when a guy is too nice, you say he’s too needy; when they act like every dink, you say he’s an asshole.
i’ve been there before. the girls that played these games, they ended up marrying assholes.
why so complicated?
you’re reading too many self help experts? ease off and give the nice guy a break. he probably is the only decent person left.
This article appears in Jan 17-23, 2008.


I’m a nice guy:).. I got my break. One piece of advice, be patient. Believe me you don’t wanna end up with just any girl. The ones who end up marrying the asshole, well they married him for a reason. That’s what they look for. They believe that the asshole, who treats them the way he does, is the best they can do. They get off on being treated like crap because they have low self-esteem. If you also notice, most of them are those stuck up morons that go downtown clubing most of the time. Talk to one of them and see. You’ll change ur mind about trying to hook up with any of them the minute they open their mouths.