There’s nothing I hate more than making plans with someone for the next day and then they say, “Oh, I’m tired.” Uh, we made these plans yesterday, you should have gone to bed on time? Now on one of the few nice days we’ve gotten this summer I have to figure out something else to do so I’m not wasting the beautiful day. What pisses me off the most is that you said, “Let’s go later instead,” but you and I both know that you won’t go anywhere “later”. I hate that you’d rather leave me to sit around all day waiting for “later” just so you can put off admitting you’re a lazy dick who doesn’t want to do anything. I’m seriously going to stop attempting to make plans with you because your lazy selfish attitude is pissing me off. And before anyone says well maybe they do want to go later stop being a dick, no it really is just an excuse. He probably hopes the weather will get shitty or some better excuse than being “tired” will present itself. Anyway, now that that’s off my chest I’m going to enjoy this awesome day and I hope you all do too! —Flying Solo

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  1. I can’t stand flakes, either.

    But at least this person told you. I had one situation once where I didn’t find out we weren’t doing what we had planned until literally 30 minutes before we were supposed to meet and that was by chance by someone else who had been talking to the person earlier in the day. So I wasted my entire day because I had turned down other plans based on the fact that I thought I had outstanding plans, and it’s very rude to just dump someone you have plans with because something better comes along.

    People can be huge dicks, OP.

    Don’t make plans with these people anymore. Stick to the reliable ones.

  2. Comes down to people not being able to say no. This may be his way of telling you he really doesn’t want to hang around with you anymore.

    I always can tell if someone is gonna flake on me or not. If they’re flaking it’s because they really didn’t want to hang out in the first place but like 95% of people they are spineless and can’t say no to people.

  3. Op, don’t bother putting more into a friendship than what you get out of it. Obviously that person is wasting your time and don’t give a flying fuck.

  4. UGugiuweigwg. I have sooo many flake friends it’s sick. I can’t stand it! I had plans with Flake 1 and Flake 2 and Flake 1 ditched the plans without really communicating very well to me and Flake 2 and Flake 2 had the nerve to get upset over it. I was like “SRSLY? YOU DO THIS ALL THE TIME!!”. Oblivitrons, all o’ dem. Flake 2 and I had plans with one of our other friends who is going to be going away for quite some time out of the country and we knew about his departure for months and Flake 2 decided to leave the province last minute to hang out with some disease-ridden, cheating, pretentious DOUCHE BAG instead of seeing a good friend before they leave. I am so done done with this shit. I am not making plans with these people anymore and the second they say, “we never hang out anymore!!” is the second they’ll get kicked in the teeth.

  5. PK I so thought you wrote this post about NFG. Lol.

    Hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful day!

  6. I see what you did there Brendon. You da man! >; )
    My day sucks old rope. How are the wee ones, Mama B.?

  7. have fun at your nerdman convention 195…i know you will be sporting a loverly chapeau

  8. The boys are doing great! Growing like a weed – he gets weighed again next week but he’s putting on 10 onz a week (the normal is 4…lol). He’s sleeping pretty well – he feeds every 2-3 hours but I’ve gotten use to waking up and going right back to sleep. Pre school little bear is doing great, loving being a big brother since he dosent have to share anything yet and he gets to stay home 3 more days a week now. Ill be in for a visit soon bread lady – now that I know where to find you so you can see the cub – he’s perfect!

  9. anytime you want…if i’m not there the troops will entertain you til i get back

  10. i guess bitching on a computer is not considered as spending your time worthwhile. some of the best bitches are here, and the best bitchers too.
    i read here everyday, and comment quite often, but sometimes, i just sit back and read only.
    i have such a busy life too, but always find ways to amuse myself. don’t even go there seb.

  11. Thanks, PG! ^^ And I probably won’t be wearing my hat most of the time as I’ll be in costume.

  12. these message boards needs a like attached to it, so u don’t have to read negative hate on hear, people, just comment to assist a person, don’t message to put them down, if we all on here on earth are not here to help one another, the what the HELL are we doing here in the first place, mates

  13. Eating and fucking. That’s what we’re here to do. PS, there is a “Love the Way We Love” section

  14. lol Most definitely not. 😛 My avatar is actually me in one of my costumes I’ll be wearing over the weekend.

  15. Um, guys… k, I’ve never read the book. Does the horse survive?

    I can’t stand animal movies, I cry and cry and cry when something happens to them. Sooo…. I just need to know now and I’ll stay far, far away from it.

  16. Dunno Ralmn. Hope so. Otherwise it’s going to be Rooooooooooooo! pour moi.
    That was a rough one, Painey. One Christmas I rented “The Bear” for my Mom. In the opening sequence she kept saying “Oh, is the little cub going to die? I can’t watch this” I had to very gently assure her that since the movie was titled “The Bear” chances were very good the little cub would be around for a while. And I had to say that all.. WITHOUT SARCASM! Not easy being a son, y’know.
    I’d recommend Martin Rosen’s adaptation of Richard Adam’s “The Plague Dogs”…but emotionally it is one of the roughest films to watch, ever. Superb film but it just crumbled me into small bits.

  17. me neither ralmn. the charge of the light brigade was about a cavalry charge during the crimean war. lots of horsies die and peoples too

  18. @ just melectric,lol yeah i forgot bout love area, but that section gets negative vibes as well oh well at lest i can buy beer to unwind whew

  19. I wouldn’t go and read comments on the internet to feel good vibes. Try ecstasy or getting a kitten 🙂

  20. I dropped all friends who would do this too me.
    I had 2 shitty friends who wouldn’t even lemme know they didn’t wanna hang out no more
    For my b day, i made plans to go down town. These 2 useless bitchs was supposed to come with me, they didn’t, in fact I waited til 10 oclock, then got a ahold of them. THEY WAS GOING OUT WITH THEIR NEW BFS!!

  21. Aw thanks for that kitteh pic, PG! I missed you guys too!!!!

    And, heh, I even managed to come back with a Coach purse, and a Bench hoodie.

    But hay — the purse was a bridesmaid’s gift from my cousin and the hoodie was on super sale at the bench store ^_^

    heehee. And I had to get my mom to bring up my extra suitcase to drag home the loot I bought during le trip. Almost made up for the grungy heat + humidity the GTA made me endure! yay! ahahaha.

    Also: Jews know how to: a) eat and b) throw a party.

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