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So I met you at Freemans, sweet and innocent you were.. we dated, we kissed and spend amazing night together.
Then I saw you with your fiance…and met 2 other girls who actually though you were single.. is there any one else?
What an f-ck—g prick you are, I feel bad for your fiancee. —M.V
This article appears in Apr 29 – May 5, 2010.
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What’s the lesson here folks?
I will never forget coming out of the bathroom at freeman’s and a cougar ambushing me and grinding me against the wall. I could feel the heat from her cougar vagina. *shudders*
Um he is single, he ain’t married yet. But you’re the one foolish enough to jump his bones as soon as you met him. What does that say about you?
Don’t hook up with dudes downtown. Ever.
it’s one thing to be a playa douche ; it’s a complete other to be an engaged dirt-bag
well sweetheart, i am single, and here for you, anytime at all.
Dingdingdingding! Pavillion got it! You win… Nothing. Sorry, just needed an excuse to be a dick.
Extra credit to LS who is still a greasy bastard.
You must have met my ex-fiance…
Some men are just looking for a sperm receptical and I guess you fit the bill for that night.
What gauls the fuck out of me is why men like this get engaged, let alone married. I knew a few guys like that – multiple marriages, multiple kids, multiple alimonies and they’re still sniffing around like a pig after truffles – twatflap truffles, that is.
Jesus tapdancing Christ TTFN. Every bloody time I read one of your posts I think of Wilde & Whistler.
James W. “I wish I had said that Wilde”
Oscar W. “You will James, you will”.
and got-dang it I do. Keep ’em coming.
thanks fever, i keep trying to be consistant here, you all know that,(takes a very deep bow).
I feel bad for ya, but douchebags feed on girls with bad judgment, those who drink too much, esteem or confidence issues. It’s nothing new. Takes two to tango.
refinedsugar – I agree with you but the inverse is also true.
Girls with bad judgment ( in men at least ) seek out the douchbags unconsciously and then complain to all their friends that ” there are no good guys in this city ” once they get fucked over by the loser a-hole THEY choose to hook up with.
The sad fact is for the women that inexplicably seem to always “attract” ( see: they seek out ) the biggest loser guys in the room are not turned on by nice guys who have their shit together. If they do end up with a nice guy they get bored from the lack of drama and either hit the road or do something over the top stupid to sabbatoge the relationship and it rarely lasts
I am sure everyone reading this post knows at least one woman who always “seems” to end up with the super aggressive tattooed guy who never seems to have a steady job or is always in a bar fight, or drunk, or high or is super possessive and talks down to her or *insert bad behaviour here* and once that guy is gone its a steady trickle of losers who all fit the same loser archetype… Ring a bell for anyone?
OP – Be happy this guy didn’t get you knocked up and chalk it up to a lesson learned. You got away unscathed without the involvement of lawyers or the courts. But something tells me your need for drama will compel you to tell the finance under a BS premise like “she deserves to know the truth”…DONT DO IT!!! DONT DO IT!!! DONT DO IT!!!
lovinglife, it’s too early yet to know if she got knocked up.
LS- your a classy guy bud ~8)
OP , I’m actually in agreement with you. He led you on, he has already asked someone to marry him which in my mind means he’s taken himself out of the Single’s Catagory as present day society views it.
Comments by those picking on you, are unimportant & IMO somewhat petty. What consenting adults do in their own time is IMO their business.
You took a chance, thought you connected, but the guy’s an ass instead of who you thought… because meeting a dirtbag has a higher probability than finding Mr Right unfortunately .
lovinglife – we’re in agreement on the inverse, girls with bad judgment in men, etc.
What makes it funny (and sad) is it’s a cliche and all cliches have an element of truth. Whenever we’ve experienced this first hand or not, we know it to be true. Some things just don’t change.
I do, however, disagree with your parting advice. I’m the last person who wants drama or conflict in my life, but I still believe the perspective fiancee deserves to know. Even if her reasoning is … clouded. How to go about this is another matter altogether.
“If they do end up with a nice guy they get bored from the lack of drama and either hit the road or do something over the top stupid to sabbatoge the relationship and it rarely lasts “
Ain’t that the truth.
You met at Freeman’s, kissed and did a little more…..damn girl, you’re easy.
Doesn’t it say they “dated”… wouldn’t that mean more than one night out? Either way the guy is an asshole – no matter if she was easy or not, he still lied and said he was single. His poor fiancee. Dude’s an ass.
Just another asshole…
Sorry to say this, but you will run into many more, until you meet that one nice guy who will be single, and not be another ass that plays games.