I met this lady online about 12 weeks ago. Both of us are the same age, early forties, she was once a bigger lady and lost a pile of weight, I myself in very great shape and look young for my age. The relationship started very hot and torrid…sex for hours on end. In between romantic dates…nice restaurants, music, et cetera. The sex became hotter and hotter as each week passed by. My goal to begin with along with hers was long term at least I thought it was. Long story short, I elected to stay home just once. The classy caper dumped me via text on Monday! —fuzzymatch
This article appears in Aug 2-8, 2012.
Is she the one that does the great 69 and makes the best chocolate cake?
You banged a Caper? Geezuz, that’ll learn ya!
Maybe she was just fucking you for the free meal deal.
SHould have surprised her with the shocker!
Dummy, you should’ve checked with DND to see which RCN ships are due back this week.
SO, NOW YOU WILL GET ALL FUCKING NASTY ABOUT HER, RIGHT?
I don’t think anything I said was Nasty….just stated what happened. Learn from it and move on. These kinds of things throw you for a loop when you are younger. Under estimated the maturity.
Pretty gross but sounding way too familiar eerie familiar! Coincidences warrant a Doctor’s appointment. Play safe!
What does the fact that she was once a bigger lady who lost weight got to do with it? You elected to be a dick and cancel your date, probably at the last minute. Maybe she wasn’t feelin your inattentive vibe. Ah well you can always elect lefty or righty as your next gf.
Just telling a complete story..lo
sing the weight was very admirable. The date was cancelled over a day in advance. Lighten up and I mean that in the figurative sense! All good!
You deserve a pat on the back for trying to make her feel comfortable in her own skin.Perhaps she felt you canceled the date because you didn’t like her body.Perhaps ‘you’ were not the problem,her own hangups about how ugly she thinks her body looks as the result of her weight lose was the problem.
She was gorgeous in my eyes and I let her know it. Just a slight mixup on our communication that weekend which not only clarified and apologized profusely….even added flowers! To no avail, unfortunately. At the time seemed to be a lot to give up considering the time, effort and lots of chemistry we shared. You don’t expect that in your early forties. I originally posted last Friday so I had a few more days to dwell on it. Time to saddle up and move on. Happily ever after is out there…thought she was it! 🙂
The maturity level which should be there for your age, obviously was not there for her. You’re probably better off finding this out after 12 weeks, rather than 12 years.
Fuzzy wuzzy wasn’t very fuzzy was she?
Sheeeeeee probably has a bunch of loose skin and shit.
That’s what happens when you lose a lot of weight.
This guy on that TLC show where they do gastric by pass looked like he had a ‘skin skirt’ covering his dick/ass.
Too bad you didn’t meet someone worthwhile. I’ve found this happens a lot of the time when you meet someone online. It seems like they think because the relationship started via meeting on a website it is somehow an expendable type of relationship no matter what they say they are lookig for. That’s why I gave up on online dating. There is so much potential for misrepresentation. Don’t despair the right woman is out there. The worst thing you can do is lose hope. I haven’t lost mine.
pretty kitty… “A lot of weight” could mean 30-50 lbs… and if she has good elasticity in her skin and works out regularily, she won’t be all hangy like that. And there are lots of great body oils that tighten the skin too. People only get that apron of hangy skin when they lose hudreds of lbs.
OP, Fuzzy Logic, you are what I would consider an asshole. You slyly insult the woman here, puff up your own image, suck up to the females (poor me, I am such a nice guy) attempt to ingratiate yourself with the men by talking about torrid sex. Ha! You just oooze middle aged insecurity with a really big anti-female chip on your shoulder. and as for the so-called torrid sex, you sound more vanilla than my dogs’ ice cream cones. and you’re really creepy.
Thanks GDM but you are so way off. Must be the Dr. Phil reruns?! Posted here because I know she frequents this blog and hopefully realizes how petty and silly this whole episode has been. Possibly open up and at least discuss things with her. That was my only intention. I am not scorned just have questions and believe the time, effort and feelings were too good to throw away. Knowledge I have from having a successful marriage. (Widowed). Don’t sit back and even attempt to judge me, you are no where close to being qualified!
hmmm creepier yet. So you deliberately chose a venue where the object of your affections could easily be recognized and become an object of ridicule? not even a hint of honour in your behaviour. and your tone is smarmy, I wag my private parts in your aunty’s face, b’god.
If that is what it takes to put a good thing back on track. Yes a little unorthodox. The medium is there,
might as well use it. No luck just the same. Live and learn. Fyi and in parting, your so called boring vanilla ice cream did become very useful in the bedroom. 🙂