I know people will make fun of this bitch… But I don’t care.

I’ve been in a long-distance relationship for a year and a half now. My boyfriend lives 5 hours away, so it’s not the worst. He called me, (really) drunk last night to say hi and we spoke on the phone for a bit. All of a sudden I hear his roommate’s girlfriend barge into our bedroom, grabbing and pulling at my boyfriend and telling him to come back downstairs. He tried to explain to her that he was speaking to me and would come down in a bit, but this girl was relentlessly grabbing at him, and telling him she didn’t care that I was on the other line, and questioning whether he really loves me or not.

He had to physically remove her from the bedroom.

What kind of girl follows another girl’s boyfriend into his bedroom, and then refuses to get out!? On top of that, what kind of girl does that, especially when her own boyfriend is sitting downstairs!?

I trust my boyfriend 100% and I have no worries about him ever cheating on me, or lying… But is it wrong of me to hate this girl now? It’s not like I’m jealous, or think anything would ever happen… I just want to kick her for being such a disrespectful twat! I can’t help but feel that way about her now!! —Bothered

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  1. Bullshit. You’re jealous as hell – you’re 5 hours away from your man and you’re freaking because of some little twit pawing at him. If you trusted him as much as you say you do, this lengthy, tedious bitch wouldn’t exist.

  2. Nah, she was totally disrespectful, especially when calling into question his love for you. Hate all you want, but try to give her another chance if the opportunity presents itself. We all do idiotic things when we drink sometimes.

  3. Cut her some slack. She didn’t do anything that couldn’t be explained away by a roommate telling his gf to “go upstairs and give joe a hard time while he is on the phone with his gf”

    Guys have that sort of drunken humor, even when they know it is not funny when sober.

  4. ”Our bedroom” ~ ummm, no. It is his bedroom in a shared apartment and I am sure you are not contributing toward the rent. This girl wanted your boyfriend to rejoin them downstairs having drinks. They were all drinking and he left to talk on the phone. So, go fuck yourself for being alone and putting a damper on things.

  5. I don’t think she put a damper on things… Sounds to me like her boyfriend called HER and went upstairs for a bit and was then followed by another girl, who let herself into his bedroom and questioned how much he cared about his girlfriend. I’d be upset too, but he seems trustworthy if he told her to get out, etc. Good luck.

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