You’ve been seeing them both behind each other’s backs for years. They’ve both been friends of mine since childhood. I’m not terribly close with them but I consider one of them to be my close friend, the other is also a friend, although we don’t really chill. I’m not his biggest fan, but he doesn’t deserve this.
This bitch is not to say don’t do what you’re doing, it’s your business and no one else’s. You should just keep it that way. Everybody and their dog knows what’s going on but the two of them. It’s simple: if you don’t want anyone to know, don’t tell anyone.
Don’t expect the whole goddamn town to cover for you. It disgusts me that you expect me to lie or withhold the truth from 2 guys I’ve known since I was 6 and 9 respectively. Me and you have never been that close. I don’t know why I don’t just pick up the phone and tell them both, I guess it’s not my business or my place. Someone could very well end up dead over this, and you know this.
The worst part is these guys would both probably die for you at the drop of a fucking hat, and you really aren’t worth all this adoration and attention they are giving you. Not by a long shot. They both think you’re their one and only, you live with one of them for Pete’s sake. You say you love them both and don’t want to hurt either of them. Bullshit. Just admit you’re a selfish bitch. If either one of them finds out I’d bet my left nut it WILL turn very very ugly. I don’t know what I’d do if I was either of them and found out the truth.
I hate that I know this shit that is clearly not my business, keep your shit to yourself, because your friends have big fucking mouths. —Done Covering For You
This article appears in May 5-11, 2011.
Call them up….it’s worth it for the drama it’ll create. That cunt is playing them both.
Damn things keep breeding, grumble, grumble….
don’t get involved, best advice hee.
Yes, all joking aside, don’t get involved. It’s going to be messy enough as it is. Like watching a car wreck in slo-mo. Or, it might just fizzle out on its own. Either way, it’s a case of holding your tongue & being there for friends … if they choose to bring you into their confidence. Otherwise, as galling as it is, you’re actually on the outside looking in.
I don’t think the OP wants to get involved, they just don’t like it that she can’t keep her business private yet expects everyone else to. I hate knowing other people’s business gossipers drive me nuts.
What a moron. Good on you for staying out of it.
As for the eventuality of this situation, give her enough rope and she’ll hang herself. Somewhat like Harper’s majority.
IF you actually care at all for any of the 2 unsuspecting guy’s. In my experience nothing good comes from not informing him.
Its definately easier to say nothing.
But in the future a child, or 2 could end up in the mix !
Then there’s the real possibility of STD’s, because if there’s 2 why can’t there be 3 , 4 or more ?
I’ve got no problem with those who want to live a lifestyle of multiple partners…if thats spelled out & all are aware, when that isn’t the case
its wrong .
I hope the person being played the fool will not hold it against you for allowing it to continue. You say you are close to one of them, that everyone knows but him. A friend would let somethig slip. Would you like to be your friend, fishing in a polluted pond.
Often times people in these situations are in denial and won’t believe anyone but the person who is 2 timing them. It just helps them sleep better at night. I have a feeling that both these guys OP speaks about could find out the truth rather easily if they really wanted to. Love clouds your reasoning sometimes. I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut because people need to find things out for themselves most of the time, especially young people.
Wow, tough dilemma. I have intervened when I KNEW my best friend’s slapper GF was cheating, and he took for her in the end, I mean, how could SHE lie? Almost a year later, he pulled his head out of his ass, after SHE dumped HIM for the other guy… I still think people should say something, but for some strange reason, they cuckold never seems to want to admit it. Cunt-struck, as my Dad calls it??
OP, flip a coin. Damned either way.
Guyute…damned if you do, damned if you don’t…good point.
Maybe PO needs to see what the fuss is all about… knothole? Hoover? Sex Maniac? All 3?
I think Sgt. Schultz (Hogan’s Heroes) said it best, “I know nothing! Nothing!”
3some? Yeah, sounds like this would be a fine arrangement for the trio. ~ And I’ll take a wager on your left nut as it could be MINE! ~ mmmm, nutz
i enjoy mixed nuts
no mine are both the same. none mixed here. the only nut that is strange, is the one on my shoulders. painy and koda, fun times????
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGmNqzbsuiY
Well…if neither knows about the other, I would simply drop a hint to each of them that there are rumours going around about her. Don’t drop the names of the other guy if you suspect that people will get hurt or worse. Simply tell each of them that you’ve heard some crazy stuff about the girlfriend, then let it go. You’ll have done your best at that point, really, to bring the truth to light and to keep peace among the bro’s.