My mother, in her late 90s, once a vibrant ‘larger than life’ powerhouse who couldn’t quit is ready to go to the Land of Muffinkind. She outlived 3 doctors who told her that her weight would kill by age 60. She defied all the rules and lived to tell the tale. Bless you, Mum, for your creativity and passion for life and teaching me that all that matters is here and now.
Dad’s been waiting 40 years for you, sweetheart, may your energies join and dance to Red Sails in the Sunset.
Your babies will be there tonight by your side. —I Love You, Moo Maw, TTFN
This article appears in Jun 2-8, 2011.
*sob* Bless you and your family TTFN. Sorry, I’ve got no better words.
oh my, that was lovely xox to you and yours
Hardest thing I’ve ever done – sat at the nursing home until 2 a.m. – poor ol’ gal was struggling – rapid breathing, fluid in her lungs – all me and the sibs could do was stroke her head and tell her over and over that we loved her and that she could go now. My oldest sister is flying in today so we hope she’ll last until then. Nothing can ever prepare you for the loss of a parent.
Sorry to hear that, TTFN. 🙁
My deepest and most sincere sympathies to you TTFN. I know all too well what it’s like to lose a parent – lost my mother 10 years ago this month. You are blessed to have been given the chance to say goodbye to her. I didn’t have that luxury. It’s not something you ever really get over but you get through it. And having family and friends around that share your love for your mom definately makes it easier to let her go. My prayers go out to you.
Aw, hon, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom! I can’t imagine losing mine — she’s my everything so I really do feel for you!
My heart goes out to you and your family. The old gal certainly showed those arsehatted doctors, didn’t she?
Anyone who pokes holes in her colostamy bag (I think that’s what you said she did) and lets the stink fly out for shits (lol) and giggles is a-o-k in my books!!!
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Very sorry for the whole situation, TTFN. You guys are great kids. Your Love to your mom made me tear up. Life is unfairly brief, and we have to each find the Why before we go, alone to the Unknown.
Love is the Big Why, as I’ve been learning- loving my bro, nieces and nephews, ma and pa Kettle, my students and colleagues, and the very good love of a very good woman(developing). You showed your Mom Why.
Hugs and loves from your pal, WP/paul
Thanks so much, guys. Your condolences mean so much – I feel like I’m flying thru a fog – what with Hub-Unit’s brother’s death and the news that HU has a crushed disc in his spine.
My oldest sister is flying in from the US today so the entire family will be there tonight. Maybe then my mum will let go, just like my dad did. I remember oldest sis arrived 20 minutes before my dad died 40 years ago – he opened his eyes for the first time in days, saw his firstborn and died with a smile on his face. I can only wish the same for my mum. Today would have been my Dad’s 101st birthday – if she goes today, it would almost seem fitting. Tomorrow’s my 57th but she can go then if she wants – I won’t hold it against her.
aah jeez louise sweetie. we can’t share your load but we’re thinking of you. happy birthday anyway ♥
You Beeches are the best.
ah shit ttfn, i’m really sorry to hear about this, and offer my condolences to you. hang in there baby, all the bitchers love you, and are here for support.
Love and Condolences to you and your family in this hard time.
I’m in tears here for you Miss TTFN. I’m glad that she had such a full life and that she will be reunited with your dad soon. I’m glad that she stayed in your life for so long. But I’m sorry that everything seems to be crashing down at once for you, but after 2 years of reading your comments I know your strength will get you through. You’re in my thoughts and prayers xoxo
I can tell you love your family TTFN, my condolences to you and your family. If you’ve gotta go, surrounded by loved ones is the way to do it.
My Mum passed away tonight at 8:40 p.m. Me, Hub-Unit and my wonderful sibs were there with her when she took her last gentle breath. It seemed fitting that it happened on my birthday – it was a true gift to see her depart like that, no pain, just drifting from sleep to the next adventure. If there’s such a thing as a ‘happy death’, this was it. I’ll really miss her – she was one of a kind – a mischevious twinkle in her eye and a wheezy laugh that would make her little butterball body fall over.
Say hi to Pappy for me, Maw.
I’ll offer my condolences TT, but also my awe at your perspective. Your Mom must have been an extraordinary person because her daughter certainly is. Much love to you and your family from SOBova & I.
thanks for sharing your news with us. lots of love
“a mischevious twinkle in her eye and a wheezy laugh that would make her little butterball body fall over.”
^^ she sounded like she was a hoot, TTFN, and one of a kind, and those types of people aren’t forgotten. My condolences to you and your family. I hope she sees those docs who told her she wouldn’t make 60 wherever she is now and gives them the one finger salute!
I know I’m a tad late here, but I just wanted to pass along my condolences. The passing of a loved one is never an easy thing.