So you had a son a few years back, then a daughter, then a son, then a daughter, and now a son. How many of these children do you currently have with you? Answer: One. Why? Cause it’s the newest model? Lazy? oh and because your new boyfriend doesn’t know about all of your previous spawn, just some of ’em. Once they become too hard to look after (cause you actually have to parent children), or you get bored, or just are too plain lazy to care. Some kids live with family, some in foster care, some are adopted. I’d hate to be you in 10 or so years when you have to answer to these people (cause they’ll be grown up people by then) why you choose one of them over some of them… I’m sure they’re better of but wish you had to take responsibility for your actions at the same time.
–Thinks you should close your legs or use protection or something…
This article appears in Jan 14-20, 2010.
This bitch saddens me. Those poor kids 🙁
This reminds me of this girl I knew once. I honestly think she just had the spawn just to get child support payments, and live of her measly part-time Sobey’s wage. Problem was that she never could wrangle a well-paid father, so she ended up having 3 kids with 3 men who were lucky to be employed at KFC.
I do like Dr Laura’s method for using birth control pills. She says to use it effectively all a female has to is “Hold it between your knees”.
While I have no problem with a girl who wants to be the neighborhood bicycle…I just can’t help but feel for the children, but if she’s as bad a mother, as she is at birth control…the kids are better off no where near her !
This is super sad bitch, and I have certainly seen my fair share of dumb welfare bimbos with 8 kids they don’t have custody of/can’t afford/ by 8 different incarcerated fathers … BUT. They didn’t get there on their own. I wish so badly there was a way identifying the stupid male whores who run around town sticking their dick into any available opening so that they too may be publicaly judged for their failed or non existant attempts at birth control.
where does this chick live at,i want to breed again,but i’ll only shoot blanks,as i’m fixed.more fun,less worries,ladies?
she’s probably on farewell where your rewarded for every kid you pop out so they make a career out of it
Rewarded with Welfare and Child Tax Benefit and never have to work.
Thank you hellaskitty for pointing out what should be obvious to most, but clearly is not, judging by some of the neanderthal mysogynist comments…especially from the “usual suspects” that always seem to post their vitriol first…maybe before their morning smoke?
A woman “decides” to have babies, OP, Bro’ Tim, Dr. Fever, More…what, all on her own?
Erm, does she use mitosis, or binary cellular fission?
“Hold your legs closed’? “Neighbourhood ‘bicycycle'”?!
And my favorite…”she couldn’t wrangle a well-paid father”… What kind of fucking bullshit is this?
Not a word about where’s the fucking father?
Et tu, Martym? Say it isn’t so, bro’!
“Rewarded with ‘farewell’ [social assistance]”??!!
Kraft Dinner, Indian smokes and the Bingo once a week?
Yeah buddy, that’s a great reward for being abandoned by the sperm donor and denegrated by society for being female…
As long as women still earn 75 cents on the dollar for a man’s job, hit the glass ceiling, are routinely denied promotion (often by other women) and are valued more based on their “attractiveness” to lustful male bosses (usually married)…I don’t blame anyone one bit for taking a social safety net if society provides it.
Go ahead, take the options away, see what you’re left with: workhouses, prostitution, forced sterilization, runaway abortions…and finally…if “I” were female, an organized Boudicca-style revolution where we’d castrate the lot of you, and save your lumpy nuts in a jar to be squeezed every nine months…
I got an idea…cancel welfare for single moms, sure., but ID all dads with DNA and send THEM to the poorhouse for a fucking change.
frosty, what about the pill ?
ever heard of abortion ?
how about the morning after pill ?
I was with a girl in high school who was ‘on the pill’ but in fact wasn’t. How is that the guy’s fault when a female lies about it ?
Like I said its HER decission to be the neighborhood bicycle, SHE is the only one of the consenting adults who can get pregnant.
So get off your fuckin’ high horse man, it may take 2 to make a baby…but only one of them can get pregnant…& IMO she’s taking advantage of the male.
It happens all the time & has been happening probably for as long as there have been humans, female uses baby to hang onto father ! ! !
FRosTy makes a very valid point here. Being man enough to have sex also means being man enough to be responsible for the child that act produces.
More…you are missing the point. The child would not ever be conceived without a male’s participation. It doesn’t matter which party the child gestates inside of. Initially, nature chose the female to grow the child leaving it to the male of the species could provide for his offspring. Of course, single parents are capable of coping in both roles but ideally a child needs and deserves two parents. It is still a shared responsibility. Bottom line: if a guy does not want the responsibility of a child the onus is on HIM to prevent his sperm from reaching an egg. Why trust something so important to another? Just because the child does not grow inside the male body does not give a man the right to spread his seed far and wide with no consequences.
you’re right frosty in saying it’s an equally wrong situation for both the welfare father and mother i guess it’s easy to blame the face of the problem (welfare mom walking babies ); yes the fathers should be held resp. also!
Th reality of it is this woman has no fucking common sense or concept of consequences. Take some fucking responsibility and control over this shit FFS. No rubber, no fuckee. If you’re giving your kids up cause you can’t afford them or can’t care for them, then getting knocked up again should be fucking criminal. Fucken low-life. The worst part is that there are people TRYING to have kids and can’t and these fucking crack whores are pumping them out an an exponential rate. Self absorbed fucking cunt should be sterilized. Or learn to fucking swallow.
Frosty the feminist? Huh?
I’m confused…
Seeing both sides of the story doesn’t make Frosty a feminist, it makes him reasonable and fair. Grouping women who get pregnant into one negative and stereotypical slot is mysogynist–never mind narrow thinking and insulting–especially when it is the very people who complain that women play hard to get, withhold sex or border on frigid when their advances are stymied.
Hey, I’m just trying to get laid.
I don’t know about the rest of you, but I have only created 3 children, in my 50 years on this planet. I have been laid a wee bit more than 3 times & I have been laid by more than 1 woman !
I assure you it was for the most part mutual gratification…the thought of making babies wasn’t on our minds ! Fucking each other was what I thought we were up to…you know 10 times better than self abuse !
Hell, none of my children were actually planned.. Hey honey,let’s fuck every night this March so we can have a December baby ! ! !
I had one girl actually try to get pregnant while we were in school, because she wanted me & figured a baby was a sure fire way to keep me. But I was shown she was on the pill & most of the time we also used condoms, but sometimes that didn’t work out, when she became pregnant & then lost the baby about 3 months into it, I was out of there…& I was never planning on staying, I’d have paid my child support, but she & I were done.
Before you roll your eyes & say “sure you were”, when I seperated from my wife I was paying for my kids, before our case made it to a courtroom.
Most of us are just trying to get laid, its the sneaky underhanded bitches that are the main cause of unwanted children…they have places to get rid of that little parasitic clump of cells…so women use them !
Don’t get me wrong, I love most of BMF’s posts, I just found it a bit odd that he was getting after people for being misogynist when I find many of his own posts to be misogynist. Mostly in a humourous way that I can’t help but laugh about, mind you, and I doubt he’s being completely serious. I chuckled at parts of his post on this topic, as well, and did think he made some valid points.
I fully believe that rather than pills like Viagra and other medicine to make people more horny, there should in fact be pills to make people less horny (especially for men)! We need anti-sex-drive pills. I believe it would help to solve A LOT of problems in this world, including unwanted pregnancy, sexual assault, rape, pent up sexual frustration, cheesy pick-up lines, blue balls, etc. I’d take those pills in a heartbeat, I need ’em! Don’t know if it’d do me much good though, especially with babes like HKM and OceanGILF around.
(Clarification: I am NOT implying I want to, would ever, nor have I ever, raped or sexually assaulted anyone. Just don’t want people to get that impression, I know how this place works! All I’m saying is that I’m horny and rather than going out trying to find women to fuck, I’d rather just not be horny).
To be frank Mr. Frosty, the girl in my example did this all of her own volition. It wasn’t that she dealt with guys that wanted to pork her and leave the kids. In fact, she frequently made comments that she just wanted to have a child, regardless of the consequences. To her friends (myself included) the attitude was abhorrent and drove is away, which only fueled the need, I guess.
The only reason I relate the story is that indeed sometimes the woman in the relationship is just as bad as any man-whore. That’s not to say that men aren’t responsible for 60% of the situation.
It’s indeed true that some girls as young as 15 just want a baby. Here is proof:
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/160…
Sometimes I think the Coast allows this stuff, and doesn’t delete it, because it puts the prejudice and ignorant thoughts out there in black and white, exposing the fact that no matter how far we have advanced as a society, in many ways we have barely advanced at all. Anyone who reads historical texts can see that we are still spouting the same shit which was spouted thousands of years ago.
The funny thing is that most of the biases and judgmental observations found here are tied into Christian dogma, although most here despise the church and everything it represents (or at least, they like to say they do). How can they not see that they are actually bible thumping? The only difference I can see here is that people now think it is okay for women to have and enjoy sex, as long as it is with them–on their terms (which really isn’t any different, at all).
Yes, there are some women who are make stupid, naive or unethical decisions. But mostly, it is simply that shit happens. It is unfortunate, but that is the price that must be paid by a society that condones sexual freedom. The alternative is to switch back to the thinking of the Victorian age (which will inevitably happen). You can’t have it both ways (sexual freedom and moral judgment). You either get to fuck with the potential of getting fucked (and suck it up without pointing a finger at your partner), or you woo one partner, marry them and then have sex (then you get to be all moral and point a finger at everyone else).
How rightous, some men deem themselves. Tsk, Tsk, try writing your own shit.
If a guy does not want to fall ‘prey’ to unscrupulous or otherwise unprotected women it is 100% his responsibility to ensure his sperm does not meet an egg. If the woman meets 100% of her responsibility then BOTH partners are each 100%responsible for their own protection. Why is the onus on one or the other when it should be upon both! When the objective is fun rather than procreation the proper precautions are the only response.
Getting knocked up today is much cooler than getting a promotion. That’s what the knocked-up dumbasses tell me while they get their hair and nails done.
This again. I’m going to have to take back the negativity I directed towards PK. She is the only lady here that’s keeping my faith in women. This lady shouldn’t be thinking about another child, she should be a mother to her existing kids, and looking for a guy like LS that’s shooting blanks. Come on people I understand hellakitty point but there seems to be a common denominator here and it’s this women. Imagine being her parents raising one of her children and her saying she wants more. Really is that a show of responsibility? What about the fathers? We surly don’t know much from this post, but we do know she is lying and being deceitful to her new man about her past. What else is she hiding from him and past guys? If the truth came out, would you think the guy will see her as an unfit mother and bail before it’s too late? Ladies and please correct me but shouldn’t we be respect each others wishes when it come to raising a child. Being manipulative about it will lead to resentment and most likely you being alone. I find the way she is going about this is wrong.
“Seeing both sides of the story doesn’t make Frosty a feminist, it makes him reasonable and fair.”
Q don’t listen to HKM, Frostys post is a display of chivalry.
people are obviously taking this further than it needs to go for jabbering….
she got pregnant several times, put the kids up, up, and away… had more and has several partners….
if it’s her fault for putting up the kids (as in “I can’t see myself with them now, too young, etc… and anything bu “I’m unable to provide because I’m not getting my child service cheques” then it’s her fault as she never really intended to care for them….
but if it’s that she cannot afford and joe-doesn’t-let-her-blow isn’t paying his end, then he’s the douche and should be taken to court.
In this case, I do think it’s likely that black and white… or perhaps DARK Grey or Eggshell… or something…