Lisen, I realize that you are probably mentally ill and there is no point in trying to reason with you because you will twist what I have to say to your own benefit. But to your group of followers who cant or choose not to recognize a mental illness if it walked up and slapped them in the face. You people should step back and take a look at your own lives before you go critizicing, lying, terrorizing, and bullying another. If you have children maybe they could teach you a thing or two about cyber bullying. Maybe not if the apple doesnt fall far fron the tree. Maybe you should stop and think about how your actions have affected someone elses life. I hope you all get what is coming to you. In whatever form Karma chooses to take. And when it does, somewhere, I will be smiling. —Have a Nice Life
This article appears in Feb 21-27, 2013.
delusional much are we? maybe you, not others needs the help you speak of? or is this directed to the bitchers on this board? you don’t give much other info here, and that’s what we need, more info, to better judge your bitch. without details, we are in the dark, and just have to say that you, are the nutcase here. sorry, but that’s how the crank turns. like it or don’t.
My instinct was to say what you did, Gary: “*we* need more info so *we* can make a judgement”.
Maybe it’s because I’ve had the worst flu of my life for 5 days, but what if the Bitch Board was also a kind of confessional, and the simple act of typing out your Bitch and sending helped you let go of it?
Things *have* become really personality driven here in the last while.
Just a thought.
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p.s. has your daughter put you mind to rest at all about moving yur grandchild out west? Like that she knows how connected you are to the child and wants you to keep that up?
loved your wrastling pics, pretty paul. i’ve had the crud for a few weeks, too much snot^^
http://www.troll.me/images/angry-samuel-l-…
Where did you see them, Painey? Fartbook?
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chirp chirp tweet, i don’t fart on books^^
Ah!
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If there is physical stalking, get a restraining order. If it is the Net, who gives a fuck. Why are people giving other people so much fucking power over them? Do yourself a favour, delete Face (Here’s my whole fucking life minute by minute) book and Twitter. Twitter, how aptly named. I guess users are called Twits.
OP What are your credentials?Who/what are you to say this person is mentally ill?Perhaps it’s you who is twisting the truth OP.We are only getting one side of the story here.
were you a dick/cunt tease OP?Did you string this person along? Just playing devils advocate.
no paul, i still guess it’s a go for them. til i get myself straightened out here, i can’t really do fuck all. but seriously dude, if i have to, i will move out there too, just to be close to my grand baby. when the suckster loves someone, it’s forever, and i know it gonna be real tough on her to leave me, while she goes with mom. hell, i’d even keep her with me, and take care of her myself while mom’s out west, and take her out in the summer.
but that isn’t how it’s gonna be, i know it in my bones. the old suckster is all misty eyed just thinking aboout it, later dude.
and as for the flu, had that shit for like 5 weeks, and it just keeps floating around, til you get it again, no shit. i was told it could last up tp 6 weeks or more, depending if you had a shot or not. i did, and it just aggravatedit more. it’s a combo type system this trip, h3n2, plus a thing called ndf, or new delhi flu.
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hell, i’d even keep her with me, and take care of her myself while mom’s out west, and take her out in the summer.
but that isn’t how it’s gonna be, i know it in my bones. the old suckster is all misty eyed just thinking aboout it, later dude.
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It might be easier for the mom to get settled in if you took care of her the first few months… Be proactive. Otherwise you never know if she’ll go for it.
When I get this sick I start to retain water, and my leg is sore as hell right now, and puffy. Blargh.
The past is whatever, but I really do wish you the best in this.
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Life Sucks That’s sweet of you just to offer to look after your grand baby. 🙂
P. Did you get a flu shoot?
I didn’t get one this year and I’ve been lucky so far,no flu.
I hope your been able to take it easy the past few days.
Get well soon. 🙂
yes paul, i do agree about the past, let’s just let it die. i have more important things eating at me right now, and yes, the little one is the main thing. i’m hoping that her mom will go along with my idea. the little one wasn’t really ready to start school last year anyway. she has to have a couple of minor surgeries, to help her hear better, and has to have her adinoids taken out.
she has a sleep aphnea type of thing. her ears need tubes or something, and she hears, but doesn’t understand what you say sometimes, unless you get loud to her. and that affects her coping, and learning skills. she is not dumb, or slow, just that she doesn’t hear everything in the right order.
but yeah, the old suckster has gone the way of the dino, but the sarcasm still lives in there. i will still do to the posters as you would do unto them too. catch ya later, gotta get some shuteye, been a long day, and got 2 zillion things to do tomorrow, before i pick her up for week end.
Gary I hope you don’t mind me trying to help.
My child is in his 20’s now. My child has unilateral hearing loss and ADHD, which caused a lot of problems for him while he was growing up.The hearing clinic at the IWK helped but they didn’t consider he could hear fine while in a sound proof room but, while in a classroom filled with many other other children,he had a very hard time hearing.So we went to APSEA and they were a great help.They sent an Itinerary Teacher a few times a year,every school year to my child’s school to talk with his classmates about his hearing loss and spoke with his teachers on ways to help my child learn better….My child is very bright but with hearing problems,ADHD and other health problems and being bullied which effected his schooling he ended up hating school and quit.
http://www.apsea.ca/
Atlantic Provinces Special Education Authority were a huge help.I imagine every province has their own.
I wish your grandbaby good luck and the best health.It certainly sounds she lucked out with having you for a grandfather.
“her ears need tubes or something, and she hears, but doesn’t understand what you say sometimes, unless you get loud to her. and that affects her coping, and learning skills. she is not dumb, or slow, just that she doesn’t hear everything in the right order.”
Tubes help SO many kids with their hearing. My half sister didn’t start talking until she was a bit older because she couldn’t hear and needed tubes. It’s a simple procedure and will help her SO much.
I really do hope things work out with your granddaughter, Gary. We might have our issues on here, but I only wish the best for your little one. Moving away from an adult you are close to when you’re so little is hard.
I’m with Kitty on this one – as much as there has been past issues, I hope that you and your granddaughter can keep your special bond. You sound like a very caring grandpa.
Tubes can make a huge difference with hearing.
I have first hand knowledge of that.
ttfn maybe those tubes would help you, worth a try.
Again, your congenital stupidity and stonelike obtuseness are showing through Wogshite.
A website is a visual medium, not an auditory one, you dumb cooze.
ivan MYOB okay. stick to defending your own self. you need all the brain cells u can muster to defend your own stupid remarks. if you two start trying to defend each others position your ship will really sink.
op i had to deal with a stalker recently. It involved public slander, threats and, when that didn’t work, harassing my friends and family.
You need to dissociate yourself entirely from this person> change your email. Change your phone number. warn your facebook friends, then block him on facebook and urge anyone else having issues with him to do the same. Unfriend mutual friends because, sorry, you can’t trust a mutual friend to be 100% faithful to you, even if you ARE in the right. Explain this to them and then block them too if you have to. Facebook seems unimportant but it’s not. It’s a tunnel directly into your life from any 6 degrees of separation and can cause you major issues if there is leakage.
I had to go back through my entire history and make EVERYTHING private. Pictures, status updates. Everything. The police wouldn’t even consider a restraining order until I had done this. Once i did all this, it actually got a lot better. He made a few new accounts to harass me with and i just kept blocking them without responding. The last i heard from him was from his mother (may also have been him) saying they would steal my identity if I didn’t give him five thousand bucks. I took a screenshot, blocked her and will have to go BACK to the police (who won’t help you at all..) if it goes any further.
You need to completely reinvent your life i’m afraid. It’s just how it is.
And for the love of god don’t react. Ignore this completely or it WILL get worse.
i also suggest you find a lawyer if you can afford it. Stalkers are SERIOUS weirdos. They will never stop unless they are unable to go further. They’re like Terminators.
People will say things like “dude. it’s just the internet. ‘Get Over It’. They’re just Words.”
Yes. Someone contacting your best friend and telling her you said awful, hurtful things about her.. those are just words. Someone using facebook to find your boss and telling him you’re stealing from the company. those are just words too. Someone telling your current partner you have AIDS? Yup. all i see are words here. None of those things were true, yet they caused a great deal of hurt and regret. Luckily my boss didn’t believe it for a second and actually warned me that someone was out to get me. My boyfriend didn’t believe it either, thankfully, since we were both screened for STDs before this all happened. But my best friend not only hated me for a few straight weeks. She was incredibly hurt and angry – and rightly so.
I used to say this. “Dude whatever… ‘words’…” But the truth is that words have the power to destroy your life when you’re an adult. As a kid it’s a little less severe. But adults have the power to destroy other adults. Don’t let anyone make you think you’re being too paranoid because at the end of the day, better to be too paranoid than not paranoid enough. I will say this again for dramatic emphasis. THESE PSYCHOS ARE LIKE TERMINATORS. You have to keep one step ahead of them.
Just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not out to get you.