I hate to subscribe to a some-what outdated idea of masculinity, but when it comes to romance, this city is the shits. Some of the men I’ve tangled with in the last 2 years have been selfish, uncourteous dickheads who have no idea how to treat a woman. Sure, it was ‘my fault’ for sleeping with you without making you ‘commit’ to me (as the trolls in the comments will offer as advice) but where are your manners? Maybe we were both using each other but you could at least call me back or at the very least refuse my further requests to see you. Ignoring someone is so cowardly. Either I have terrible taste in men (probable) or men these days are completely devoid of any courtship manner. I’m starting to think that I’m not worth decent treatment because you shitfucks don’t know how to treat a woman; then I remember that I do indeed deserve to be treated well and you’re just part of a generation of men who don’t want to work for it, because there’s always some skank willing to spread and some girl who you don’t have to call back to get some from. I’d rather masturbate every day then spend another minute trying to get your attention. —Loser Town
This article appears in May 24-30, 2012.
If you were just using him you wouldnt be hurt. Or expecting romance. If you truly do want those things, then DO hold out. If they think you are worth waiting for, they will wait. To follow up with my best advice.. try dating guys who arent your normal type. You may find a wonderful gem.
Judging by your adolescent spew, I’d say you are simply getting paid back in the same currency you bring to the market.
So…you are a skank? I don’t date girls who fuck on the first date. You can’t make a ho a housewife.
These guys ignore you because you are sooooooo needy! You think because you are “on a date” and give him the ass he requires early in the relationship then he will be there for you in the long haul. He is only there for the ass!
How many men have you tangled with? Ever think Gus’s Pub is not the best place to find a keeper? As for the downtown holes these are for downtown ho’s ….. ya can’t have what all your girlfriends have so resign yourself to masturbation for the next couple of years.
What Styles said. I don’t date guys who fuck on the first date. You can’t make a ho a husband.
mahbe u no suk dik on first date and men no treat u lik ho?
I agree, if you were “using” these men for a good time and sex, then you wouldn’t expect a call back or even really want one. Some people just can’t do the sex outside of relationships thing. There’s nothing wrong with that at all, just don’t try to be someone you’re not. Sometimes a relationship can come out of having sex early on, but you can’t ever know that so if you’re the type to get offended when people ignore you after sex, then don’t go having one-night stands.
We shall also correct your English, dear lady-slut! You mean to say: as the trolls in the comments will offer as advise, not “advice”.
The word you used is a noun, not a verb. A noun is a word used to name a person, animal, place, thing, and abstract idea.
A verb or compound verb asserts something about the subject of the sentence and express actions, events, or states of being.
Stop being a dumb cunt.
Tommy, I love your comment!
This is nothing new… It’s not unique to “today’s” man. And by saying that I don’t mean men are necessarily to blame. I just mean that some women will never ever learn. I’m sure there’s a cave carving of your bitch circa 10,000 BC, an Egyptian hieroglyph, a Victorian era diary note, etc. all saying the same thing.
Don’t give it away. Or do, if that’s what you want, but you should probably adjust your expectations.
At the risk of seeming like a dumb c-word it seems like one can offer advice. If so, one is advising. Not advicing as advised by Professor Meaty.
Women are just as bad. So many seem to be out for the cash…. looking for their sugar daddy when all they have to offer is a well used cooch and fading looks.
so when you are just meeting guys to hook up, don’t be surprised when that’s all they want from you.
instead of blaming guys for what they do, how about looking at yourself and how you can improve who you are. maybe then you will feel confident enough about yourself to attract some decent guys instead of the ones who just want to run a few loads though you like your name is maytag.
se o.p., this is what happens when you don’t take up the suckster on an offer he makes. eat your heart out. and no, i will not come down to your level of idiousy.
Information is missing. If you’ve tangled with these men following a night of bar hopping, then what do you expect? If this was a legitimate dating situation, then this bitch is warranted. She’s asking for the dude(s) to respond to a booty call – positive or negative. That’s not a big favor to ask.
Compared to the modern woman sense of entitlement – demanding both masculine sexual promiscuity and, at the snap of the finger, traditional courtship – this isn’t that big of a deal.
PS: I am not saying men do not do the above, but the hypocrisy of some schools of feminism – simultaneously decrying the chauvinism of men but then adopting the same attitudes about sex – is noteworthy.
@OceanChick
You shouldn’t have said anything. Personally, I find it mildly entertaining when wannabe grammar Nazis turn out to be illiterate.
OB I was kinda sympathetic until the end of your bitch where you blame men ignoring your texts, etc on “skanks willing to spread” or, in other words, women who want to have sex without commitment, who, as we all know, are flaming harlots bringing about the ruination of polite society.
You may not be a skank but you certainly are willing to spread, so I find the distinction to be a little unclear. Oops! Does pointing that out make me a troll?
nope, just a friendly mole^^
I wasn’t gonna say anything canned, and the humour certainly was not lost on me, but try as I may I could not help myself.
The world is full of sociopaths that lie to you to get what they want or what looks good at the moment. People are deceitful above all things. Everyone is always quick to judge a girl, “don’t be a fool”… “shouldn’t have spread your legs so quick” etc., but how is she to know if he’s sincere? I’ve heard all the lines before. “Oooh I wanna get married” they’d say, “I could really SEE myself with you”. Then POOF. They gOne!
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
Yes, you probably do have bad taste in men. It’s just a fact that some women are attracted to the idiots. They may have some quirky off-the-wall behavior some find cute but it’s just a lack of maturity and intelligence which becomes abundantly clear as the relationship goes on and then, “men are dogs” or “there are no good men in this town” becomes the lament.
Some people are the same way with cars. They fall in love with the hot red number without doing any research, ignore the mileage not to mention that pool of oil underneath the vehicle. A little while into this relationship, you’re spending more time at the garage than on the road. Then “there are no good cars in this city”.
Do yourself a favour OB and make a checklist of all the things you find attractive in men then go find a guy with all the opposite qualities. See how you make out.
There are good guys out there, you just have to wait for it to happen. As for sleeping with someone and shit not going the way you like, well that shit happens. Really, it’s no one’s business who you sleep with, when you sleep with them and under which circumstances it is (dating, not dating ect) However, like it has been said above, don’t go into a one night stand with a seemingly great guy thinking that he is going to follow up. Maybe it might be best to wait if you think you have a great guy, and if he is a great guy he won’t mind.
Also, girls are just as guilty for fucking and forgetting. There are just as many girls out there that share the same characteristics of the men you described.
If you think you deserve better, then look for that in the guys that you see yourself with.
With all that said, there’s nothin’ wrong with a one night stand here and there, a woman has needs!
Or ..
why buy the sausage when the pig comes for free?
Men will fuck anything, like why are you so easy?
Even if you don’t put out on the first date, he still might not call you back! There has been a recurring theme throughout many of these females-bitching-about-males-behavior: The guys can be jerks no matter what you do! I wrote some time ago that there must be more single women than men in HRM, so I looked it up. Yup—7.9 men for every 10 women.
http://www.divine.ca/en/love/articles/c_18…
Halifax men: answer honestly!
1. Have you ever not called a woman after asking for her number?
2. Do you have a feeling of entitlement where women are concerned?
My wife is my best friend. I treat her like a Queen. I only see her on weekends because of our work schedule. Maybe that’s why we’re still married.
1. Yes, once or twice, compared to the many times I’ve given my number and not gotten a call, or gotten a number and called only to get the runaround.
2. I don’t feel entitled. OP sounds like they feel entitled to something, and in my experience a lotta girls think that because they have a vagina that I should bend over backwards for them. And guess what, I never do, because im not a sucker. Good guys these days have options.
I was talking to a handful of girls until I met my current girlfriend. I chose her because I felt like it wasn’t always all about her and her needs, getting her ego stroked etc, and I felt like she enjoyed my company and had no alterior motives. She also doesn’t talk all the time about meaningless fluff and makes a great sandwich, that helps 🙂
Making her my one and only was a no brainer, and I was perfectly happy being single for the last 4 years or so. I’ve seen too many girls try and pressure a guy into committing and then wonder why sooner or later it blows up in their face. It makes us resent you! Duh!
Sure people lie to get what they want, that’s life. It’s the same thing if she is using her body to try and get a man to commit to her, she is getting just what she deserves. That’s not how you get someone’s respect.
That being said I agree with OP that being ignored by someone you like sucks, but I think it happens to the best of us, and I think more of us have done it than we want to admit. I had that happen to me and it had me feeling hard done by for a long, long time. Then I realized life is too short to be all boo hoo’d up over someone who can’t even be bothered to return a phone call or text message. I’m not about to give up on women just because I’ve met some crazy clingons, snobby bitches and heartbreakers. That would be no one’s loss but my own. OP will get over it, hopefully, and try and learn from some past mistakes and let go of the stuff that’s out of her control.
Thanks to feminism and equal rights (which I believe in, btw, equal rights and treatment), it works both ways in today’s world.
Maybe you don’t know how to treat a man?