It’s been just over two months since you broke up with me, and I must thank you for it.
You blamed me for a lot of problems in your own life, and I’m sorry if basically letting you live with me rent-free wasn’t enough in return for the guilt-ridden drives and reluctant offerings of food that you took upon yourself.
I’m enjoying my life so much more now – I’ve made dozens of good friends and taken a lot of big strides to improve my health and general well-being since you left; the biggest of which being the abandonment of vices and a huge improvement in my diet. So thank you, and here’s hoping that you stop pulling the victim card and work on getting your life out of the self deprecating pit you’ve dug for yourself.
You’re a good person deep down and deserve more than self-hate. —Fishyface
This article appears in Jul 29 – Aug 4, 2010.
nothing wrong with pits…
they have all the amenities of a cave.. only without the roof to stop the cold, hard rain from saturating the worthless remains of the depressed, useless heap who continues to dig deeper and deeper.
I know people like this who have been this way their whole lives and still are this way in middle age and beyond. Perhaps it is more to do with the way their personality types cope with the various stressors in their lives and how it allows their personal development to become ‘stuck’ than anything else. Maybe the key is finding someone with a compatible personality type who shares a similar level of intelligence, values and outlook on life. Or remaining single and enjoying life happily on one’s own. Consider the bullet well dodged, OP, as onward you go…
The OP has far more empathy for that person than I ever would. I’d say good riddens.
i had an ex something like that, she must have been satan’s sister. tried to alienate me from friends and family, and i said no fucking more, after putting in close to 2 years. you are lucky to get rid of that person you were with, dragging you down.
How did that Alanis Morissette song go? You live, you learn, you love, you learn… Your bitch reminds me of that song. Hopefully your ex finds what you have found.
hey op i just thought of something, your bitch “two months of intense change” has chick flick box office smash written all over it 🙂
Fishyface
reminds me of khall
sounds like the break up was the best thing for you; i totally understand that; I’m in a similar boat and feel great. best of luck!
That is one pile of relationship ashes I would gladly Riverdance in.
Must have taken two months to find a new sucker. So what’s the problem with the new one? Figure it out yet?
Why not be yourself and live independently?
Don’t tread on oldhand, y’all.
I’m single still, whoever you are 🙂
camping is in tents!
loverly groaner LL^^
what the hell are you people talking bout me no capice
i’m not really sure martym…just figured i’d tag along
oh ok just thought i was being slow on the draw 🙂
are you a female fishyface, if so, i’m a male, hint, hint.