Wow, I’m a female and dating someone quite a bit younger than me. Such cause for shock and awe! Such cause for criticism! If this was the other way around and I was a man dating a woman ten years my junior no one would say anything about it, so shut up and mind your own business. I have waited almost forever to find someone who makes me feel like this. Who are you to criticize just because I’m female dating a younger man? —Experiencing the Best Fulfillment of My Life
This article appears in May 24-30, 2012.
On tonight’s episode of Miss Teacher Bangs a Boy…
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the only problem that i see here, is hopefully, he is still not in the game playing age. you know, wants to spend every fucking waking minute with w.o.w., or some such stupid life sucking piece of shit game.
i know a few idiots like this, and their life is the total shits. they spend about 15 hours a day, and only break for food, or can. if they work, they are fucking round on company time, online, playing their dumb fucking game.
so, if you got yourself hooked into one of those, ditch him, pronto. if however, you are such a moron as he is, then good fucking luck to you. he will tire of you in a year or less, and look for someone his own age to party harty with.
and hope to fuck, that there will be no kids, them poor little fucks, will be the ones paying, not you or him. yep, have fun with the toy boy now, cause soon, he’ll pull a disappearing act. BET ON IT.
Wrong. People say shit about young females with older men all the time. Just ignore them and enjoy your beau.
My 1st Hub-Unit was 21 years older than me – all was bliss the first few years, then reality set in – he developed heart problems and suddenly I was married to an old man. Fortunately, he was diverted by a little redheaded looking for a ‘sugar daddy’ and he was gone quicker than I could say ‘meh’. I ended up with present Hub-Unit, much closer to me in age and we’ve been together 30 years. I can’t even imagine what my life would have been like married to an old geezer hooked up to an oxygen tank. Good luck, kid, you’ll need it. And if you’re buckling under these comments now, you just wait.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that it doesn’t matter whether it’s a younger man/older woman or older man/younger woman combo – the odds of making it work are pretty slim. Unless you have more money than Gawd, then they might stick around a little longer.
Do the math, dear: 20 goes into 60 more than 60 goes into 20 …if you know what I mean…heheheh…
Not sure I agree with you OP. The older woman/younger man combo seems to be the cause celebre these days. Older guys dating younger (10 years or more) women seem to be viewed as pervs and lecherous. Either is okay if you can make it work. IMO.
I think the saying is “you are only as young as the people you feel”
Some chicks like babysitting the kids they fuck. I’m over it.
Demi Moore is that you?
..cougars got claws 🙂
I’m female. My SO is 18 years my senior. We’ve been seeing one another for four years (living together for two), and I assure you that we get plenty of.. er.. helpful.. comments. 😉
The way I see it is this: I’m happy right now, and I could get hit by a bus tomorrow. Dating an older (or younger) partner is not without its complications, and yes, potentially some pretty harsh realities. But if you’re happy with this younger fella, go for it. Who’s to say what the future will bring, anyway? Enjoy the time you have together while you have it, I say! Life’s too fraking short.
Besides, I find that the majority of the people who make critical comments are those who aren’t very happy with themselves or with their own lives. *shrug*
I always follow the Rule: Half your age, plus 7. That usually gives you a fairly ‘appropriate’ age range. Not that I would prescribe to that rule if an amazing 40+ y.o. lady stopped by. Rules can be broken.
80 yr old and a 33 yr old…
yeah, that wouldn’t look odd at all.
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My parents are 10 years apart in age, and no one thought it was strange for a 34 year old man to date a 24 year old woman when they got together.
Yet there’s this big ‘to do’ a few months back from some because I was considering dating someone 7 years younger than me.
And just because you date someone, doesn’t mean you have to date them seriously. There’s nothing wrong with having a little fun here or there. Not EVERY relationship has to lead to marriage.
I think it’s high time you had a little fun with your judgemental tormenters. Just pretend he’s your son, then give him a big ole kiss on the lips, then walk away hand in hand.
34 / 2 = 17 + 7 = 24 Years old. Your parents we’re breaking any rules PK
In my first year of college I was seeing a 27 year old, I was 19. No one put up a stink about that.
Oooh oooh ooooh 30/2+7=22
BAHAHAHA.
I will say, though, the age thing did kind of bother me when I thought about it. Because at 30, a 23 year old isn’t exactly on the same level maturity-wise, and isn’t necessarily in the same place in life. I’m finished school and have a job. He’s still in school. I’m thinking about the future (marriage+kids) and he’s thinking about crap I got over a long time ago.
And if we DO get along, does it say something about my maturity level?
Sooooo I had to think long and hard on that one and ultimately turned it down.
Giggity, giggity, giggity, giggity! Awe-right!
OB…I can’t tell if you are bragging, or complaining .
Enjoy it now whileit lasts. Once your tits and ass start to inevitably sag (if they have not already), he will dump you for a newer model.
“The models will have children,
We’ll get a divorce,
We’ll find some more models,
Everything must run its course”
🙂
Where do these so-called rules come from? No source = no validity. And movies don’t count.
Good for you, be happy and ignore anyone that rains on your parade!
I dated a man 11 years younger then me, it didn’t work out in the end, but it was not because of our age….I don’t regret one minute!
GET IT GURRRRRRL. That is all.
the problem with dating a younger man is they ain’t got 2 red cents to rub together and they want you to pay for their ass when you go out. And don’t assume the shaggin’s gonna be mind-bloiwing stamina of a bucking bronco either, cuz that’s rarely the case. The last younger dude I dated was all elbows and he would drive his hard chin into my breast. Ow. Pep pep pep – Done.
“This year’s model is called Kronk”
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“the problem with dating a younger man is they ain’t got 2 red cents to rub together and they want you to pay for their ass when you go out.”
Actually, not always.
Heh.
OH HAY ZED: YOUR IMAGE NO WORKSIES:
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? works fine for me…
damn it, must be cached then.
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