You convinced me to trust you. After I did then started to take things too seriously, you dumped me then cut me off totally.
For months you flirted with me and actually seemed disappointed when I told you I could easily get someone for sex.
Hell, everyone’s been hurt by a member of the opposite sex. Don’t blame all women for your ex. Dumping you or whatever other women did wrong to you.
You ARE a very charming man and I could tell that you have a good heart. You have a lot to offer a woman in a relationship. Use your “power” for good not evil.
It doesn’t mean I’m at fault or a bad person for trusting you, I can sleep at night because I know I did nothing wrong… Albeit, I’ll sleep alone, until I do find my special man that doesn’t play games with emotions. —Lesson Learned
This article appears in Aug 16-22, 2012.
He dumped you because you couldn’t string a coherent sentence together if your life was hanging in the balance. FAWK, what the hell are you trying to say?
IF you can quote-“easily get someone for sex” -unquote
Why are you sleeping alone ?
Why do you give a flying fuck about the person who used you for a cum dumpster & moved on ? I mean after all even a perfect stranger for a one time romp,is better than self abuse.
You’ve been had… so move on !
You sound pathetic.. He’s a good man? A charming man? Use his power for good? Yeah he did use his power for his own good – to get some. You got fooled. Quit suckin hole in hopes he’ll change his mind. He don’t have a good heart. He’s a douche and lied to get some – end of story.
Let me guess, after you put out, he said, “my ex really hurt me and fucked up my head so that I can’t have a relationship again”
mmm hmmm…
he’s not into you. And fuck I had that line, He’s just not that into you. That’s exactly what he was INTO YOU…literally his dick was into you. This is what I will never understand about men. Men don’t even need to like a woman, or be attracted to her to fuck her. They will fuck ANYTHING with a hole….a woman, a mattress, a cantalope… the fact that there are ugly hookers should tell you everything you need to know about men.
I don’t think OB did anything wrong here. She didn’t even disparage the guy in her bitch!
She was clearly strung along and that sucks.
But since she’s a female and got duped she’s a silly slut who’s a pathetic loser.
*huge fucking eyeroll*
a cantalope lololol that’s the best one i’ve heard, no wait, a guy in high school filled a mushroom with whipped cream …..and then there’s philip portnoy and the family dinner…
why do people have this need to parade their embarassments in public? if someone dumped me i’d keep it to myself.
well there you have it.
men are all just dogs… trying to get off as much as we can with anything or anyone regardless of attraction.
from our local, authoritative retard.
Sounds like a clear cut case of committment phobia to me…quite common these days, as committment is no longer a prerequisite to get some nookie. It’s bad when you have to play the ’emotionally unattached’ role to win someone over, lest they run like hell. Fact is, sex is more like a recreational sport now than an act between two people in love.
I think an anonymous forum isn`t the same as putting your embarrassments out in public (unless people on the forum know who you are :P).
I didn`t write this, but I was strung along once and it was a really rotten feeling and definitely something I blamed myself for initially. When it comes down to it, OB isn`t in the wrong here. she isn`t pathetic, either.
Agreed, PK. I’ve been there a time or two myself. The unfortunate outcome, is that a person becomes hardened, more and more each time, until they’ve learned to completely detach themselves emotionally. A sad thing, indeed.
Beautifully put, Hezz
“committment is no longer a prerequisite to get some nookie. It’s bad when you have to play the ’emotionally unattached’ role to win someone over, lest they run like hell. Fact is, sex is more like a recreational sport now than an act between two people in love.”
SO TRUE
and very frustrating for people who’ve been out of this ‘game’ for so long or never really got their feet wet the first time ’round.
Being thrust back into the sea of people is daunting and ultimately quite confusing.
well, i think it’s always been somewhat recreational, and who’s to say that sex within an arranged marriage in centures past would be ‘an act of love’ . of human bondage perhaps. (nods to that old fop somerset) , yes PK, agreed that this is not the same forum as parading around with a placard announcing the event, but what is the allure of doing this? what’s the point? esp on this semi anonymous site? at least if it were confessed during a friends-only movie night one could expect alot of sympathy. but here? the cloak of anonymity encourages the trolls, the emotionally warped and the outright sociopaths to give full vent to their spitefulness. it’s like standing next to that puddle knowing that asshole in the other post is going to come along. and esp when one is feeling abraded to begin. meh. to each his own. i do not understand it, but there is an awful lot about human nature i just don’t get. correction, i may know the nuts ‘n bolts of the gears n’ wheels of it intellectually, but it still puzzles me, emotionally.
It`s daunting and confusing even IF you`ve haven`t been out of it for a long while.
It`s just…. daunting, regardless.
Thaaaaat’s right. ALL men are just eternally horned up zombies walking around in a lust-filled stupor with a perpetual hard-on, looking for ANYTHING, (animal, vegetable, mineral) to stick our penis into and get off.
Fuck off, No Fool. I’m sick and tired of your sweeping, baseless generalizations. Just because you’ve apparently had nothing but a string of losers in your own love life and have no positive experiences to draw from, it doesn’t mean it’s the gospel rule. You have no right to paint us all with the same damning brush. Did you ever stop to think that maybe it’s you? Case in point:
“Well, it usually goes like this. I spot my target. Might be at a bar, on the dance floor… I sidle up and give him the old hairy eye-ball then a bump n grind. I crank the heat in my apartment, so that when I take him home, he wanna get naked. Then I pounce. If he does a good job, he gets a sammich. If he sucked, he gets my foot in his ass – out the door.” – no_fool from the thread “Still Holding a Grudge”
Yeah, I can see where that approach would attract nothing but the utmost honourable of men, the ones looking for the long term, emotionally fulfilling relationship. There’s so many of them hanging out in the bar waiting for you to sidle on up.
And anyway, who the hell died and made you the universal spokesperson for women everywhere? Quit talking out of your ass.
look if da bitches be buying wut im sellin den i dun feel bad about gettin my nut. mahbe bitches not b so easy n den i dun have to play dem games like i do.
http://i.qkme.me/68rw.jpg
yep o.p., lesson learned, til next time,right?
Oh fuck off, Toothless Joe.
You rank piece of shit.
Some assume that they had a sexual relationship.I suppose they may have but it doesn’t sound like they did to me anyway.
If you women wanna advertise NSA (while having a secret agenda), then you can’t be mad when things don’t go the way you planned. I am willing to bet that each and every woman who posted on this topic has dated someone while emotionally “keeping their options open”, in case someone better comes along. It’s a two way street, ladies.
but hey, the suckster will always be here.
and kitty will still be a little fat ass piece of shit forever. whining over all her ailments and lost loves, that didn’t want her to be around them in the daylight.
***generalization alert***
Steve
Not every woman keeps a spare man in her back pocket incase the man she’s with doesn’t work out.
No it’s not always a two way street.
Is anyone attending the movie tonight?Is wine allowed? Is the showing within walking distance of the ferry?
Yeah, well, at least I have all my teeth, Toothless Joe.
I don’t smell like cigarette some and dried piss, either!
Not sure if this is a soft bitch or a harsh love.
“Why” is too general a question. Be more specific and put the fuck nut in his place. He’s obviously not being good to you and never will. Sure he’s probably a good person (to people he can’t take advantage of while lying to himself) but the issue is his and your interactions here; so the question should be “what!…..” then not so much as move on as much as who cares about this dick head.
I went to the Johnny Dep flic,I never saw it before,good movie.
Everyone attending were polite and well behaved.It was a nice cool evening to sit outside.
I left the wine at home.lol
yeah but kitty, at least i don’t suck cocks, or pick up strange guys in bars. better smell your own shit first you little piglet. no wonder you don’t have a man. you got too big a fucking ego. and after first meeting/meating you, they run away screaming.
… says the toothless old bagrot who hit on her for months and was shot down, constantly.
Sour, pissy old (ass) grapes.
Go fuck yourself, Gary.
Wp
Get a haircut Abraham!!
i had 6 inches cut off, i think i lost 5 lbs^^
Troodon
You ever try sitting under leather next to preheated metal for 12 hours with an afro?
“you got too big a fucking ego. and after first meeting/meating you, they run away screaming.”
“… says the toothless old bagrot who hit on her for months and was shot down, constantly.”
If not wanting some toothless old perv who reeks of cigarette smoke and dried up old piss is having a ‘too big a fucking ego,’ then sign. me. the. fuck. up.
IMO …nothin wrong with a little lady with a fat ass
just sayin’, not in any way showing favoratism to one individual or another. FYI I love big tits as well ~;)
Well … this is some other level fuckery.
“THE HEART HAS ITS REASONS THAT REASON KNOWS NOT OF”
(Anon.)
The poster’s question, “Why?” presupposes that there are reasons for her friend’s actions. That is what is entailed in the word. One does not ask “Why?” if one does not expect the production of reasons.
But what is a reason? According to The Concise Oxford Dictionary a reason is a, “Fact, adduced or serving as argument, motive, cause or justification.” The friend failed, or more wisely, never attempted to formulate, an argument, motive, cause or justification. The reason (!) he did this was because he knew that “Why?” was the wrong question. It relates to those matters in relation to which cognitive factors have force in these circumstances and these circumstances are precisely those in which the demand for reasons is misconveived. The friend, in philosophical terms, is a “non-cognitivist.”
In love, in “reasns of the heart,” such cognitive factors are not commonly seen to obtain. Love, it is maitained, is not a rationally explicable concept. That is because, for those who adhere to this view, it is not a concept at all. It is an emotion. These people have a non-cognitivist position on emotions. However, this then raises the further or second-order question as to whether or not emotions have a “cognitive core” at all.
How can one determine whether there are cognitive grounds on the basis of which the selection of one mate rather than another is to be based? This is one of the problems of aesthetics, the philosophy of beauty. In very general terms, where some consensus exists on what beauty or handsomeness might consist, there appear to be grounds for advancing a cognitivist argument for mate selection. One thinks of female beauty, for example, in the conventional sense – blond hair, large breats, wide hips, a throbbing vagina and so forth. At the individual level, however, such consensus appears to falter and mate-selection descends to the largely idiosyncratic. In other words, for the non-cognitivist, there appear to be no “reasons” for mate selection at all. But does this mean that such mate selection is totally random? Does it mean that mate selection is little more than a flip of the coin? Must we, in this regard, all descend into incoherence. But the mind rebels.
Write back soon with your thoughts.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
It’s good to see sitcoms promoting a more realistic view of female body image:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAHp5lv4RQo
More On
“More plump the better the pump”
Or so they say.
If the person is too thin if would be like fucking a bag of bones.
“You ever try sitting under leather next to preheated metal for 12 hours with an afro?”
It’s on my list but I haven’t had the chance to do that yet. Do you recommend it?
those two douchebags deserve each other. one is fucked bodily, the other is fucked in head. yeah kitty, you don’t smell so good yourself you know. you is just a little stinky piece of shit. and wheelie, he has to douse himself in shit to hide the fact, that maybe he is like the french, and don’t shower much. and kitty, eat my shit piglet.
i really love going after these two idiots. hey meaty, are you on for a tag team, i got them primed and ready to go. and let’s not leave zilla out of it either.
” yeah kitty, you don’t smell so good yourself you know. “
Only if sunshine, cupcakes and rainbows smell bad.
😉
Keep it comin’ Gummy!
you have the cognizant mental faculties of a used piece of TP.
damn it, kitty snuck in.
that was for LS.
“You ever try sitting under leather next to preheated metal for 12 hours with an afro?”
It’s on my list but I haven’t had the chance to do that yet. Do you recommend it?
I’m alittle thick at times so I don’t understand your comment.Explain please.If you will be so kind?
Just a lame attempt at humour Boru. As if anybody would have sitting under leather next to preheated metal for 12 hours as something they would want to do, with or without an afro.
Daniel used the question to explain why he keeps his hair short, I used the question as though it was something to try. Now the joke has died a very painful death.
You’re working on a pretty mean ‘Fro yourself Boru.
Talking about leather,In Ottawa they had a Fetish Convention over the weekend.People who like to dress all in leather to be dragged around like a dog.
troodon – It’s OK, I got it. Irony, right? 😉
I didn’t want to use the word “irony” for fear people would think I was trying to be “ironic”. Shit I did it again!