Sorry fellow bitchers for posting another broken heart, bitch. I don’t mean to fill the site up with this shit but its eating me alive.
Recently breaking up with my long term girlfriend, I was completely blindsided. Didn’t see it coming and it was a complete slap in the face. The worst thing is, I was having a hard time in life in general, and then you dumped me.
I’m having a harder time deal with the fact of loosing my best friend and companion, way more than the ass I got from time to time. It doesn’t seem like you to do this. You say you will always be there for me. Bullshit.
You said you would call and clearly I waited and there was a lot of shit I needed to tell you. But nope, no fucking call. Don’t fucking lie to me, I never have to you… Also being there for me? That’s a fucking joke and a half. You’re leaving me hanging big time and you know it. You know your ripping my heart out of my fucking chest and probably are sitting back going “huh, whatever, my girlfriends want to go out so I don’t have time for this”.
You say I have to move on but I don’t want any other girl. I want you. My dreams and everything were of you. You say yours of me, I don’t understand you. You love me and want to spend your life with me, just not now? The person I know you as wouldn’t do this to someone, harshly as you have been doing it to me. And fuck your gfs, they’re not fucking better. Big fucking help they were.
I will get over you, it’ll just take time. Like I said, loosing my best friend, my go to person, will be the hardest thing. You used to be understanding, sympathetic and so on. Now your just a cold-hearted bitch and I don’t know why. New motorcycle getting to your head a bit? Maybe your douche-bag step dad talked you into leaving me. We all know what a cocksucker he is. Or maybe you just took a bad hit and it fucked your head up. It’s gotta be one of the above?
Anyways you know I love you, you say you love me too, that’s just insulting. I’m only bitching this cause you bailed on your call. A little courtesy would be nice, if I were you, I’d make sure you were OK. I’d owe it to you. But no, hope all your friends think this makes you cool. —Immature-Selfish-Cold
This article appears in Sep 23-29, 2010.
well this sounds familiar…
Dude, now is a really good time to take up a hobby…
like drinking.
desperation will get you no where so I suggest forgetting the emotional online posting and enjoy life because you’re obviously going to be better off. And you’ll see that many a friend will fill the hole left by one person and you’ll be better off for it.
1) You say I have to move on but I don’t want any other girl. -MOVE THE FUCK ON!!!
2) The person I know you as wouldn’t do this to someone. – PEOPLE FUCKING CHANGE!!
3) You said you would call and clearly I waited and there was a lot of shit I needed to tell you. – YOU ARE TOO FUCKING NEEDY!!!
Sorry for your heartbreak…but you need to get your own shit together and learn to be happy as “One“ before you can become a couple…you can`t depend on someone else to make you happy.
BTW: “Ill always be there for you” = “I don’t want to be there for you but I don’t want to seem like a total C.U.N.T so please don’t ask”
It sucks to end a relationship but it happens… you need to make a clean break and start again. If you keep hanging around this chick and “staying friends” you will just delude yourself into thinking that there is a chance you can win her back.
You need to suck it up… and move on…. and if she sees that you are able to live without her, maybe she will want you back…. but writing poor me posts on here and leaving long blubbering voicemails for her will only confirm to her that she made the right decision.
Good luck though
if only it were that easy RC…
and it’s not completely NEEDY… it’s closure.
In November 1974, my Hub-Unit experienced the following: he lost his job, lost his band, lost his first love of 10 years to his best friend, then found out that the man he thought was his dad wasn’t and mom wasn’t sure who was. Well, he went on a three month bender and when he arose from the bottles, he went on to meet the real love of his life, TTFN. Don’t despair. Sometimes you’ve got to hit bottom before you get up again.
there ya go, another person who thinks you should already be plastered by now.
start incorporating a shot glass in on those bicep curls and you’ll be better in no time.
Ralmn and zzz thanks guys.
On the other hand, RC got me. I did laugh out loud to your comment, but your kinda bitchy. Lets meet up
zzz, never was one to drink a whole lot. When I do, it makes for a long night. Maybe i should hit you up and not RC. Teach me how to drink, ill teach you to get high. Give take kinda thing lol
One day in the future, when you have the real thing in your life you’ll look back and recognize this for the farce that it was. True love is not disrespectful. She did you a favour by letting you go. You’ll see this in time, even though it sucks now.
go out, get drunk, fink a ho, fuck brains out, go to sleep, and wake up to a new fucking life. get over the bitch.
Sweet OP, there’s will be someone bigger, better and a lot nicer around the bend. Until then let Jack Daniels console you, like triple z suggested 😀
I could use a wingman….
Beav, you’ll need to wean yourself in….
don’t go full on zZz or you’ll find yourself hooked up to a bunch of machines in the hospital with a tube down your throat, unable to remember the previous 24 hours, and a crushing headache from so much malnutrition/dehydration that you’ll want to lick rocks just for the minerals.
Go big or go home.
OP, just head to Ontario….the hookers are all happy about their latest Court ruling, so instead of getting “the ass” you got from time to time, you can have all the “ass” your dick can handle.
OP: This sucks, no doubt about it. Closure takes some time, but don’t get stuck there too long.
I know from experience that it’s easier said than done, but cut all ties with this girl, the sooner the better. Erase phone numbers from your memory, unfriend her on facebook so you don’t get “news” from her, don’t inquire about her to mutual friends, etc. Move on! Do whatever it takes to achieve this. For me, Henry Rollins’ albums “The End of Silence”, “Weight” and “Come in and Burn” have provided me the slap in the face I needed to move on during my darkest moments.
Life is full of small victories, OP. Some time later you may find yourself being perfectly happy with someone else (or on your own) while she’s still going from one shitty relationship to another, and you will not want that bitch back in your life even if she begged you.
My best friend went through this 3 years ago when the whore he was married to blindsided him after 15 years of marriage by saying it was over. Turns out she’d been screwing his best friend, but I digress. She told him all the things you’ve mentioned and failed on all of them.
You can’t now, but one day you will look back with clarity and realize this person was never who you needed to be happy. You’ve been used and you’ll have to move on. I wish you the best.
Sorry Beavis for being so bitchy…I was cranky and it’s easy to say the blunt heartless thing when your standing back from the pain.
Honestly…It will get sooo much better….so much better. TTFN is totally right, sometimes you have to hit bottom. I hit bottom really bad almost 2 years ago and there’s not a day that I wish I couldn’t change the past…but at the same time I’m happier now then I ever imagined I could be. Life is full of leasons….so just take what you’ve learned from this girl and become a better man from it. It’s her loss….but please please please STOP waiting by the phone for this chick….confidence is the most atractive quality anyone can have! good luck and sorry for my earlier comment…but you can’t blame a bitcher for being a bitch…lol
haha no i suppose you cant blame a bitcher for being a bitch. Like you all said, gets easier every day.