To the ass that came to my house and had other intentions then to just have a couple of drinks with me and some friends. Where do you come off? How old are you again…..37 OH YA!!! You invited me to have some drinks with you and another co-worker at his apt. we go over and you whine and bitch about the drinks he gave you, and the fact that he smokes in his own house. So I invited you and him to my place, then I invite some friends over, you proceed to make comments all night, and look at the my friends like you want to punch them, you sat in the corner and didn’t say a word, and the funny thing is you had to stay at my house because you were too drunk to drive….funny how 2 shots will make a 250lbs man drunk!! WHATEVER!! AND THEN you tell my friends that they have to leave because you have to sleep….cuz, u know what, fuck off, they were leaveing anyways but if anyone was getting kicked out of my house it was you. You made everyone uncomfortable, you were rude and you should grow the fuck up!! My friends were scared to leave me alone with you and I can’t believe I actually said it would be fine, your a creep!! But I decided I would let it go so work wouldn’t be uncomfortable, then I get to work and everyone is being weird with me, like you went and said things that are untrue, and then when you see me you have a big sleezey grin on your face, your a greasey asshole, and I hope to fucking god I don’t have to see you around this office very much!! Grow the fuck up and stop going after woman who are twice as young as you, dirt bag! I have to say I’m pretty curious of how you even thought for a second you would have a chance with me, hahahah GROSS!
This article appears in Mar 27 – Apr 2, 2008.


There were about four points there in your story where warning alarms should have gone off and you should have bailed on this loser instead of letting him spend the night. Hope you learned some valuable lessons and can nip shit heads like that in the bud about 4 hrs earlier in the night from now on….and listen to your friends.
If this man does ANYTHING…anything at all..at work that leaves you feeling uncomfortable, tell your boss. Charge him with harrasment. And please…NEVER stay late and NEVER go anywhere alone with this guy.
If i were you, i wouldn’t even give this douche the satisfaction of acknowledgement. Don’t even respond to any rumors he may have started, and DEFENITELY don’t socialize with him anymore. What goes around comes around. Stay out of the rumor mill, and eventually people will move the gossiping onto someone else. A guy like this always ends up pissing off the wrong people..it’s just a matter of time.