Final fantasy: Haligonians spill on what they want to do sexually before they die

Surprise of the century: Haligonians really, really want to have a threesome. Or at least that’s what a majority of respondents shared in The Coast’s 2025 Sex + Dating Survey, our annual (and anonymous) deep dive into our readers’ thoughts on all things dating and mating-related.

For 17 years, we’ve been asking Haligonians to spill their dating stories and sexual fantasies. Hundreds of you accepted the call in 2025 and gave us the naked truth on unfulfilled bedroom wishes. Your answers ranged from brutally honest—“I’d like to have sex again,” more than one reader replied—to borderline unprintable, in some cases. But hey, as long as everyone’s consenting and old enough, we’re not here to judge.

Read through some of the replies to the question, “What do you want to do sexually before you die?” below:

*Disclaimer: This story contains graphic language.*

“Peg someone.”

“Be in an orgy.”

“Get milked dry by a milking machine.”

“I want to have sex in front of a room of people.”

“Get fisted past the elbow.”

“Orgasm until I pass out.”

“Get a blowjob from two women.”

“Bukkake.”

“Have another partner who really loves me.”

“Try a little BDSM.”

“Attend a sex club.”

“Make a woman squirt.”

“Have an orgy with married hot women whose partners are just too distracted with their jacked-up pickup trucks.”

“Get involved with some swingers on a cruise.”

“Get bottom surgery and use my new vagina in sex.”

“Make love outside in the moonlight.”

“Visit Thailand.”

“Have anal sex and get peed on.”

“Be with two guys at once.”

“Honestly, at this point, I just want to have it with a partner that doesn’t make me feel self-conscious about asking for or having sex.”

“Have sex with twins or triplet brothers while high.”

“Have sex with Hugh Jackman.”

“Group gay sex.”

“Find a true love. Have sex with him.”

“Have sex with another woman. (I am a hetero woman.)”

“Hook up with a high-class escort in Paris.”

“Tie my lover up and make her watch while I fuck someone else. Then release her and the two of us ravish her at length.”

“Double penetration.”

“Orgasm during sex with a guy I trust and enjoy.”

“Have a threesome.”

“Have sex with a guy wearing motocross leathers and a helmet.”

“Honestly, I would love to be a camgirl.”

“Fuck 100 people.”

“Suck another man’s cock again.”

“I just want to have sex again where both parties are mutually attracted to each other and into it. Doesn’t sound like much, but watch out, kids… becoming an invisible middle-aged person can sneak up on ya. Sadly.”