I need to see you so very badly but, I don’t know how to get that message to you; or even if you want to see me. Over Christmas, I messaged you on Facebook and then deleted it after a few days because I became frightened of the thought that you just weren’t interested in me. Did I send the message to a person with the same name as yours, I don’t know? You messaged me anonymously to tell me if I’m serious about my feelings for you to simply come post it in a “comment”. You aren’t serious enough to contact me via FB.
I read today that someone we both may know will be going away. My heart sunk when I read that;my first thought was, it could be you going away for a year. I’m not unforgettable enough for you to remember me for one year. I have desires and want you to quench them but how do I contact you? Or has all this been nothing but a farce, for you and your friends’ entertainment at my expense? – My Feelings Are Serious For You But I’m Nobody’s Clown
This article appears in Jan 10-16, 2013.
Shoot,I’m not the only person out there who could use help with grammar and punctuation…
I go with FARCE…
Keep calm and carry on.
What I take from this post is, The man OP is writing about wants OP to crawl threw broken glass then make the leap for him.Unfortunately for her, he is not willing to reach out to her.Why?Perhaps OP is correct in stating that he is simply using her as entertainment.For the amusement of himself and his cohorts.
I wonder how many times this happened to another woman on this board?
She seems to be taken for somebodies sucker…
It appears that there are a series of posts here by the same individual. And I suspect some comments too as they echo posts very closely.
OP, I think you are reaching here. I think you need to let sleeping dogs lie. If they want to contact you, they will probably do it directly. If they haven’t with all of these posts and such, they are probably not likely to do so.
I am sorry. I just don’t want you to churn yourself up about it anymore.
Gentlerain What makes you think OP is reaching?I don’t at all think she is. OP seems angry at the way she was mistreated and manipulated not only by this guy but by his friend.
Well I don’t blame her for being angry at this guy.I’ve been following posts I believe are from OP’s guy to her.He seemed to have led her to believe he was interested in her over months,then he denied everything,when she told him what she believed he did;making her look and feel like a nut job.Not only does she seem angry,she seems very hurt by him and his friend.
If I seem to know a lot about what’s happened between the two,it’s because I have an acquaintance who was manipulated by a man and his friend “in person” then,in a chat room something like this.
I agree with gentlerain and there is more to these posts and comments than just coincidental random people.
Boru, what friend is mentioned in this post? The only “friend” mentioned is in your comment. You are construing things that are not there unless you have intimate knowledge of the original poster (or situation).
Damned exhausting to read all of this. And very little advice being given to the person asking for help or helpful comments.
OP, please give it up. If the person (man) wanted you in his life he would have indicated so. You have done all you can (and some would argue way too much). No response=no interest. Please just move on.
Sunshinenroses
I was following posts I assumed were between the same two people,OP and her “love”.I referred to OB’s “love’s” “friend”.
Yes I may given away too much information on my own and a friend’s. experiences.
I had a terribly bad week last week.I finally got some decent sleep,which was nice.
Boru, I think maybe you assume too much and see too much into the posts made on this website. I think you are coming from a good place and with kind intentions, but you know what they say about assuming things…
Boru fess up, you wrote this love didn’t you. That last sentence smacks of some of the things you have been talking about.