, not holiday. if you don’t want to call it that, then too fucking bad for you. and for all the idiots that whine about not having that day off, because of the name of day, well, you can fucking work, or sit in a corner, with your thumb up your ass.
    i’m getting real fed up with the aways, coming here, and trying to US, to adapt to their customs, from where ever they came from. if you don’t want to join in, fine, then don’t. but don’t go expecting me or anyone else, to bend over and kiss your asses. you came to this country for a reason, you weren’t asked. so you either suck it the fuck up, or see you later.
    of course there are those of you reading this, that will cry racism, discrimination or some other bullshit. go for it, but i will still fucking call it CHRISTMAS, even if they ship me off to where ever the aways come from. so kiss my ass, and an early MERRY FUCKING CHRISTMAS to all.

  6. I worked for an Israeli Company and at Christmas I ALWAYS received a Christmas Card from Head Office in Haifa wishing me a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. At Hanukkah I sent a card with the appropriate wishes, nobody lost a life, nobody was offended.
    Peace on Earth Goodwill to All, corny to some, but that’s how I see Christmas.

  7. Okay, see, this is what kills me… ‘Christmas’ is a contraction of ‘Christ’s Mass’, ‘Holiday’ is a contraction of ‘Holy Day’… so no real difference there…. BUT picking Dec. 25th as Jesus’ Birthday and freaking out that Christ is the Reason for the Season is absurd since the Church picked a pagan holiday to use so it would be easier to phase in the no good heathens.

    Since we all know Apple is the Reason for the Season.

    The most hypocritical holiday I’ve ever heard of. Peace on Earth, Good Will T’ Ward Men… I only wish. Pepper-spray, rampant consumerism and greed more like.

    BUT, I smile and sing along and wish people the best of the season because in my heart of hearts I wish it could be something different. The words don’t matter, the deeds do.

    That’s just my opinion, I could be wrong

  8. you are right on rosie, plus i’m baking cookies and those make everyone smile. i’ll hook you up with a tin full

  9. The difference with Hannukah vs Christmas is we as a nation celebrate that “season”, collectively. Personally, I don’t believe in God(and by extension, Jesus). The season is Christmas for me, and I love the traditions of it(which pretty much were co-opted by Christians from Pagan and other traditions) especially getting together with friends and loved ones, the great food, the good feelings that come out, and the feeling of community. If I know someone is Jewish or Muslim, I may still say Merry Christmas(if I know they are cool with it), but seeing as the whole country gears up and shuts down for it, wishing someone a Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays shouldn’t be some strange idea.
    As for the origin of the words, (“Holy Days= Holidays” etc), tradition and usage changes and/or modifies words and teir meanings in this living language of English.
    Get over yourselves, complainers, and eat some fruitcake.

    Wpaul

  10. Agreed, OB!

    I think people just love having something to be offended about. And, lacking something real, they will FIND something.

    I mean, I’m not a Christian, but if somebody wishes me a “Merry Christmas”, I don’t get bent out of shape. Who cares? Who effing gives a shit?! This drives me CRAZY.

  11. How about Happy Christmas? Will that make people happy? I like that you pointed out that December 25 was originally a pagan day of worship Rosie. That it has been made Christ’s birthday is a more recent makeover. Well, more recent as in 2,000 y.o.
    It does sound however Rosie that like you may suffer from SAD, the disorder I referred to earlier.
    As far as the semantics of the season as concerned, people could say to me “Merry Flying Tuna” and I would take in the spirit it was given.
    My favourite Christmas movie would have to be “A Christmas Story” about the boy who wants a BB gun.

  12. Happy Birthday to me.
    Happy Birthday to me.
    Happy Birthday Dear Jesus.
    Happy Birthday to me.

    and many more.

  13. Semantics is the study of the meaning of something (phrase, symbol, word etc). If it weren’t for learning and changing through semantics I think the world would be in a much worse place. We still have freedom of speech and semantics helps us from not offending others and having the ability to be heard without people getting caught up on semantics.

    There seems to be 3 types of people.
    1. Religious Christians that really celebrate the birth of Christ
    2. People who are non religious that have taken on the Christmas name based solely on tradition only and the Christ in Christmas is just a buzz word and they are in the whole thing for the great family time, exchange of gifts and time off work etc. (these people are the people that are most resistant to stop saying Merry Christmas to strangers who may not follow the tradition.
    3. People who are non religious towards the Christian religion and or atheist who do not celebrate Christmas at all and usually are polite when someone says Merry Christmas even though it is not within their beliefs however, even though they are recognizing another God just maybe against their religion if they belong to one. This group enjoys the Holiday and celebrates how they see fit

    The whole debate on if we should be saying Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays is based on the Christian religions. The people in the second category (Traditionalists) who are not religious and use Merry Christmas as their tradition verbiage towards the day are the most offensive because if they address the holiday as Merry Christmas to non practicing/celebrating individuals it goes right over their traditionalist head as they don’t relate the day to a religion it is just a buzz word for them. These traditionalists don’t seem to understand that they are making a religious statement to someone and expecting a religious greeting back from someone who indeed doesn’t practice or have the same beliefs. Little does each party realize is that the person saying Merry Christmas doesn’t mean it as a religious event or greeting it is just what they have always said and they are no more aware of who Christ is or have they ever read the book he starred in.
    Why do Christians that insist on continuing to say Merry Christmas to people that they are not aware if they share the same beliefs? Do they really need that validation from non religious people towards their religion?
    Honestly, people who are traditionalists are the most annoying because they are insistent on keeping Christ in Christmas as most don’t know the first thing about the Christian religion and they would be the first ones pissed off if someone with a bible came knocking on their door expressing religious views. When you say Merry Christmas you are spewing out a religious statement even if it is just a buzz word for you.
    I think the government needs to change the holiday to Winter Holiday instead of Christmas Day.
    I haven’t even touched on the commercialism of the holiday which again shows that there is very little Christianity in the air during the holidays.
    People can use Merry Christmas when they know the person they are speaking to shares the same belief but otherwise , happy Holidays is fine. No need to make a statement that is a religious statement when it isn’t necessary just for the sake of tradition. If some traditions were not changed over the years we would still be rounding up people for gas chambers and lynching people. So let’s be careful when we keep things just for the sake of tradition.

  14. Wait, wait, wait… I don’t like the hypocrisy of the season… I would love if people took the season in the spirit in which it is meant and not some money-grubbing greed fest and that means I have SAD? Uh… what…?

  15. since xmas IS a holiday…
    I would think either would be fine.

    What gets me is the holiday tree.
    It’s not a holiday tree at all?!?!?!
    only the jebus believers put the damn thing up (anti-arbor, tree murdering bastards) so it’s a christmas tree.

    The raging christians aren’t asking for a Menorah to be called a holiday candle-holder.

    The whole season is ridiculous… so I don’t say either.

  16. While I have no problem with “Merry Christmas” whatsoever, I also see a valid argument for “Happy Holidays” or “Season’s Greetings”.

    I have quite a few Jewish friends. I also have a couple friends who celebrate Kwanzaa. In 2011, it’s a bit niave to still subscribe to the “we’re a Christian society” school of thought.

    Sure, pleny of us are Christians. But there are PLENTY of Nova Scotians who aren’t. And they’re also observing holidays or special occasions this time of year.

    While I don’t think we need to run out and erase the word “Christmas”, I don’t see a problem with trying to be a little more inclusive and recognizing Christmas isn’t the only significant occasion that occurs in December.

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