I’m going to drive myself mad trying to figure it out but I can’t let it go. None of it makes sense. You told me you loved me, you know I love you too. I love you more than you love me. But then you cut me out fully, no reason, no explanation, no warning and I can’t help but ask myself why every day and try to put two and two together. It’s been months and still nothing. I’m not nearly as confused as I am shocked. I’m giving you space and time, and I won’t even ask why. You’re breaking my heart and I can’t believe I’m letting you. I can’t tell if you’re upset with me, mad at me, over me, annoyed by me, jealous of me. You more than anyone should have learned by now to appreciate the people you have in your life, tell them how much you love them and never take them for granted. After losing some of the closest people to you, it’s like you’ve learned nothing. Why are guys so confusing? No one ever knows what they truly want. —Won’t Be Here When It All Goes To Shit
This article appears in Jan 24-30, 2013.
“Why are guys so confusing? No one ever knows what they truly want.”
The Captain is “LOL’ing”
‘I love you more than you love me’. Bingo there’s your answer honey. It doesn’t matter the why or wherefore, he told you he loved you and maybe he did (then)or maybe he never did. Then again, after losing people close to him, maybe he is afraid of loving you any more than he already does. Who knows for sure. The only thing you do know is that he is gone. He might come back, he might not. But whether he does or not You will be ok. You don’t need a man to complete you; it would be nice if you found a good man but if not, you will still be ok. Stop trying to be a mind reader and go out and meet someone else if it’s a man you want. If not, enjoy your own company. That is the one person you can always count on. Yourself.
Nobody cares!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What’s with these lame ass relationship bitches? They are all one sided, and noone can give you advice cause, on top of not giving a shit, they don’t know you or the other person involved.
Harper- I clicked “Like” again for you, and I will never stop. God bless you.
Screaming Fields of Sonic Love
A guy doesn’t give a shit about your pain,stress unless you have something he wants.
And thank God we’re not all victims of Boru’s experience of guys, OB. You say you love him but it doesn’t sound to me like you know what love is. You can’t save your mixed up, brokenhearted ex-boyfriend and he can’t love you the way you deserve. It’s done; move on; start loving yourself.
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A guy doesn’t give a shit about your pain,stress unless you have something he wants.
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Mostly men want to avoid connecting with mental cases.
That’s what we “want”.
Everything else is up for negotiation. And EVERY relationship is in a constant state of negotiation. Don’t let yourself be a sucker, people.
PisP
This person has made it obvious that he/she has moved on – either he/she knew you weren’t a match or perhaps there was someone else. You need to beat those unresolved issues with a shovel and let it die. Dwelling on the whys of a failed relationship accomplishes nothing, moving forward with your life does.
PisP I’m not perfect.Yes that has been my experience with guy’s.Not because I’m a mental case or stupid.I’ve been unlucky in love.Mind you,I’m 45plus and I’ve only had 2 serious relationships.So I haven’t been dumped by a long line of guys.One guy I dumped,the other guy fired me for a younger woman,after 20 years of marriage . 🙂
I hope your enjoying your evening PisP. 🙂
The same signature as in Hey Best Friend.. That cannot be a coincidence.
http://www.thecoast.ca/LovetheWayWeBitch/a…
Boru you seem like an alright lady even though sometimes http://i3.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/origin…. I’m a bit younger than you and guess what I’m a huge idiot stumbling through life, take solace in that. He essentially left you for a baby deer running across the highway : /
But those are only 2 guys out of billions! Soooooo there’s hope yet.
someone wake me when we get in some interesting bitches instead of letters from the lovelorn.
blech.
…lol..lol.GREAT, i may find a FWB yet!!
You people take me too seriously at times.
http://i3.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/origin…
Donk thanks for the belly laugh.it‘s been along time. funny!!
They are suffering from some horrid slow acting painful disease and don’t want you to be upset watching them die a horrific death. Call it a blessing.
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I’m not perfect.Yes that has been my experience with guy’s.Not because I’m a mental case or stupid.
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Your “experience” with (2) guys isn’t applicable to every Bitch or Love that gets posted.
Every Bitch/Love you post some horribly negatively sweeping statement that is based on 2 guys. It has nothing to do with “perfection”, whatever that is.
And noone called you a mental case or stupid, so lose the little voice in your head that called yourself those things.
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I’ve been unlucky in love.
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And that’s ALL it is.
Cut yourself some slack. Negative self talk isn’t attractive to people who might want to be in your life.
PisP
For the past couple of weeks it’s the same thing. Whaa Whaa Whaa! Nobody loves me. Why don’t you love me? Fuck ’em and move on. There’s my advice.
Another one? Really?
Welcome to the world of, it’s all about me, fuck you.
RSVP
: Good dog Molly (01/28, 9:49PM)
I’ve been wondering for some time now, do you smoke cigars?
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
ewwwwwwwwww no i do not. had you heard i resemble groucho marx or similar?
but i wish i could still smoke cigarettes, without the stench or mess or cost of course.
i like the smell of some pipe tobacco, from a bit of a distance. cigars are just nasty.
RSVP
Well, no Good Dog, it wasn’t because I had heard you resembled Groucho Marx or similar but – and perhaps I misread your comment(s) a while ago on other threads – but I thought, quite honestly, that you implied that you were a dyke.
I want to emphasize immediately that I am NOT homophobic but I thought that if I were correct, it would be extremely interesting at the intellectual level to hear from someone who was articulate just what it would like insofar as it is possible to articulate something like that. I know I would have trouble articulating why I am attracted to females beyond the simple hormonal level but I wouldn’t mind giving it a try. Hit me with your best questions.
In any case I don’t want to put you on the spot and you can just tell me to take off if you prefer.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
Give up.
It’s the path less traveled… everyone’s all like ‘you can do it, pick yourself up and move on….’
fuck that. Laying in the mud has some merits.
You won’t fall down when you over-imbibe.
Nor will you care… about anything, anyone, or any time wasted.
http://api.ning.com/files/ef-U0GnG52tBqIUz…
“Why’d you go away?” Didn’t you get the memo?
When men get their piece of ass, they go away.
(‘cept for mine, they keep comin back for more a dis)
Cuntrealman doesn’t really care for cigars, he just like the long phallic shape.
op if this is a relationship, there are one of two possibilities.
a) Your sweetheart chose someone else.
b) they’re simply the type of person who needs alone time.
If it’s been a few days, chill the fuck out and give them their space, gaw.. If it’s been a week or more, send one message and leave it and if it goes on longer, move on.
If this is a friendship, simply give the person space. They’ll be there eventually.