Do you remember when you were on the #1 bus on Tuesday and you were telling your girlfriend who she shouldn’t text or associate with on Facebook and you were loudly disrespecting her and calling her stupid? I hope she gains the strength to see what an asshole you are and dumps your mother fucking ass. I personally would have applauded her in front of everyone if she had gotten up 5 stops before you did and walked away. You have no right to talk to anyone like that. You don’t even deserve to have anyone in your life, if this is how you treat them. You’re abusive, you should get help before someone seriously suffers because of you. And if she is reading this: You are too good to acknowledge anything he says to you. You can do so much better. Please, for your own sake, do. —The Bitch in Front of You
This article appears in Jun 16-22, 2011.
Uuuugh…. this is why the bus sucks. And no one ever says anything to these assholes that say or do inappropriate things. You’re in public, berate your girlfriend when you get home if you must. Call me insensitive but if she puts up with the shit that’s her bad. I don’t feel sorry for people who keep toxic people around.
she is not with this guy because she has not found the “strength to leave”. She is with this guy because dad was probably abusive to mom and now she is wired to be attracted to guys like the one she is with.
If you asked her if she is in an abusive relationship I’d be she would say no. She probably sees this as completely normal.
it really concerns me when i see abuse like that in public. makes me wonder what they do in private
Yes, this young lady could find better – if she had a ounce of self-esteem. Bozo should have had his nut sack twisted like a poodle balloon.
I hear what your saying lovinglife, it just seems that we make excuses for these women a lot. I don’t know about the rest of you, but I saw many more relationships growing up than just my mom and dad’s. I also went out and discovered for myself what made me happy. She can do the same.
Too many people just accept instead of trying for better.
Let say I work a dead end job for the rest of my life and barely support myself and my family and always have money problems. And let’s say my dad did the same thing. Is my dad to blame? I say not entirely, at the end of the day we make our own choices.
People who accept mediocrity and unhappiness get no sympathy from me.
And you just know if you’d intervened she’d start wailing on you – that’s why cops hate domestic calls.
it’s true baz, might as well just yell at her, for all the good it will do. it doesn’t usually stop me from trying, tho i don’t ride the bus so no dust-ups of late^^
More importantly: how big were this gal’s titties?
Much more importantly: how big was her donair?
There’s no question that some women are “conditioned” to be abused by life experience. They see it at home, become desensitized as they grow up and take it from future partners.
The problem here is that it can be cyclical, the verbal belittlement and physical assault is passed down through generations to children who themselves become desensitized or become violent.
If anybody sees this kind of behavior or is suspicious of it, report it to the police. I’m not sure personal intervention is the best approach as it could make things worse.
Mmmmmmm, donair…
OP, who cares. Maybe the GF likes being spoken to like that. Otherwise she would have left a long time ago. Sounds like more free drama for the patrons of the loser cruiser.
HIS NAME IS wilf heise facebook and girl nadine keays, ok people they are my friends but yes he needs help
Oooh wow, Wilf Heise Facebook as in the creator of Facebook!? Who would have thought he would still take the bus as a billionaire, in Halifax, NS no less!