How do I make her see…or is it me that is blind…never felt quite like this before…can no longer intellectualize this…body and mind out of sync…humbled beyond my own comprehension…too many have let such things fade away… —one man needing a little help.

This article appears in Mar 6-12, 2014.

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  1. Have you tried just talking to her OP, or maybe spending some time with just her? If you show you are interested in who she is as a person, then she might relax enough to open up to you and you might feel confident enough to get a little more personal–let her know your really like her. She might surprise you and do the same–maybe she doesn’t know/think you are interested in her.

    If you keep trying to intellectualize whatever your sitch is, then she is only gonna think you either don’t really like her (because when we intellectualize it’s like we need to make an excuse for how we feel, often because we are embarrassed or uncomfortable with our feelings), or that you are not ready to cope with whatever feelings you may have for her, for any number of possible reasons.

    Who knows, maybe she feels the same way about you OP. I hope you make the leap and that it all works out aces for you dude 🙂

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  3. Wow…zZzedwrd..bitter much? I for one agree with Shesang…you gotta tell this girl how you feel.I for one would be thrilled if the object of my affections professed his love( or lust..I’m not picky) for me, but he doesn’t even know I’m alive.Or maybe he does, but he’s not into me.Either way, I say go for it.Worst she can say is she’s not interested, but you sound like a sweet, sensitive guy, so my guess is she likes you too.Good luck getting your girl.Though I don’t think you’ll need it. 🙂

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  4. OP you have to meet with her to tell her how you feel.

    I know all too well that unrequited love is a bitch.

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