I’m not trying to date you… I’m really not. So stop acting weird when you get messages wanting to “hang out”… —Girls just want to have fun.
This article appears in May 27 – Jun 2, 2010.
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Guys just want to have fun too. Know what I’m sayin’?
gay guys are the same…..they all think you want to sleep with them. whatever happened to just grabbing a drink or hanging out? it’s doesn’t mean we’re going to end up banging.
just let him know he’s found himself in the ‘friend zone’ …
and that you want to grab lunch some time.
that ought to do it.
i just bet you say that to all the boys, but will go out with MEN.
There is no such thing as a friend, only a fuckbuddy.
Cut the ho loose, dude. She sounds like one of those bimbos who thinks every guy wants to fuck her because she wears LuLu pants and has bleached hair.
If you’re hot, good luck trying to find a guy who just wants to hang out and nothing else.
What’s a tom-girl to do dgaf? I’ve lost a lot of great guy friends on account of them developing feelings that I wasn’t reciprocating. It’s frustrating when you just want to hang and they want to bang. Dang!
I hear ya Oceanlady… gets weird quick. I grew up being “one of the boys”… since we hit 18 it hasn’t been the same. guys get girlfriends and can’t understand that you just want to hang out, or those guys get drunk and horny. So sad. Thankfully I still have a few of my childhood buds. But if they start getting all attached – you can’t be friends. Has to be both ways or leads to trouble.
I miss my guy friends – I still have a few but the best ones ended up with insecure, silly women who were sure I had slept with their precious honeybunny. I would have rather slept with a live bee hive.
I absolutely hate women! (I can say this because I am one :D) I have only had one girl friend that hasn’t turned around and stabbed me in the back and threw me in salt for no reason whatsoever other than people preferred to hang out with me, not them. Now, all of my friends are guys except for like two girls. There are some guy friends I had to cut loose because they developed feelings and it just became weird. And yeah, it’s pretty fucking impossible to become friends with a guy because they just start to think sex automatically.
They need this little thing called self-control.
You can be a guy, I am, have girls for friends, I do, be attracted to them, sure, even downright want to fuck ’em, let’s be honest, but one thing doesn’t equal the other.
yes yes yes yes- awesome bitch
oh yes o.p., by the way, i’m always up for some fun. let me know when we can do it.
Sorry OBer, I’m missing the filter that sorts that stuff out. I might know that you don’t want to get it on with me, but some part of my brain that most adults have is loose on the hinges in there and I just plunge full steam ahead. Now that I’m aware of the problem I try to keep it in check.
we aren’t capable of not letting on that we want to sleep with you until we’re in a serious relationship with another person. only then are we able to stop trying to get in yours pantolones. we do still think about it but at that point, we’ve learned to respect the woman we have and therefore can now respect the friendship we have with you.
my best friend turned into my wife. and not ‘best friend’ sappy love style. she actually was my best friend. now she’s my wife. still best friends. we just share property and sleep together now. i’m not being a jerk…just semantics here.
i still have lady friends i’m attracted to but like i said…i respect my wife and them enough not to act the way i would have 5 or 10 years ago.
i’m a secretly fantasizing coaster.
tbcr is so whipped.
Stop being such a prude and sleep with them already! God.
Funnily enough, I bet if you had an attractive guy friend who DIDN’T want to be with you, you’d probably be more likely to want to do them. Women rarely want what they can get but usually want what they can’t have.
AMEN! Even the ones you do want to just have fun with and casually date think you’re out to fucking marry them. Calm down boys just because I’m pawing at you one night doesn’t mean I want em’ all.