I know it took 20 years for you to reveal that you were a woman in a man’s body. I don’t have a problem with that or the surgery you intend to have.
So I see you post about your outrage at your unsupportive friends and your decision to cut off about 90% of your contacts.
Well, someone’s got to tell you this once and for all. Anytime any of us see you, you fucking get in everyone’s face to accept you as a woman. We have made the adjustment and told you so. But that wasn’t enough, you wanted us to be as militant as you. You just can’t see beyond your own rage. You complain you can’t get a job as a musician and you yowl about how no one will hire you because you are a transsexual. I can tell you for certain it’s more your rotten attitude and your shrill demands that keep you jobless. Like the screaming over being able to use the women’s washroom. You went on and on about that for fucking weeks.
So stew in your anger at the world. I’m tired of your hysterics.
—Bitching About A Bitch
This article appears in Sep 10-16, 2009.
I know three transexuals. Two are some of the nicest, well-adjusted people. I get on with them great, all they want is to be treated like normal people. One is passable, the other not, both act the same.
The third? Royal nutcase. Isn’t passable, and has a huge chip on their shoulder due to it. Doesn’t realize that it isn’t the lack of looking like a chic that gets them nowhere, but their whiny ass attitude. Normal people don’t whine if they’re the ones not getting laid on a given night- this one blames the attitudes of other for their sheer unattractiveness. Because they are a tranny, everyone should be willing to sleep with them.
I feel for you, Ida. At best, all you’ve got here is trade.
“My bass is worth too much to bring to the [Dartmouth] venue” goes quite a long way to getting hired or recruited into a working band. yup. sure. Tell G____ that’s why she’s not getting hired. That and everything you said, OP. Her entire reality revolves around her genitals and receiving validation from others and it’s *yawn* very tiresome and very confrontational… all the dam time. Tell her to shut up, show up and fucking play if she’s “all that”.