I told you I wanted an open relationship right from the beginning and you said no… so I only had sex with you, and then you cheated on me a year later and lied to me about it. Then I forgave you, we moved in together and a year later you fucked someone else and lied to me about it again. Your the one with double standards, and I’m glad I finally left you and your pathetic ways
This article appears in Oct 16-22, 2008.
Well done.Now if you’re common-law after living together a year take what you can :p
OP: It’s no surprise to me that you are in the shape you’re in… If you offer someone an open relationship, you are actually asking/saying TWO things:1) IS it okay for me to screw around..??? (Ans: No)… and2) It IS okay for YOU to screw around…!!! (Go for it darling… I am open minded and foregiving)You rolled the dice and lost… Best of luck next time…
true, floyd. but if the someone responds with a “no” to your offer, and you decide to stay with them anyway and respect their need for fidelity, you have a right to expect the same fidelity. you ignored the rest of the timeline after the offer (which was actually more of a “request”).maybe this person had requirements on the open relationship that they would have liked to discuss before suddenly finding out that they’d been lied to. such as, not fucking other people without protection, etc.
Open relationships are just gross. How could someone look at themselves in the mirror when their “girlfriend” comes home having to shower some other guys sweat and spunk off her before she gets into bed with him. What if she doesn’t?! Eyikes. Or smelling some other girls downward bits and perfume on your “boyfriends” face or clothes or something when he comes in to kiss you…. thats horrible.Also a note to the OP, for every one time you caught them cheating, they have probably have done it and gotten away with it a few more times. And lots of people cheat. Look across the room to your significant other. Its nearly fifty-fifty chances they cheated on you at some point. But don’t fret because odds are that you will find out someday.
I agree. Whats the point of having the title “open relationship” When you’re sleeping with more then one person, its not a relationship. In my opinion, anyways.. A relationship involves TWO people! (but Im a jealous bitch, I wouldnt like to share my men, but, to each their own I guess)Anyhoo, in regards to the OP, thats a shitty situation.. you gave her the option, she chose no… Basically, she didnt want you to fuck anyone else, but she wanted to.. SKANK! You’re better off without her!
Look across the room to your significant other. Its nearly fifty-fifty chances they cheated on you at some point. But don’t fret because odds are that you will find out someday.In that case.. odds are you will cheat on them too.
You wouldn’t know, would you… we all can be suspect. Including you too, poo9i pal, including you!
50-50 chance? How do you figure?
To quote Henry Hill: “There is something wrong with a person who cannot love more then one person.”Sex can be seperate from love. And that is the point of an open relationship. Well, that’s how I felt until I met the girl I am with now. So I think its possible someone in an open relationship may not have found true love, as I could never be with someone else after my girl.Out of curiousity OP, did the cheater look for it, or was it spur of the moment?